Wonderful discussion going on in this thread.Completely enjoyd reading everyone' viewpoints!!! Walden,infact you have raised brilliant points-1.An act that myt be justified in my eyes as an assault may seem to be just a mere outburst when viewed by the other.2..My reponse to a particular act might seem completely just for me,but for the other it myt seem as a lack of self control.This level of self control varies from person to person,so arent we wrong by calling the response of one person to an act as an assault and that of the other person as an outburst,just bcs the two acts differ in their levels in MY eyes.
So,basically both of your questions get back to the root i.e. everything depends on the persepective of an individual!! So,going by this logic,you would want every individual to refrain from using physical violence bcs ultimately its all his assumptions and his way of looking into a particular thing that is making him behave that way...I hope i got you right? I really got to agree with you in this.But somewhere i still find it difficult to completely apply this principle in real life bcs we all have our own traits and things that define us!!And the act of judging others for their acts and behaviours is something that comes naturally in all of us..And this ultimately decides our responses to them and to the circumstances that are before us.So,i think physical violence is something that comes spontaneoulsly along with our act of judging a person or a tough circumstance,so by completely objecting to it i feel somewhere its like we are detaching ourselves from what we are and trying to look at things ideally which is too difficult in the world in which we live..We hear abt heinous crimes everyday and just hearing dem boils our blood,then just imagine the condition one who has gone through all of this and then we expect that person to not retaliate just bcs at the end everything is just his/her personal interpretation to the act!!
And one more point that i would like to bring up here is about handling the wrong doers to the authorities!!An authority or an agency is once again made up of individuals,so by handing over these wrong doers to them,we are just passing on the reponsibility of interpreting the situation to them!! And finally the judgement with which they wud come up can again be called as a personal interpretation and therefore unjust!!How reliable can a third person or an agency be in its judgement by just being a silent listener to the plight of the person who has gone through the worst!!We are just passing on the baton to someone to judge the situation according to his/her perspective!
So,this debate can never really end!!! When one side seems perfectly right,and just having a look at other side we cnt stop saying 'Oh this is also right'...
Rishi,a happy-go-lucky guy,who lived his life in his own terms with a bit of naughtiness,a touch of playfulness and the right proportion of innocene and wit.But life had its own way to transform this guy with his ever charming smile into a man who is stuck and torn by the ways of destiny,fate or whatevr one wud like to call it.The play of destiny is such that whichever road this man takes now,he is bound to be shouted and yelled by the world all along his journey,taunting him for his acts,thoughts and deeds,in the process forgetting that its response wouldnot have changed even a bit for any road taken by him!!!He was taunted as a man who runs behind every other woman masked as indira.But for him,he dint fall in love with Zara' face or thoughts or acts,but rather he fell in love with her being,in whom he saw no one other than his lost love!!He was then questioned if he would still love her if she doesnot turn out to be his wife,His answer was a clear silence.He was praised by the world for his loyalty for his lost wife and on the other side he was bad mouthed for playing with another girl' life.Ahhh!!!!This was the beginning of his journey ,wherein whichever road he takes,he cant escape the harsh words of the people aroud him.Somewhere deep within,in the silence of his heart,he knew that he had fallen in love again,for the second tym,right infront of his eyes without his knowledge,but his heart kept on assuring him that the lady infront of him is his wife alone.And now when the reality is clear and bright before him,he slowly unravels the knots in his mind and speaks out the truth to the world!!!Yes!!!!!He has fallen in love once again.He accepts it with dignity rather than trying to be a confused soul cursing his destiny.At the same time,he wont forget his past for the b'ful tomorrows.He rises and takes the responsibility of taking care of the one who needs him the most now!This man has always been true to his heart and today once again he proved it without fail.Once can question as to what happened to the so called eternal love between inshi? Were those 8 years nothing but a waste infront of the few months since the birth of Zashi?Nopes,the truth is yet to be revealed.As of now, assuming Zashi and Inshi as two completely different things,I can only say that i respect this character called Rishi for the dignity that he has shown in moving on with his present without forgetting to carry his past along with him!!
Nice post Pari di!!!! 👏...I have always been an Inshi lover and somewhere i dont connect to Zashi much(though i watch the epi only if there is a zashi scene😆...The credit to that definitely goes to SV-RP for the b'ful chemistry that they share.)But i must say that in your post,i loved your description of Zashi more than Inshi,maybe because Inshi have always been close to my heart but when it comes to Zashi there is always a moral dilema in accepting the couple for me.!!! And yesss,to some extent,I have begun to feel good about Zashi after this post of yours..😛..A big big thanx for dat di!!Hope to see many more posts from your side!!!!!
Well,there has been a lot of fuss and tension in the forum since yesterday questioning the morality and integrity of Zara and most importantly fingers are raised over Zara' womanhood!!!That is the most saddening part of this whole issue.Before we play the roles of a faher,a mother,a husband,a wife,a friend or a lover,every individual is first a humanbeing...The world still survives and is held together because of the band of love,care and concern that each one of us shares for our fellow beings.If we just place ourselves in Zara' shoes and think not as a wife,not as a cop,not as a friend,not as a neighbour but as a woman,we can truly realise the hidden beauty of this wonderful character Zara!!!!The woman here dint even think of the moral dilemma that a married woman goes through in such a situation,the only thing that mattered to her was a life that was at risk,a life that was about to breath its last...Can we be sooo selfless to think this way and that too in a society where every action of women is judged n questioned.In real life,its sooo sooo difficult to even think of doing what Zara has done.But no, we are out here to scream and shout over Zara,shamelessly questioning her womanhood just because she shares some unknown feelings and emotions for Rishi that too,without her knowledge...By her act,the character Zara has truly gained respect in my eyes.I wud like to end up by saying that we are always free to look at the things the way we want to.We are free to chose a half filled or a half empty glass!!!!!😊
A wonderfull post di!!!👏..I agree with u that some relations are just too pure to be ruled by the ways of the world!!!!!The character Rishi has always been criticised for various reasons that are soo contradictory to each other.Once he was criticised that he dosent care for his wife at all.His marriage meant nothing more than his unborn child!!!!His love for his wife was questiond just because of the father in him who cared for his child which was going to enter this world.And later,when he kept away from his daughter,lost in the memories of his wife,people once again critcised,but with an altogether different reason.This time the father in him was questiond."How can he do this to his daughter?".."He dosent deserve to be one.He cant be soo heartless."Its just that sometmes the urge to criticise a character just diminishes our ability to think from the pov of that character.The character Rishi has been a b'ful and a heart touching character.I agree that Rishi has erred at times,but questioning every act and behaviour is not right.We all know that Rishi' love for his wife and daughter is too pure to be put to test .But i can only say that the world appears to us the way we want it to.😛
OMG!Wat a b'ful post di! It rarely happens dt aftr finishing reading,i scroll up again to read d post once mor! Today i cudnt stop myslf frm doing dt! Wat alwys catche my attention in ur posts are your titles!!!! Dey b'fuly convey evrytn in just a few words! Nw dat is wat i cal as b'ful wrting!!!!! Coming to d post,yes true love is smtng dt is too pure to be put into words! Love is such a 'ful word! Infact,d whole world runs nt bcs of money,material,fame or success but bcs of ds four letterd word calld love ! Our love for our near n dear ones n dr love for us keeps us alive! Its smtng dt cn nly be felt! Inshi are one such manifestation of true love! Wat say abt dm? V hav al been a part of dr journey n nw we are in a new path wondering on d way whether d ones wt us are inshi or zashi!!!! Bt tym wud tel us evrytn soon..And d best part is dt ds journey has been sch a b'ful one soo far inspite of al d ups n downs n hopefuly wl continue to touch our souls just d way it has been doing so far!
I felt d behavior of Rishi justified when he cm to knw dt shwetha was ready to be d surrogate mother. At one syd,he was vry grateful to her n on d odr syd,the thots of his wife' condition made him behave harshly wt shweta.Bt placing myslf in shweta position,i rly feel bad for hr and especially wn rishi said dt she is ntng bt a 'kiraye ki kok' for his daughter!Bt aftr watching yesterday' epi,i cn say dt rishi was indeed a bit rude with shweta! Evn after 9 months,hs bitterness for shweta has nt at al decreasd!Its vry important for him to just think of what and al shweta has sacrificed in her personal lyf just for bringing indu into ds world!He shudnt take her for granted and also respect her emotions!Shweta defntly dosent deserve ds kind of a response frm rishi!bt once agn,i cnt hold rishi cmpltly at fault because at present his love for hs wife is making hm behave dt way!
For me shwetha isn't selfish!Frm what ever i have seen in hr chrctr so far,i feel lyk ds!She never rly wantd to cm in between Indira n Rishi!Its just dt d circumstances are making hr a barrier btwn inshi!And as far as hiding d truth is concernd,after al v are al humanbeings.Dr r things wch v truly love n knw dt v are nevr gng to get dm,bt dt dosent stop us frm believing dt one fyn day v wud be having dm!Dr is alwys dt ray of hope deep within us!Ricky is d one person for whm shweta has been waiting al hr lyf.Its nt at al easy to gv up ur desires n dreams just wn u r a foot away frm it!At dt moment of dilemma,shweta just placed hrslf ovr odrs!Dats al!I hv alwys found sm sort of innate gudness in hr chrctr n just bcs of dt act of hers,i cnt label hr as selfish!Am nt telling dt she is ryt!Am just justifying dt human tendency to sometyms plc ourselvs bfr odrs to get smtng dt v truly desire!
Ahhh! Its a really difficult question to answer dhanya di! On one hand,Rishi must be d one who shud decide wht must happen in his lyf.It is he who has gt al d rights to decide abt hs future lyf..so gng by ds thot,i feel Indira must nt force hr decisions on Rishi! But wn i look at d situation frm Indira' pov,i hav gt only praises for hr! Hum unhi par apna hak chalate hai jo hamare sabse kareeb hote hai! So in getting rishi married,her only and only intention is to see hr hubby happy wn she is no mor. Its vry difficult for me to criticise sch a selfless love! So as far as am concernd,i cnt cm to any firm stand as to who is ryt and who is wrong!
A b'ful post pari di! I especially lykd d sentence dt today rishi ws fighting with himself! How true! D shock and d numbness dt follows aftr d truth is out,d guilt for one' past acts,d helplessnes looking at d harsh ways of d world,d thots and the associatd pain of loosing a dear one..evrytn ws b'fully portrayed in today' epi.. A wondrful piece of acting by SV..I vry mch lykd hs expressions wn he rises up aftr bowing bfr god! It ws too gud for me then!
I ws really wondering wat d post cud be about aftr reading your topic... A very b'ful post indeed..its so much true..wn v cmpr such situations to real life cases, we wud alwys be in a dilemma if we were in dt dad' position..at one syd v have d fear of getting a kidney frm a prsn who hs gt BT n on the othr syd the lyf of our son will be in danger if delayed..i agree dt dr is no connctn btwn brain n liver..but in real lyf,i tnk evryone wud hav done the same thng at dt instant of tym..how much evr d doctor may convinc,stl dr wud be sm kind of fear deep in our hearts...but the way indira was treatd after tht ws too inhumane.. in our busy day to day lives,we forgt d very qualities tht define a human..wish dr was sm kind of heart trnsplantation wch cud give us a b'ful heart n make al of us wondrful humanbeings!
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