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rima

@rima

Stunner

+ 10

Posted: 12 years ago

When a colleague gives unhealthy competiton, normally people bear a grudge for a few days

When a friend hurts, normally people bear a grduge for a while

When enemies hurt or attack, normally people bear grudges for long

But is it possible to bear a grudge against a person we have never met?

Is it possible to sustain this hatred month after month, after every interview?

Is it possible to stoop low enough to pick on his every flaw, personal and professional, every day?

Is it possible to keep on sustaining hate for the offense of leaving a show?

Such hatred should not even be given to enemies, because they are just humans too

Such hatred should be sustained against henious social offenders like murderers and rapists and serial killers, but even they have been provisioned with mercy petitions by law

This forum has been an eye opener in terms of human behaviour

A man who was perfectly all right 3 months ago

Has suddenly turned into a monster or worse than a crminal

Hate hurts the person hatng more than the person being hated

Because he is oblivious to what is written about him

But every word we write is a poison which corrodes our soul

Sure this is preaching

But preaching is better than words of hate

PS: Equally unhealthy is the obsession over an actor's looks, his every move and his body assets

An actor at the end of the day is a public property, but a living, breathing and feeling entity, irrrespective of who he is

Now dont even begin on Gul and Vraaf and Star Plus

Last 3 months has only been about Barun, Barun and Barun

So much so, a neutral person like me who has never made much posts for Barun, am doing it regularly, because it is beyond Barun now

It is now about ethics and etiquettes and hatred in a social forum

Go ahead and bash me

I welcome it

If even one person gets the message of 'do not hate'

then it is worth the bashing

And this post is not targeted at groups

it is targeted at hate and hate alone

Edited by rima - 12 years ago

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Tanumon

@Tanumon

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Posted: 12 years ago

iss obsession ko mein kya nam doon?

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DushtKanya

@DushtKanya

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Akadu Singh Arnav

Posted: 12 years ago

These people love Barun more than we do that's why they can't help but talk about him so much. Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon?

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rima

@rima

Stunner

+ 10

Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Tanumon
iss obsession ko mein kya nam doon?

I wish I knew

I truly dont know

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vaish

@-vaishnavite-

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

Great post, Rima. The forum has gotten mad from both sides. Avid Barun fans are attacking Sanz with vengeance and Avid Sanaya fans are RIPPING apart Barun's image.

Why can't anyone remember that it was SANAYA AND BARUN who entertained us for 1.5 yrs??? Whatever their personal decisions and your viewpoint, they MADE the ArHi and IPKKND love story along with the rest of the cast.

As I say time and time again, criticizing those who gave you a good show is simply biting the hand that feeds you. We all make choices. Live and let live.

Barun is bashed and focused on in this forum only because he is a true actor -- one that wishes to focus on the acting and be himself, and not focus on fame.

Oh, so just because you lost your form of entertainment, it gives you the right to bash someone BEYOND REASON?

Barun is being bashed more than anyone I've seen so far in my life, be it politics or anything else. This is the truth.

Barun, my admiration for you has strengthened through the piteous state of the forum,

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deeptha93

@deeptha93

Navigator

+ 2

Posted: 12 years ago

bang on post! i''ve always followed your posts..being a silent member..

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Reema

@Ree1306

Dazzler

+ 4

Posted: 12 years ago

True..! Every interview of his is discussed 2 such limits that finally it divides d forum once again..! I dont think even bollywood stars r given soo much attention which Barun gets from his bashers..!

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rima

@rima

Stunner

+ 10

Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: desi-glam
Great post, Rima. The forum has gotten mad from both sides. Avid Barun fans are attacking Sanz with vengeance and Avid Sanaya fans are RIPPING apart Barun's image.

Why can't anyone remember that it was SANAYA AND BARUN who entertained us for 1.5 yrs??? Whatever their personal decisions and your viewpoint, they MADE the ArHi and IPKKND love story along with the rest of the cast.

As I say time and time again, criticizing those who gave you a good show is simply biting the hand that feeds you. We all make choices. Live and let live.

Barun is bashed and focused on in this forum only because he is a true actor -- one that wishes to focus on the acting and be himself, and not focus on fame.

Oh, so just because you lost your form of entertainment, it gives you the right to bash someone BEYOND REASON?

Barun is being bashed more than anyone I've seen so far in my life, be it politics or anything else. This is the truth.

Barun, my admiration for you has strengthened through the piteous state of the forum,

I agree with you

especially the bold words

I have never ever ever seen such bashing hatred

it is sickening

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ArnieBoyBarun

@ArnieBoyBarun

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 12 years ago

Nice post as always Rima.

I just have one doubt who are these people who comments on his drawbacks, are they perfect. They are enjoying the freedom of anonymity. In real life, do they have even 0.01% guts to question anyone for any wrong doings? If they have, i will accept they are courageous people. They are enjoying the freedom of being unknown in this forum and venting out their frustrations from there daily life here in this forum. Just ignore them, now I don't think they deserve answer from any sane people. These are people who cannot think normally. They are not worried about the show. They are not worried about sanaya. They are not worried about the 200 people who lost their job. They are not worried about the SP and their telephone operators. They are not worried about PH or Gul. they are worried about VP and that is the sole reason they are here. They cannot tolerate even a single post that praises barun just because of the fact that they cannot open an AT thread for their favorite actor in this forum. and for all these they believe barun and his fans are the reason. If so, let it be.

some are there who claims they are sanaya fans, but we cannot find them in any thread related to sanaya, they often roam around barun related threads and says it is a Barun FC. These people support people who calls this show ISKKND, so ultimately they are not fans of this show and why they are blaming barun for that. They say they are against the phangirls, when they are doing the same in their favorite actor's FC that of worshiping him there literally.

For the last two months, they are doing this just to take revenge from people who gave them ISKKND oops sorry IPKKND. They love Gul only, but calls her show ISK. They think no one knows their intention. They want this forum to be closed, they carry with signature lines saying this. These people cannot be corrected because they found their comfort zone in bashing and mocking others and finds happiness from it.

They have had enough attention from everyone, this is time to stop reacting to these guys.

Edited by KittenRose - 12 years ago

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Reema

@Ree1306

Dazzler

+ 4

Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: desi-glam
Great post, Rima. The forum has gotten mad from both sides. Avid Barun fans are attacking Sanz with vengeance and Avid Sanaya fans are RIPPING apart Barun's image.

Why can't anyone remember that it was SANAYA AND BARUN who entertained us for 1.5 yrs??? Whatever their personal decisions and your viewpoint, they MADE the ArHi and IPKKND love story along with the rest of the cast.

As I say time and time again, criticizing those who gave you a good show is simply biting the hand that feeds you. We all make choices. Live and let live.

Barun is bashed and focused on in this forum only because he is a true actor -- one that wishes to focus on the acting and be himself, and not focus on fame.

Oh, so just because you lost your form of entertainment, it gives you the right to bash someone BEYOND REASON?

Barun is being bashed more than anyone I've seen so far in my life, be it politics or anything else. This is the truth.

Barun, my admiration for you has strengthened through the piteous state of the forum,

@bold - Same here..! 👍🏼

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