Radha's character: Right/Wrong

Friends,

We have never talked about Neha's mother point of view. What's your opinion on Radhaji's character? How do you justify her? Were Neha, Simran, Abhi, Saurabh and or Abhi's parents fair to her?

-Ritu

Originally posted by: wawahehe

I feel so very sorry for Radhaji - poor lady lost her only daughter and lost her mental stability in the process. How a mentally instable person should be treated - with love, affection and care. However, how has she been treated by Simran so far - sending money monthly to take care of her medical and other bills. If money could buy everything, we all would have been living with Tom Cruise's/ Brad Pitt's/Angelika Jolie's/ Aishwarya Rai's of the world. Saurabh and Abhi's parents are so spineless that they cannot say anything against Simran.

Radhaji should have been allowed to meet/play and enjoy the childhood of Aastha. This definitely would have helped her in gaining some stability. It is very shocking that a doctor like Simran cannot see this. Simran should get an award for the best "vamp" in Hindi T.V. serials.

wawahehe, isnt VAMP too strong a word? in which sense is simran a vamp?????? sorry I BEG to differ.

Simran threw Radhaji out of her own grand daughter's childhood. She adopted little girl to overcome her own insecurity. She was scared that Radha might take Gudia away from her.

She never allowed poor lady to see/meet/play with her grand child out of her insecurities. And to look good, she kept sending money for her expenses to shut up Radha in future (here's the only far sightedness of Simran)

She gifted Sid a big SUV on his b'day, again to keep him under pressure and use him, never required for her own benefit.

I mean, she thinks that she can do anything by spending money. At least she failed to buy good attitude and 'sanskaras' for Astha by her money.

All I want to say is that Simran is a sweet and slow poison so BEWARE

I totally agree with wawahehe and chikoo.....I always feel sorry for this poor lady Radhaji who could'nt enjoy the childhood of her grandchild,even saurabh enjoyed Aasth'a childhood who has no blood relation with Aastha. If a person in a family (specially some elder) have this type of mental disablity then the family should'nt throw that person like Simran did with Radhaji. Radhaji definitely deserved Aastha's love and affection,she is the only relative left for Aastha from her mother's side.They have been showing so much injustice to her after her only child Neha's death.

Originally posted by: chikoo

Simran threw Radhaji out of her own grand daughter's childhood. She adopted little girl to overcome her own insecurity. She was scared that Radha might take Gudia away from her.

She never allowed poor lady to see/meet/play with her grand child out of her insecurities. And to look good, she kept sending money for her expenses to shut up Radha in future (here's the only far sightedness of Simran)

She gifted Sid a big SUV on his b'day, again to keep him under pressure and use him, never required for her own benefit.

I mean, she thinks that she can do anything by spending money. At least she failed to buy good attitude and 'sanskaras' for Astha by her money.

All I want to say is that Simran is a sweet and slow poison so BEWARE

Well said! You're soo right!

People like Simran can never be happy. You can't apparently please the whole world and be happy or least lead a normal life.

Before Astha, I think Simran is a biggest nightmare and no less than a cancer.😡

Honest and justice loving Simran's attitude towards Radhaji was very unjust and (even if we forget all her other blunders) that Simran deserves the worst of all.

Really ?? How much did our dear Radhaji take care of her own daughter Neha that she would take care of Astha without harming her? The only time she got with the kid, she unleashed her instability and tried to burn her alive !!!! Radha was mad before she got treated thru Simran's efforts and hence her mental state does not really count for much......

I am not sure Astha would be mighty pleased to know her dearest grandmother finally got locked away into an asylum because she almost burned her to death...........That is sure to stop her dead into jumping up and down for her dear grandma......

I guess had Radha been let into Astha's life, she would have sent Astha packing to neha so that she could be with her 'real' mom up there in heaven.......

Minnie

Apart from the fact that I agree with what you wrote (it is irrelevant), I really must say it is great - exemplary in fact - the way you put your thoughts across...absolutely great...something we all should take note of ...😛

Originally posted by: wawahehe

She was finally able to meet her only grand daughter after 18 years and at that time she was mentally instable. By the way, why was Radhaji not allowed to meet Aastha prior to that ? Please tell me that Simran thought Radhaji will harm Aastha and she was waiting for the "right" time after Radhaji will become stable with the money and medicines that Simran was sending to her every month.

Actually, this has me thinking that why did Simran even bother to waste all that money and energy to keep Radha comfortable and always in a danger to meet Astha and do some harm.....she should have locked her away in a mental asylum right after she became crazy all over again.......It would have been such a practical solution......Radhaji successfully out of the way, no danger for Astha ever to find out anything ever.....

Simran should have been hard hearted. No wonder she faced so much difficulty and pain. Good people always do.