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Dear Anju,

Thank you for sharing your thoughts dear! 😊

Yes , true dear , the story is unrealistic and the creatives have taken it on a more unrealistic line.

My take was that we viewers are aware of this unrealism and yet when a mockery is being on screen , by the creatives, we are no way obliged to do the same , are we?

I consider the relation of a Man and wife very pure and would not mock personally , but if the creatives choose to do so, I would prefer not to watch and resume watching at a later time.

It was a jus a thought , that I put across as a POV!😊

Its all about entertainment at the end of the day eh? 😉

Cheers!

Sareeta

Originally posted by: sareeta

Dear Anju,

Thank you for sharing your thoughts dear! 😊

Yes , true dear , the story is unrealistic and the creatives have taken it on a more unrealistic line.

My take was that we viewers are aware of this unrealism and yet when a mockery is being on screen , by the creatives, we are no way obliged to do the same , are we?

I consider the relation of a Man and wife very pure and would not mock personally , but if the creatives choose to do so, I would prefer not to watch and resume watching at a later time.

It was a jus a thought , that I put across as a POV!😊

Its all about entertainment at the end of the day eh? 😉

Cheers!

Sareeta

That's right di, a relationship between and a man and wife is very pure and sacred. If the creatives do make a mess out of it, I would certainly not be interested to continue with the show.

But yes, it is always an entertainment at the end of the day. No need to take it too seriously.😉

Love,

Anju

Sareeta,

I agree with your view and let me assure you that even though the creatives at Balaji may be making a mockery out of this pious relationship, everyone in the forum understands the situation of Bani and her stand for revivng her bond with the man she loves.We all call bani desperate here but then we are not exactly pointing towards Bani but towards the directorial team and the dialogue writerss for making it look so unreal and abrupt and taking the sense out of the serail that we felt was so close to reality and the reason we fell in love with these characters.We all make fun just to calm down the anger cause due to non fulfilment of our expectations as viewers,maybe we are just trying to find out some light moments now a days.

No offence meant to anyone

Originally posted by: mahimn

Sareeta,

I agree with your view and let me assure you that even though the creatives at Balaji may be making a mockery out of this pious relationship, everyone in the forum understands the situation of Bani and her stand for revivng her bond with the man she loves.We all call bani desperate here but then we are not exactly pointing towards Bani but towards the directorial team and the dialogue writerss for making it look so unreal and abrupt and taking the sense out of the serail that we felt was so close to reality and the reason we fell in love with these characters.We all make fun just to calm down the anger cause due to non fulfilment of our expectations as viewers,maybe we are just trying to find out some light moments now a days.

No offence meant to anyone

Mahim , I need no reassurance that poeple are not making fun. I do understand the humor and the frustrations as well. I am a viewer too.😊 . It could be very well the way creatives have portrayed it.

Thanks so much for writing in and sharing your thoughts! I do agree with what you had to say.

It was a POV that I have considered and chose to write about. This was not intended at anyone or meant to be offensive at all. I have stated clearly that this jus a pov being considered in the post.

Sarita it is well written... one of the precious relationship in this world is that between the husband and wife... its only negative side is that it has boundaries... then that boundaries never reached by the couple unless it is circumstancial... because they don't feel there is a boundaries...

Bani and Jai met in fact by their souls... they saw each others pain, loneliness... etc and felt it for each other though never spoke of the same to each other. It was not necessary for them... the look and constant care they gave to each other was nurturing that rishta... wherever they go or where ever they are they couldn't help looking for each other... it was uncousciously yet happened always... because they were two unique/special persons they themselves... unusually different though with no similarities other than their own lonliness and pain...

a man without his pride and place in the society will be dead... it is not so simple to put away that way... she knows it... it will jai walia's end... and it was so clear that she won't survive either by seeing his pain... we should say there was no two pain... they suffered the pain exactly the same way by both of them... there was no destruction as such... because he knows each time there is a reason behind her actions... there is flows in the shows which is the failure of the creative team... at times they lost the track... hence things gone mess totally...

believe me if i say it from own experience at times we will do it ourselves even though life is not so superficial as it is in the drama... are we able to imagine 5 crores check given by our family memeber to us... leave alone an estranged man... otherwise if we take the side of sacrifice it is not so impossible

a look even is not necessary... being in a group together near somewhere you feel him/her... it is an unconscious process... the presence it self is unimaginable sensed by each other... then these two are living with silence than words... they communicate through eyes... through their silence... it is only thing they should know how blessed they are...

good outlining... Sareeta

Rose

Thank you Rose for sharing your thoughts! You have put it across so well what the two of them share and their bond. 😊

Originally posted by: amisra

That's right di, a relationship between and a man and wife is very pure and sacred. If the creatives do make a mess out of it, I would certainly not be interested to continue with the show.

But yes, it is always an entertainment at the end of the day. No need to take it too seriously.😉

Love,

Anju

Anju/Sareeta,

we know the show is just a drama... there is something in it still we accept...like the bed we use everyday, like the car we drive every day, like the friend we meet everyday... the home serial make a way into our lives in a somewhat permanant basis... it leaves something sour in our heart, something heaviness when see something like J/P scene and our hearts goes to Bani... because the characters influenced us despite those were not realistic... and something attractive or beautiful in the word is always one's weakness...

there we fail to draw a line between us and the characters... even if someone try then it becomes so narrow somewhere at times...

we are enjoying the show at the end...😛 here in the forum we enjoy one more thing other than this show... a bond we made with each others... so be it fiction or real... we have something to smile... let us smile😊

Rose

Thank you one and all for reading this post and appreciating and sharing your views.

Much appreciated. 😊

Sareeta

very true hun - well written as always! 👏

she is not desperate, she is a woman in love - in love and finally able to show it without wondering if he feels the same way, without wondering if she is betraying her family, without having to fight for a greater good. If after so much adversity I was finally able to express such a deep love (and that too to JW!! 😳 haila!!!) then i too would be bouncing off the walls because such a great weight had been lifted off my shoulders.

her cheeky smile when she gets back from dubai and her whole demeanour has just been adorable recently! the only complaint is that she still hasn't learnt her lesson - chaligayi na Barnali se milne, JW se kahe bina?!! 😡 😆

i think some people commented because of her constant mentions of bringing Krishna back into their lives - i think if i was in that situation i would work on building a solid foundation to the marriage, give it some time to prosper, and then start talking about a baby, especially since it has been a mere month since the first miscarriage... just my thoughts! 😃