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dear once again u've a done a brilliant job, u told bani's kahanni so good... once again mindblowing👏 👏 👏 👏

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It is the creatives who have made a mockery of the husband wife relationship.

Ovaltine,

Nice of you to share your thoughts. I do see your point and do not deny that indeed a mockery has been made of relationship in the serial and it is sad.

But I see it as , if the creatives have made a mockery, and we are intelligent enuf to realize that, should we also go ahead and make mockery of the relation?

Jus my thoughts!

Sareeta

PS: BTW, the post was not intended at anyone or meant to be offensive.

No offense. I wish the storyline was realistic. I mean all there is between Bani and Jai is secrecy. Jai with holding he slept with PIa and maybe still loves her. Bani wont tell him why she did what she did and how she lost the baby. Yeah sure. Too many Kasams make for bad viewing especially if there is no reason for it.

I dont want to offend anyone but Bani sometimes is quite repulsive in what she does e.g. secrecy and acting like if anyone comes to know the truth it will destroy everything. No logic eh? She should carry one building her statue in the temple. She is that pure. Now this is a character we talking about so no offense.

brilliant job dear as uusal! 👏

hey di
i dont think all of us 'believe' that bani is desperate.well her behavior has changed a lot over last few days.
she was the one who started feeling as a wife first. she burried those feelings deep down and did not let them come on the surface cause she knew jai did not feel the same for her..
when finally she could see that same love and concern in his eyes,park road revelation hit her hard but somehow it underlined the fact that she loves him no matter what his past is when she chose death than to live without him.
somehow this secret had same effect on jai too...the way he was trying his best to hide the truth and chose death over seeing hatred in bani's eyes for him was acknowledgement of his unspoken love.
all this while bani never expressed her love for him..atleast in words as her every action was a proof of how much she loved him...
she even decided not to revive the best moments in her life with jai(their c-night)if that makes him feel guilty

now when we see bani..she is very expressive like never before..

according to me she is still insecure somewhere...i dont know exactly about what...but she wants to live every moment she can spend with jai.their marriage has gone through so many ups and downs that she is trying to bring krishna back to make it secure.
she knows how much jai has craved for his own child and thats the reason she wants to bring his dream alive.

she lost krishna and she is carrying that weight on her chest. she could feel jai's frustration and helplessness and thats why she is trying to compensate that hurt with her love.

she knows that her plans to save jai's wealth has done no good for their relationship. she has lost so much time that she fears that her marriage will pay for it badly and thats whats making her all expressive...

i dont think she is despo for another c-night cause that one experience and its memories were enough for her life.if she was despo then she would have emotionally blackmailed jai who couldnt have refused but she chose not to and thats what sets her apart.

when she says about 'making up for the lost time' its sick to thought it just about intimacy...
bani mean it for emotional intimacy she missed. she may have missed those small incidences that brought them closer. she must have missed his presence around her..

on lighter note we can call her despo for her behavior..but when it comes to her intentions she is as far from being a despo as we all are from other universe.

Yes Himali, in a lighter vein , may be yes. But I as an individual chose not to. However , seeing things in lighter vein does help.

Thank you for sharing your wonderful thoughts!

Sareeta

MAGNIFICENT Di....very well described!! 👏 👏 👏

The man and wife relationship would have been much greater if fate hadn't had its hand in it. Jai-Bani had feelings for each other, and most probably might have even confessed it. But before they could say anything, fate played it's role and took everything away!

But the step Bani took to save Jai is a very very rare case. I would say one lady out of the whole world would do that. After a marriage, a husband's and wife's greatest obligation is the other partner. Under no circumstances does the law of god say that save your husband by destroying him, yourself, and the relationship. Bani could have found a solution by simply telling Jai the problem. She could have straight forward say that his sister wants to destroy everything he has earned and take it under her control. After that, Jai could have conquered a solution without ruining his relationship with Bani.

But I find it very unusual too for Jai to trust Bani again all of a sudden. A man who had started to almost hate her, how can he suddenly trust her blindly again? What Bani said to him in Dubai had no proof behind her to convince Jai. All she could hope was that he trusts what she is saying. But why didn't Jai even think about how that's possible? Why didn't he think how did Bani come to know he hadn't killed her mother? Why isn't Jai still that eager to know why Bani have him all the pain in the world?

Most people say that they started with KS because it is realistic. But is this realistic? Is it realistic that Bani kills her child to save her husband? Is it realistic that a wife breaks all relationship with her husband for his honor? Is it realistic that a husband starts to trust his wife again straight out of the blue?

Sorry if I went off topic...couldn't help writing it! 😕

Great post once again Di!!!! 👏

Love,

Anju

well this is sarita's post so may be it is not my right to speak about response that she is getting for her post

sometimes it makes me wonder as why the hell we come on forum and discuss it if its just the imaginary storyline and fictional characters????

when jai touches bani or even stares her intensly..why do we have goosebumps all over our bodies???

how can we relate with bani who lost her baby in an attempt to save her husband????

why do we curse jigyasa and ranweer for being so nasty???

when he slept with pia why did we bash him like never before???

why do we call names to pia when we know that its a fictional character???

what i am trying to say is that we are humans and we tend to get involved in what we see whether its real or fictional...and hence we come here and discuss it with so much of enthusiasm...

whenever good things happen..we enjoy them but as soon as a twist is introduced we blame creatives and start yapping about characters being fictional...and story being imaginary...

i meant no offence but we should take this a little seriously sometimes...