Disappointed with How Anandi is being shown..

Originally posted by: Voldermoth

I really don't know about you guys but BV has lost its charm ever since they showed Ansh marriage preparations over a month and then after a few episodes, anandi is back at her home and fretting about jagya again and again...

For me this track isn't of much interest, it actually is confirming the fears that Ira had when shiv decided to go to jaitsar prematurely..

Not only anandi is still emotionally attached with her old home, but now even shiv has been show only helping anandi and her past in-laws and consoling her...

When CV's had decided to show getting married a second time, they should have shown anandi now making Shiv's home her world and yet remember dadisaa and co.

Instead anandi is back at jaitsar, back at haveli just with a new husband, but with her heart and soul still with her old family...

It almost now seems she married shiv only for her dying mom's last wish and her heart is definetly not in her second marriage and her in-laws...

CV's must give prominence to shiv's family equally and show Anandi now focussing more on her new family and their little-little problems and accepting Shiv in every way...

Originally posted by: mocking_bird

I agree with you fully. IT was the voice over a few episodes back, which had justified it by saying that the divorced ladies can not forget their ex and his family. So much for the social message.

And a collector has so much of time in his hand to devote to solving the Singh family's problem! It is amazing!!How far removed from reality can you be!

Originally posted by: Voldermoth

I think some members have not read my message carefully, which is far from being regressive..

It is for everyone to see that CV's are hardly showing shiv's family getting even 10% prominence in the show leave alone in anandi's life.

For me this is a fictional story, but some members have assumed the role of messiah of women rights...even for a fictional character.

Let us focus on the track a little more, believing it to be real...ok

How many times anandi went to her real parents and cared for them? Is she worrying about her father who now has no one too look after him?

Thts an oversight of CVs...actually they r not covering the billariya track so its not being shown..maybe they might show something in future

Of course this is CV's fault and not Anandi's...but if anandi only has to worry about Dadisa&Co and jagya... why re-marry?

She worries for everyone..right now the singh's are in crisis so she is concerned I am sure if shekhar's hav some crisis she will be equally concerned...and she is niot concered for jagay she is concerned for her family..period.

Why Shiv has always has to understand her? Why shouldn't Shiv's parents expect anything from her?

I think she is doing peferctly fine with Shiv's parents except saanchi she has good rapport with everyone.She really cares for Shiv...she tackled tht jalebi surprise situation very well I dont get it wats the issue here?

When Anandi married Shiv...she did it on her own wish, but now she is developing cold feet on seeing shiv...keeps worrying about jagiya?

when did she worry abt jagya?? she never said jagya kaha hoga kaisa hoga...all she ever said was...her family is so worried and alone without him.
She has even started thawing towards shiv..yeah she has yet to reach tht physical level..i am sure she will reach there soon .

Has she ever thought of talking to saanchi? Ever worried about shiv's grandfather the way she does of dadisaa?

does saachi ever talk to her ??...she made extra effort..bought pile of saaries so tht sanchi dosent feel ashmed of her gaghara choli...well i think u missed the episode where she made adrak chai to dadu..

Answer is big no! I am strictly against what many women have to go through because of medieval mindset of people and age-old customs...

You can see my old posts here...i was and am still against jagya being forgotten even now...coz what anandi went through is 100 times more then what jagiya has gone through in few months...

But i was not happy with how anandi's character is shaping-up and i still am, which is again CV's fault.

I dont find anandi's behaviour wrong...she is balancing both families pretty well...she is def attached to singh not just coz they are former in laws but also coz she feels towards them.rarely u will see any family supporting DIL rather than their son hence she feels indebted and take extra care for them.
She is fine with shekhars too its been just a week since her marriage and CVs hav not yet shown much of the shekhars track so it seems as if she is more attached with the singhs...