marrige already arranged

if you were in pia's position and your marrige had been arranged when you were small what would you do?

In your opinion is this a right thing to do? what would be the good points and bad points be?🤔

Depends if i was in love with someone like pia then defintely not go ahead with the marriage but if i wasnt then go ahead with it.

bad points

this is that how do they know how these children are going to turn out and whether they will get on its unfair to put two people together when they kids and havent even lived there life yet and could be the wrong decision anyway. Also is it really fair putting your decision on the kids when they are that small ! especially something like marriage i dont think it is.

good points

none really but suppose mostly the familys know each other that cant be a bad thing.

nowadays it's not the parents who decide the marriage, but the children themselves.😊 i guess the singh parivaar still are a little old fashioned.😊

hmmm... the bad points is tt you hardly know a person, then how to marry him?😉 the good points.... hmmm... can't think of any now.. 😆

saath phere deals with old values etc and deals with them

Originally posted by: jigglypuff726

nowadays it's not the parents who decide the marriage, but the children themselves.😊 i guess the singh parivaar still are a little old fashioned.😊

hmmm... the bad points is tt you hardly know a person, then how to marry him?😉 the good points.... hmmm... can't think of any now.. 😆

how is the singh parivar old fashioned? When Saloni married into that family, Manno Bhabi had said that the Singh parivar is very broad-minded to take Saloni in when no one else did, and i don't think they even took dowry from saloni's family. So why all of a sudden they bring in child marrige? They were a very modern family. So i don't think they are old- fashioned...the director doesn't know what to do.

well based on today's culture, i would not accept an arranged marriage. I would marry the person i love or a person who i kno very well.

and i would hate having a arranged marriage at child. cuz u never how the spouse would be and his occupation, lifestyle, drinking and a bunch of other stuff..

i't just wrong!!

Originally posted by: mamis

how is the singh parivar old fashioned? When Saloni married into that family, Manno Bhabi had said that the Singh parivar is very broad-minded to take Saloni in when no one else did, and i don't think they even took dowry from saloni's family. So why all of a sudden they bring in child marrige? They were a very modern family. So i don't think they are old- fashioned...the director doesn't know what to do.

they took in saloni, mainly cos nahar wanted to forget chandini right? i bet if that wasn't the situation, the singh parivaar might have thought twice abt their decision. just my opinion. 😊

Originally posted by: jigglypuff726

they took in saloni, mainly cos nahar wanted to forget chandini right? i bet if that wasn't the situation, the singh parivaar might have thought twice abt their decision. just my opinion. 😊

that was what kaki was saying. They didn't just take her cuz she was dark. But i proved my point.😊

Childhood amrraiges are rare now in the cities. But they are still arranged in villages and tribal castes.

In Opinion Bridgesh is responsibal to let Pia know earlyer that she is engagged. It' not Pia's problem that she fall in love with some one. Don't you think it's too much. If it was decided then why they never come or let pia come to thair house? So meany week link.