so the separate bed issue... - Page 2

Originally posted by: deejagi

Guys i don't kno anything about your's (if you are married and have kids) but mine was too good to oblige when the doctor said I had complications in my pregnancy and any physical stress could be fatal to the child (I hope you understand), he didn't want to take chance of getting intimate while being on the same bed, hence he used the couch during the entire term of pregnancy.

Here in this case, there was no couch in that particular room...
<div>

To answer your question here. Yes, I am married and I am blessed with a baby. And thankfully I didn't have any complications. But as far as a pregnant women is concerned. People now a days are more aware of the other person when they are sleeping with them. Even I was so concerned when I got pregnant. Thinking what if my husband accidentally hit on the belly etc. but these concerns automatically gone away as time passed. Your baby is quite safe in your womb. With a little hit to your belly won't harm anything. Unless someone crazy will hit with a metal rod. My husband and I never compromised on these issues. And over here since we are explicitly talking about purvi. As far as I know she didn't have any complications. So onir sleeping on the floor has nothing to do with purvis pregnancy.

Originally posted by: sashashyam

There is nothing like a rational explanation based on personal experience to clarify this issue, or indeed any other.Thanks, deejagi. One should not be so quick to laugh at what others write, without finding out why they write it.

Shyamala B.Cowsik


<div>

shyamala Aunty, sorry if our little humor bothered you. Since now a days people are way too worried about onir-purvi-arjun-ovi issues and debates gets hotter by the time. Me and few of others just try to add some humor in it for our peace of mind. That doesn't mean we are not understanding anything. We are pretty matured folks. Defending decisions is our right. 😃

No, my dear Anum ( see, I remember your beautiful name!), I did not mean to lecture you! I have a 28 year old, and I know how not to be preachy.

It is only that some people are touchy, and they might feel ridiculed when you laugh at them. I am sure you did not mean to do that, but it might happen all the same, and you would naturally prefer to avoid hurting anyone, even inadvertently, would you not? There is no question here of 'defending decisions'.

Shyamala Aunty

Originally posted by: Manoshono

shyamala Aunty, sorry if our little humor bothered you. Since now a days people are way too worried about onir-purvi-arjun-ovi issues and debates gets hotter by the time. Me and few of others just try to add some humor in it for our peace of mind. That doesn't mean we are not understanding anything. We are pretty matured folks. Defending decisions is our right. 😃

Originally posted by: sashashyam

There is nothing like a rational explanation based on personal experience to clarify this issue, or indeed any other.Thanks, deejagi. One should not be so quick to laugh at what others write, without finding out why they write it.

Shyamala B.Cowsik


<div>