HELP: In Depression

Hi guys,

Simple, in real life no one will come and tell you that he/she is depressed or upset, forum is a place, where many members are there every one has there own views. You never know whom you can help and how. Your simple advice can cheer up any one.

1) What advice you would like to give a person who is depressed?

2) What you will do if you are depressed?

So, share your views and you never know how many members learn by your views.

Ek Dil mere Dil ko Zakham de gaya,
Zindagi bhar jine ki Kasam de gaya,
Lakho phoolon me ek phool chuna hamne,
joh kanto se gehri chubhan de gaya..

Ho sakta hai humne anjaane mein aapko kabhi rula diya,

aapne duniya k kehne pe hume bhula dia,

hum to vaise bhi akele the,

kya hua agar aapne ehsaas dila diya.

After reading this words don't come to a conclusion that depression can be only of love ( yeh to compusary hi hai😆😆😆).. depression can be of love, friends, losing some one, failure in examination, sometimes cannot be expressed by tears nor words, but how they can over come it..

Cheers,

Ahmed

i wouldd say!!!!
if u are depressed then tune into IF and talk to meee i ma sure i will bring a smilee to ur face maybeee i will make u laugh with my stupidddd talks tht i do 😆 ask SURII,RS,SHRUTII DII,and ADII if u dont believe meeeeeeeee!!! 😆
IF I MA DEPRESSED THEN I GO TO THE PARKK ADN START THINKING ABT RAJEEEV AND AAMNA AND EIJAZ AND ANITHA THENA SMILEE COMES TO MY FACE!!!!!!


i hope i brought a smile to ur face rite now!!!!! 😆
AND IF I DIDNT THEN KILL MEEE!!!!sasha typeee 😆


Saraa

Thanks Ahmed, nice topic again. You do tempt me to write on these topics, so thanks for the oppurtunity

Originally posted by: guess_gallery

1) What advice you would like to give a person who is depressed?

Cheer up. Life is far too precious to be wasted away on depression. Whatever the problem, there is always a solution. Whatever the reason, there is always a story behind the reason. In the end, the knot is never stubborn, but it always comes loose. So instead of being depressed, if you work on the issue, you not just win that issue, but you dont be depressed.

2) What you will do if you are depressed?

Go and find my friend and talk to him/ her. Talking to them always helps and a good knock on the head to remind you not to behave childishly also helps 😉

Ek Dil mere Dil ko Zakham de gaya,
Zindagi bhar jine ki Kasam de gaya,
Lakho phoolon me ek phool chuna hamne,
joh kanto se gehri chubhan de gaya..

Ho sakta hai humne anjaane mein aapko kabhi rula diya,

aapne duniya k kehne pe hume bhula dia,

hum to vaise bhi akele the,

kya hua agar aapne ehsaas dila diya.

Woh dil hi kya jisne zhakham na khayi ho
woh dil hi kya jisse pyaar ka ehsaas hi na ho...
akele chalna dil ka naseeb nahi...
akele chalna shayad dil ki majboori hai...

Pukarkar toh dekhiye...
dil ki zubaan dil zaroor suntha....
tumne ek dil ko maana apna manzil...
Par kya woh sahi manzil thaa...

Yeh Manzil shayad tumhara thaa hi nahi.
Shayad agle mod pe manzil tumhara intezaar kar rahi hai

After reading this words don't come to a conclusion that depression can be only of love ( yeh to compusary hi hai😆😆😆).. depression can be of love, friends, losing some one, failure in examination, sometimes cannot be expressed by tears nor words, but how they can over come it..

By facing the issue. 😊

Cheers,

Ahmed

I would ask them to get serious help and see a therapist if need be. Depression is serious and really hurts and i have seen many of my near ones go through post partum or bi- polar depression or anxiety attacks . They were with different people and very near to me.

Telling such people to "get over it ..........because life is too precious to cry " is the worst dumb advice we Asians(BTW: I am an Asian too ........so i can't be racist about my race.) tend to dole outin the name of great advice. We do not realise the dangers and seriousness of depression.

With depression it could be a chemical imbalance or serotonin impairment or something on the levels of thyroid problem which need medication not a "pep talk" we love to give.

So if you see some one seriously depressed for a long time or you know some one has faced extreme stress levels , please give them the right advice ...........before you regret it and its too late.

I was veryyy depressed about a month ago..and it was horriblee..nothing could make me happy..3-4 days later i was fine..everybody has those days..last month was one of mine =)