Nice to see shiv as a normal human being

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I really liked the episode. Sid was perfect with his expressions again.It is very natural for a guy who loves his wife to get physically attracted towards her that too being in one room. If they show same Shyam sugna romance what will be the change. I think shiv could not control his hormones being with anandi in one room. We should stop blaming him. Anandi should make him comfortable by talking to him about her state of mind. He will understand her and will give her space. If cv have shown him giving mahaan speech of understanding her state of mind and giving her time would be unrealistic. A guy how much ever nice he may at last he is a guy with sexual needs. He is so much in love that he did not even brush his teeth to make his moves. It would be nice for a change shiv getting hurt by anandi' s scared action. There should be sme spice in a story to make watchable. Hope anandi does not leave shiv in this despo state and go back running to take care of Singh family problems. Cv will definitely show anandi more inclined towards singhs than shiv which might erk shiv one day.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Sheetsden, you are right, coz its natural for a man to expect at least a return to his feelings. Though, i would ve thought that a first hug would ve been appropriate at that hr of the day & especially after showing her all the memories of her past with the pic. But AM 100% ok with you. By the way i think we ll be a bit disappointed with the coming episodes, as we seem to be going back to jaitser with the coming track. Being a woman, am smitten by Shiv(Sidd) & ll miss seeing much of him. And on top, his character in BV makes him even more attractive & smashing.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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For shiv it is his first night with wife whom he loves but unfortunately anandi has entered this marriage with lot of baggage. After marriage girls do miss their parents and family but that emotion is overcome by euphoria of new husband and marriage. Anandi is not a nayi naveli Dulhan and based on precap shiv will face this reality next week. I enjoyed todays epi except for sumitra drama.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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frankly speaking...shiv is perfectly alright with his behavior...infact he should keep doing his love gesture with anandi...coz that only help her to usued to her's husbend "love"... to understand that her husbend is so much in love with her...aur she will start realising that this loving gesture is very normal...which she is not usued to it...kyon ki anandi ne kabhi is tarah ke gesture dekhe hai...na hi mehsoosh ki hai ...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i just hope anandi don't make such mistake...and i really think she will not...coz she and shiv has a lovely rappo...to speak abt their feelings, their situation clearly to each other...remember...when jagia" came to jaitsar" and bhimsingh informed shiv...that time also we thought that there will be misunderstanding between them...but both anandi and shiv handle it maturely...then again when she allowed jagia to stay in"haveli"and want to tell shiv abt it but didn't get a chance and jagat take the opertunity to creat a misunderstanding b/w them... it's ANSH understanding made things easy...so don't worry guy's ANSH will handle there situation...very matuarly...and remember ANSH r made for each other... that's the moto of the show that how with so much up's and down's they r together...

aur sab se ahum baat...i have a feeling that ANSH will njoy their SR when ASHI came to india... remember she asked anandi to get ready as" dulhan" infront of her... may us waqt taq she will also fall in love with shiv and when she will ready to show ashi how she was looking...will be ANSH suhag raat" initiated by our ANANDI😉
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Sheetsden,
I agree with you, and quite frankly am sick of anandi's nautanki and her nakhras.
When entering into a marriage, it is understood that being physically intimate is a part of it, and a natural expectation a man will have.
What did anandi think? That marriage just meant a wedding ceremony to satisfy her mother's soul and after that she and shiv will live like brother and sister or as roommates sharing rent in one home???
I would have been quite okay with her behaviour if this was truly an arranged marriage in every sense of the term ... where she never met the man... and the first time she could talk to him/see his face was on the suhaagraat itself. Then yes, it might take time to get intimate and then her behaviour would be fully justified.
But... here she and shiv have known each other for quite some time, he has professed to being in love with her, she is comfortable with him ... so I dont see anything wrong in shiv's behaviour ... and I think anandi should have been prepared for it.
To look so scared and big eyed is ridiculous, particularly for a 25 year old woman ... who has married a 32 year old man.
And it is obvious that shiv is not initiating it to obtain cheap satisfaction of his physical needs. He sees physical intimacy as an expression of his love for her, he wants to be close to her.
And here is this stupid anandi who "requires more time" what nonsense! 🤢
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sectoreight


But... here she and shiv have known each other for quite some time, he has professed to being in love with her, she is comfortable with him ... so I dont see anything wrong in shiv's behaviour ... and I think anandi should have been prepared for it.
To look so scared and big eyed is ridiculous, particularly for a 25 year old woman ... who has married a 32 year old man.
And here is this stupid anandi who "requires more time" what nonsense! 🤢



In my opinion, she did not look scared, only uncomfortable.
Many girls feel that way, when they are sharing the room for the first time after marriage.
Maybe not all. (Maybe its not that frequent, but I did. Feel uncomfortable I mean. But my husband was understanding 😊)
And as for Anandi, she has a lot of baggage to deal with.
She has had a physical relationship with Jagya previously, who she loved with all her heart.
To surrender herself physically, will take time evenif she has started to love Shiv.

I thought it would have been a bit unrealistic if she had went along with it smoothly.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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i am agree with you...husband cant control their feeling leki agar saamne mataji jaise wife ho to its better to control feeling...from whom marriage is big compromise...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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gr8 post😊[/QUOTE

Ur Dp z awsumm..

@TM..agree ur point..

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: shalluuu

i am agree with you...husband cant control their feeling leki agar saamne mataji jaise wife ho to its better to control feeling...from whom marriage is big compromise...


so according to u wife slhd be ready to throw herself on the bed everytime hubby approaches?
she dosent hav her choices or apprehensions ?
btw anandi has not made any compromise this marriage is her choice n she is pretty happy...just tht she needs sometime to be intimate which shld be fine...she is shiv's wife not his sex slave

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