Jai Walia - Eternally 'NOT' Confused!

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Since, all of us (me too, me too) have been relentlessly bashing Cuddles, I thougth why not come up with something remotely defending him, although our man gives us very little reason to do so! But still, I have penned my thoughts on why I feel that Jai has no feelings left for Pia and that now he is on his way for a life time committment towards Bani;

Firstly, the scene where Jai goes to see Pia in the Middle of the Party and then telling her that he had no idea Bani would land up and then the Hug was a Dream Sequence and it was Pia's dream, btw! Jai just goes and stands at a distance and looks at Pia crying. If any of you are cribbing that Jai shouldn't have even gone to Pia, then I am sorry to say you are wrong. Jai has already committed Hara Kiri by committing Adultery with his sister-in-law and then going and rejoining his Wife, atleast he still has deceny enough to feel guilty about his deed and wants to clarify with Pia! I give him credit for facing the situation than running away (Which would be the easier way out given he has to explain to someone like Pia!)

Secondly, the way Jai reacts to Pia and Pushkar hugging and then the scene in the Mall where Pushkar kind of indicates that he had spent the night with Pia indicated he feels no jealousy or for that matter any emotion for Pia being with her husband. All the felt was relief and some kind of remorse for the blunder they ended up committing and unwittingly betrayed their spouses! Jai in no way looked insecure, envious or even slighted by Pushkar! The reason why he tells Bani to continue with their shopping was because he obviously felt guilty for both Pushkar and Bani and not because he was Jealous of Pia spending the night with Pushkar! (I saw the Video twice, hence am sure about Jai's look in this particular scene!) Infact it is Pia who gives Jai that strange look when Pushkar announces their Night-Camp…As if Pia wanted to see Jai's reaction to the news that she was with Pushkar the night before!

Thirdly, Look at Jai's reaction when Bani asks him if she can get Pia along with them in his Car. Jai looks disinterested but not awkward or scared! All he tells Bani is that he is waiting for her in his Car....and later when he comes to call her again, tells her cooly that Pia can come in the Company Car and that they should leave for the Hotel (Lolz...Wanna waste no time with his Wife😆)

Fourthly and most importantly, Jai's words when he goes to speak with Pia. He is not awkward, he is not hesitant and he is certainly not looking guilty. (Contrast it with his reaction to Bani after the C-night on 6/19 when he looked racked with guilt and confusion) He tells Pia rather frankly that he doesn't remember much of what happened (That again indicates Jai might have passed out and Pia must be getting delusional over him) but whatever happened might end up spoiling too many lives, indicating that Pia should shut her mouth on the issue. And then the most important revelation, he tells Pia that he was a LOST MAN when he came to her...Lost because he had lost his Wife and his child.....and hence he was in such a condition that he could have clung to anyone at that moment.....No wonder Pia looks so horrified.....Jai compares his night spent with Pia to one that he could have spent with just about any woman......Now we want to see Jai's answer or reaction to Pia's question, that did he come to her because she was the only support in sight at that moment? I doubt Jai will be able to answer her, Bani and Pushkar will land up from behind....The viewers are going to be kept in suspece with regard to Jai's feelings for Pia and Bani for some time to come!

Fifthly, Its officially confirmed that Pia is going to turn negative! Now why would Pia turn negative unless Jai decides to dump her unceremoniously? Pia till now is harbouring the feeling that althought Jai is back with Bani, he has feelings for Pia.....The day Jai tells her clearly that the reason he is with Bani is because he is in love with her and that Pia is his past, she is going to go total berserk with jealousy! Pia always had this feeling that Jai Walia was her personal property whom her 'Di' was taking care of and now she wants him back. Jai is going to set the lady right very soon! Hence, the very fact that Pia will turn negative means Jai will tell her to move on with her life as he is going to do the same with his own!

Now coming back to our Chameli Creeper (I loved this name given to Bani by Bubbles) who seems to have a Split Personality Syndrome affecting her since she has landed in Dubai with her Lota.

Although I am still not sure what exactly Jai feels for her now, I have listed some reasons of mine which will show that even if Jai is not in Love with Bani, he is surely committed to their marriage;

Firstly, Jai is not cold towards Bani...He is guilty and hence not able to meet her eyes or reciprocate her affections! How can he act normal with a wife after committing adultery with her sister? Jai must have lost his honor after 10/3, I would still like to believe that he has not lost his shame till now!

Secondly, Jai has never been a man to openly express his affection or love (For that matter neither was Bani, wonder what has affected her so badly...The Dubai Heat?) and hence, unlike say Pushkar or Saahil, Jai is not the one who will wrap himself around his wife or plant a kiss on her cheeks in front of the whole world or put his arm around her waist....I am sure Bani would love that, but Jai has never been shown to physically express his emotions with either Pia or Bani....(Except when he is drunk...Then there is no stopping the man!😆)

Thirdly, Jai is obviously surprised and shocked by the change in Bani's behaviour towards him. I mean, was this the same mousy and docile wife who couldn't look directly in her husband's eyes, who used to blush whenever he stared at her for even a moment, used to freeze the moment his hands even touched her.....Now the same lady is openly telling her man that she has lost too much time fighting and squabbling with him over the last few months and now its time to make up and literally, MAKE UP......Any guy would be shocked by the sudden turn of events...Although I must admit, its hilarious and kind of cute to see Bani turning so frank and open about her feelings.....Poor Jai must start looking for a good place to hide in his Walia Mansion from Bani! Hence, it is going to take time to let the feeling of Bani actually loving him and loving him so much sink in for Jai....The woman has been crying hoarse about hating him since the time she married him, now the about turn has obviously got the guy in shock mode, that might be one of the reasons for his non-reaction to Bani!

Fourthly, Jai would surely like to clarify everything with Pia and then tell garner the courage to tell the truth to Bani before going ahead with starting his Married Life with Bani all over again. (Although he shouldn't have ended up in Bed with Bani before telling her everything, but I guess Bani was just not ready to listen to the fellow that night!) How can you expect Jai to behave in a natural & routine manner when he is holding so much inside his Heart? If you remember, prior to the PR Raaz, inspite of falling in love with Bani and wanting to lead a life with her, he still couldn't come to commit himself to her, because he was holding back a huge truth from Bani. Now once again, he is in the same position….Jai has not only committed adultery, he has gone and done that with Bani's sister, a woman with whom he shared a past…Now all the more reason that he better confess the truth to Bani before going ahead anywhere!

Jai might still be unsure of what he feels for Bani, but he is more than sure on what he feels for Pia….that she is a closed chapter and that is it! Sleeping with her was just a nasty coincidence, it could have been just about anyone apart from her that night and it wouldn't have made a difference!

Hence overall I feel that while Jai might appear to be confused and in two mind about Bani and Pia, it is more than clear that he has made his choice of Life Partner and she is his Wife! I don't think Jai has any wish to walk down the Old Road once again! Jai tells Pia clearly that their One Mistake will end up spoling many lifes once again….and that he does not want it to happen!

Too long a post, if you feel interested enough to read, kindly do that and I would love to hear your views on thes same!

Cheers,

MT

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Surprisingly, I for one am not bashing or cursing Jai as much as others have due to his arguably dispicable act with Pia. Didn't he try to stop Pia? Even when he was drunk he tried his best to get rid of the chipku. Then it really comes back to the fact that men can be weakened in this area. This may sound awkward but being swayed by his hormones Jai went on to sleep with Pia, he was also depressed and lost as you said. At the end of the day, Jai is HUMAN and we should not forget that humans make mistakes. Now I just hope he confess' this to Bani, I personally don't know how I want Bani to react. Should she forgive because of the position her Mr.Walia was in? Or should she leave his life again? I wouldn't blame her either way.

BTW, is it certain that Pia will turn negative? I may dislike her but I love the sister trio, I honestly think they are so loving as sisters. I don't want her to turn against her sister.😭😭😭

Edited by *Reemz* - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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totally agree with you MT, what you are describing as Jai's reactions are
plausible. But then again we could be readimg him wrong. If Pia does turn
negative.. she will only continue to destroy her precious "di's" life. But will
she continue to live in the Walia mansion while doing so?

Thanks for informing us about the dream sequence it was a breathe of air
that we needed to inhale from this smog infested situation in Dubai.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Thanks MT,

You are the BESTEST. Your words makes sucha big difference.
I'm so relaxed, and i'm still taking your words on "NO DIVORCE" in KS.


Love you lots
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Posted: 18 years ago
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haila.. i luved reading that.. and d points u gave.. that's true.. he did tell pia it was a mistake.. and at the mall.. it was pia lookin at jai like "r u jealous" did u hear wat pushy said.. and that's true.. y would pia go negative if jai would accept her.. everythin is puzzly but does fit in together.. as fo bani - that women is not the same bani anymore.. that's fo sure.. she betta set pia straight - cuz d way she's bubbly and happy happy now - i don't think she's bout to back out.. and let any grl (pia) have her hubby.. that's d way to go.. thanks fo d clarification and d points.. it just becomes a more positive note in my head than negatives.. 👏 👏 👏
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: *Reemz*

Surprisingly, I for one am not bashing or cursing Jai as much as others have due to his arguably dispicable act with Pia. Didn't he try to stop Pia? Even when he was drunk he tried his best to get rid of the chipku. Then it really comes back to the fact that men can be weakened in this area. This may sound awkward but being swayed by his hormones Jai went on to sleep with Pia, he was also depressed and lost as you said. At the end of the day, Jai is HUMAN and we should not forget that humans make mistakes. Now I just hope he confess' this to Bani, I personally don't know how I want Bani to react. Should she forgive because of the position her Mr.Walia was in? Or should she leave his life again? I wouldn't blame her either way.

BTW, is it certain that Pia will turn negative? I may dislike her but I love the sister trio, I honestly think they are so loving as sisters. I don't want her to turn against her sister.😭😭😭

Hi Reemz, Thanks for responding! Yes, even I wouldn't blame Bani in either situation. If she decides to live with Jai after knowing the truth, I would attribute it to Love winning at the end of the Day over Respect and if she decides to leave Jai after knowing the truth, I would attribute it to Respect winning the day over Love! For me, both Respect and Love are on the same platform and Bani would be correct both ways!

I also don't know why all of us are bashing Jai so much....He did try his best to stop Pia, inspite of the enormous mental strain that he was undergoing but finally succummed in the end. Jai is a normal human being and not a God as most viewers see him to be!

Yes, the news of Pia turning Negative is 100% confirmed!😡 I could see it coming from a long time, but somehow had hope that come what may, Pia won't be jealous of her sister's happiness...But sadly it is not the case!

Cheers,

MT

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Thanks for sharing your thoughts MT! As always so thoughtfully penned!

I do hope that Pia does not take a trip to the dark side. I do hope she suffers in her guilt, and "works" to get back what she so easily decided to lose (that is, her loving husband, and the trust of her loving sister).

As for our dear munna, he has definitely already realized the magnitude of his mistake, but whether or not he has really learned Bani's true value I am still unsure of. I guess time will tell.. There are still a lot of unanswered questions between the two of them (such as, does he really know how Bani lost the baby? How come he hasn't questioned her about the details of that 'hadsaa'?)

Will look forward to more insight from you as always..

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Very interesting ... and I can definitely see Pia turning negatice once Jai tells her that it was a mistake and he has no desire to pick up where they left off...(or rather where she left him)....

I just want him to tell Bani he i committed to her (doesn't have to express undying love for her yet although that would be nice) I just would like those magical jiya dhadak dhadak moments to repeat again!!!1
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Posted: 18 years ago
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i watched the episodes 4-6 over again, and quite frankly i think a lot of member's misunderstood jai's expressions.He wore guilty looks...not unsure looks. He even pulled bani back into a tighter hug after putting on sindoor for her...and the way he kissed her forehead, to me his expression was along the lines of :
"My god i love you sooooo much bani...i wish u could have told me this earlier!! i've gona and wronged you now, broken ur trust, ur love...what can i do now?I love you so much bani, but i've sinned..and i dont kno how to tell you"

and what can i say, he had to be in some shock of bani's instant boldness...heheheheh...poooorrr gurl..she doenst want to waste time..ahd she told jw dat a day before...hmmmmmmm ahahahhahahahaahahahahhahahahahahahhahah

excellent post MT..u've said everything that's been on my mind
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Posted: 18 years ago
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MT so good to hear from you over the weekend 😃 i could have not put it better myself. I agree with you completely. I have to say that i have respect for Jay for not just going along with Bani(although i think he should have never slept with her but i also believe that she had a little part in it...after coming to Dubai Bani does take no for an answer and i think Jai was just over whelmed with everything going on in his...i mean he is only human)and keeping quite after she shows her affection towards him(creative teams might have read our Sanam's FF and indeed they turn Bani bold 😃 )I'm still not use to seeing bani getting bold all of sudden. Jai ka to haal main soch hi sakti hu.

For me the magic of Kasam has gone but i'm still going to watch it but it not going to be like before 😭

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