Originally posted by: eshasrk
Lol Nafs I guess ur rite..like mom like daughter
But loved how Biwi confronted Pati today abt the re-marriage part . He cannot forgive his mom for re-marrying another man, but he wants Padmini to do the same !!
So what is the difference here and I think Madhu was spot on when she said she will go and talk abt re-marriage with her mom, when he will say sorry to his mom, basically telling RK to forgive his mom for the same
Esha, you mean Madhu must be the one to accept a remarriage of her mother whilst he didn't accept his own mother remarrying but it's a bit different in Madhu's case as the man her mother will remarry is someone she loves and respects and who she already treats as her father, whilst on RK's side he doesn't love or respect Kukuji, that's the main difference. Kukuji is a greedy man, drunkard, at least Malik is neither and it should not be a problem for Madhu just to speak to them, and the decision is up to them off course.
Also the saying sorry to Radhaji, I'm actually on RK's side on this one, RK by seeking his mother's blessing and feeding her the cake and hopefully talking to her civilly that's more then enough, no sorry is required because she brought these new relations to live off her son's wealth, even if she is submitting to the husband's wishes to stay in RK's house, culturally that is required of her, and it's also her nature to be very submissive, still she never considered the position she is putting her son in, as he doesn't like Kukuji and the rest of them, but he has to see their faces everyday, just because of the relationship he has with her. Radhaji does see that her son refuses her food and any help that she offers him, not because he doesn't love her but only because of those other relations she brought into their lives, she knows this very well she told Madhu because of my decision to remarry that he never accepted this is the reason, I think she shouldn't get an apology/Sorry from RK because her choice in husband was not appropriate, had the man she married not been a drunkard and he was toiling in work to provide for their family, very well he has self respect and she also should be treated with respect, but the choice was not appropriate, in fact she should apologise to RK and get rid of those relations, but because of her submissive nature she won't do that, possibly later something will be uncovered about their greed that will make Radhaji kick them all out, but before then they have to carry on seeing those Bhatia's faces, sponging off of RK.
Edited by Nafs_Sweetheart - 12 years ago