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Posted: 12 years ago
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is duggu behavior justified?i dont know much about kids so wanna know the way duggu behaving with naitik is normal or not?
i dont know but i m hating duggu behavior.is it normal or only duggu has becum child like this..problem is with duggu behavior only or is it normal reaction😕

i dont want to dislike naksh son duggu but..

please share ur views
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i don't find any abnormality in duggu's behaviour...😊
itni saalon se wo apni paapa ke pyaar se door hain..aur work ke chakkar main even ak cudn't give more time to duggu...so he was almost brought up by g3...🤢

g3 ne usko bahut bigad rakhi hain...bachhe ko sahi-galat ki maloom nahi hain...g3 has always supported duggu's misdeeds...neither she had tried to correct nor she had alloed ak to do so...

solack of parent's attention and over-pampering of g3 has made duggu stubborn and attention seeker...ab tak sap ke nazar duggu par tha...ab achanak jab se nk ko hosh aagaya hain...sab ka nazar uspar divert ho gaya hain...

yeh sab kyun hua hain yeh baat duggu samaj nahi paaha hain...so he is bit restless...

ab time will only heal the gap bw nk and duggu😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthi.sweety

i don't find any abnormality in duggu's behaviour...😊
itni saalon se wo apni paapa ke pyaar se door hain..aur work ke chakkar main even ak cudn't give more time to duggu...so he was almost brought up by g3...🤢

g3 ne usko bahut bigad rakhi hain...bachhe ko sahi-galat ki maloom nahi hain...g3 has always supported duggu's misdeeds...neither she had tried to correct nor she had alloed ak to do so...

solack of parent's attention and over-pampering of g3 has made duggu stubborn and attention seeker...ab tak sap ke nazar duggu par tha...ab achanak jab se nk ko hosh aagaya hain...sab ka nazar uspar divert ho gaya hain...

yeh sab kyun hua hain yeh baat duggu samaj nahi paaha hain...so he is bit restless...

ab time will only heal the gap bw nk and duggu😊

but vo naitik se kyun darta hain itna?ananya and mohit son toh nahi ddarte?😕
sometimes i feel naksh son hoke itna bigda hua bacha
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i dont know what to say...
even i was hurted at this behaviour of naksh with their parents..last scene made me cry...but i dont think it will continue...please stay calm and please dont jump to conclusions that duggu will always be like this...everything will be alright very soon...once naitik gets up from bed everything will be sorted out...duggu is just 5 years old he doesnt know that he is hurting his parents who love him so much...he is feeling jealous becoz all the care and attention which he got from the family esp. g3 is now suddenly on naitik so comeon every1 will feel the same thing that too he is a small kid it will take some time...i think naksh will handle this situation together and they will win in bringing their child closer to them...just wait for one or two week... cvs will show ak-duggu-nk bond very soon...)))
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: avanti_duggu

but vo naitik se kyun darta hain itna?ananya and mohit son toh nahi ddarte?😕

sometimes i feel naksh son hoke itna bigda hua bacha


thats wat i m trying to say...wen nk wnet to coma duggu was just 1 year...tab se ab tak usko apni paapa ka pyaar nahi mila hain...gharwale bhi yahi kaha hoga use ki uska paapa bemar hain...isliye wo dartha ahin uske paas jaane keliye...

anu and yash's issue is different...they have got their parents attention...and they are not over-pampered😊kisi aur ke saath aisa hona aur apne dad ke saath aise hone main bahut farak hain...😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthi.sweety

i don't find any abnormality in duggu's behaviour...😊
itni saalon se wo apni paapa ke pyaar se door hain..aur work ke chakkar main even ak cudn't give more time to duggu...so he was almost brought up by g3...🤢

g3 ne usko bahut bigad rakhi hain...bachhe ko sahi-galat ki maloom nahi hain...g3 has always supported duggu's misdeeds...neither she had tried to correct nor she had alloed ak to do so...

solack of parent's attention and over-pampering of g3 has made duggu stubborn and attention seeker...ab tak sap ke nazar duggu par tha...ab achanak jab se nk ko hosh aagaya hain...sab ka nazar uspar divert ho gaya hain...

yeh sab kyun hua hain yeh baat duggu samaj nahi paaha hain...so he is bit restless...

ab time will only heal the gap bw nk and duggu😊

now im deseparately waiting for this time...😕
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Its all cause of G3. She has ruined Duggu by pampering him to the extent that Duggu feels that G3 is enough for him and that he doesn't need anyone else to look after him. 😡
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Don't know about kids either, but I sure can say that the behavior is characteristically human(child or adult)
Insecurity creeps into everybody, when one witnesses (perceived)diminishing value of himself/herself, among the people who form one's closed intimate circle.(Those who say that they don't feel insecure, lie!!! Everybody does, its a fact)

And about his indifference or avoidance to his dad, I would say is pretty instinctive as well, but yes it appears to be a bit overdone when viewed in terms of the physical aspects. I think today's kids are too smart to be physically scared or being close to some stranger. They ain't appear to be so innocent to be avoiding going near to an unknown or an irregular person. So had been shown of a kid of say 15, 20 yrs ago, it would've been easy to digest, but street sharps of present times, NO!!!

Besides, what is to be noted here is that though completely inactive & out of connect& reach of his son, N was still anyway lying in the home for past 4 years continuously, so that itself is sufficient to bring about a degree of physical familiarity & comfort level in the child, if not emotional, then atleast a physical acquiescence on his part about his father & his body.
But all in all, I think its NORMAL & really REAL!!!
WoW!!! I just did a Phd. on this in that post.
Sorry people!!😳

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Ritu567-

Its all cause of G3. She has ruined Duggu by pampering him to the extent that Duggu feels that G3 is enough for him and that he doesn't need anyone else to look after him. 😡


Agree & that is wrong.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Though I'm a silent member in this forum, I'd love to reply to this topic. Yes, Duggu's behaviour is normal, and I can say this confidently since I relate to him.

When I was 2-3, my mom left me with my grandparents, and went abroad to study, so that she can give me the best future. My grandma took care of every need of mine, and my grandpa provided me with everything I wanted before I asked him. In short, I was pampered a lot.

When I was 5, mom came back, and I did take a long period of time to get used to her and be friendly with her, even though she's my mom. Till I came here in Canada 2 years back, if I were asked to name the people I love the most, I'd say that they're my grandparents. I always used to rank my mom after them.

But now, things are different. As I'm away from my grandparents, slowly and steadily, I became close to my mom, and at present, she means the world to me. I'm so grateful to her for whatever she did for me. Leaving her own child and going abroad mustn't been easy for her, but she did for my sake. That's why, she's my ideal mom, and my bestest friend.

So yes, that's my story, and the reason I shared it here is to let you guys know that time will make everything better. Main toh phir bhi ladki hoon, phir bhi yeh sab hua mere saath, even though girls are emotionally stronger than boys. Toh Duggu ka aisa behave karna jaayez hai naa? By the end of it, I'd only say that he needs some time, and I'm sure that Naitik and Akshara, being parents, will understand that too. :)

I don't think that Gayatri is anyway related to this matter as it's just a humanistic characteristic, but yes I still DO NOT like her as she unintentionally separated Duggu from his parents.
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