Ahem and love: not letting go

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Posted: 12 years ago
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The undeniable quality of Ahem that Kokila expressed about her son - once he has a taste of having something that is his he will not let it go.

This quality is the cornerstone of this show. It is this that Kokila knew of her son that enabled her to make her choice of a wife for her son. Her task was to seek the best possible person which she has proved time and time again that she has not erred in anyway. She knew that once he understands his wife he will not let go of her. This is exactly what had happened.

He did take some time to come through with this. There was a dialogue he had with his mother following nani's departure that comes to mind. We know that he had promised his mother that he will behave as a husband in the presence of nani. Once nani left he was keen for Gopi to return to her mami's house. This is where Kokila refused to heed his request. Amongst the many things that was exchanged between mother and son one of the pointed statements Ahem had told his mother was that Gopi was not his ideal partner and asked her why she had chosen her. Kokila's response was that she is the most suitable partner for him and that in time he will see her worth. This is precisely what unfolded over time and he eventually took interest in Gopi's education and the rest, as they say, is history.

So too, with Ahem's reluctance to carry his child soon time will show his unbreakable attachment.

It is interesting that a mother who knows her child so well sought after a partner that will congeal with both herself and her son forming an unbreakable bond, as Sameera (sunnyahem) mentioned in her recent post.

It is intriguing to note this is very quality is what creates a web of relationships that sustains through the show.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Swasthi.. Beautiful write up...
I loved how Kokila said with the time he will be just fine with baby and then no one will get to hold the baby..Ahem's face said it all. He wanted to hold, but at the same he is scared and he was hesitating.. and then he thinks that the baby is in safe hands with Gopi.. I loved his expressions.. I hope the day comes soon when he holds his baby...😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
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And I cannot forget the day when Ahem said Gopi has to go back to her Mami's house.. My god.. Kokila cried and suffered so much inside herself and Gopi's crying, it still is very fresh in my mind.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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loving this show of emotions in the drama..ahem's fear for his daughter is very realistic..first time paps go through this...and yes after some time their daughter becomes their centre of universe and fathers are very protective towards their daughters..
I am sure we will see Ahem putting baby to sleep at night so that gopi gets some rest...he will be her Saathiya in this journey as well...
I am waiting to see only Gohem with their baby...
I want to see Gohem bathing their baby ...how lovely it would be
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Ahh... That was just so wonderfully articulated👏 About Ahem and his relationships and about Koki and her understanding of her son⭐️

Koki knows more about Ahem than anyone else and maybe it is because she sees herself in him. Both have the same quality with love. They love the person and trust the person the love implicitly. They are protective and their family means the most to them.

Ahem took his time to understand Gopi but in the process of understanding her he fell in love with her only to now have his life revolve around her completely. I have always felt that Ahem needs a person to nurture. He loves to take care of others and do his best for them. We saw him do that with Gopi.

Kokila chose wisely when she selected Gopi for Ahem. Knowing his inherent strengths and weaknesses she found a person who would complement him in all ways. She also wisely chose a person who she herself would be able to love and cherish. I think Kokila knows that Ahem cannot love without his mother. Maybe a little selfish but she is a mother and I see where that possessiveness comes from.
That same possessiveness we find in Ahem. His daughter is someone he will cherish. She is his dream, his Gopi's child.. Ahem for all we know has now a good understanding of Gopi's childhood. He may not know the exact details but he knows her struggle as an orphan and also knows her struggle to fit in with him.

His daughter is to him a chance to make up for all that his wife missed out in her life. Yes. one cannot change the past but the future can be looked at with hope and happiness. Will Ahem make Gopi relive her childhood in a totally different way through little Beti M?
I think he will. He will give Gopi the happiness she wished her child to have but in that process, both Gopi and Ahem will also live their childhood through her😳 Just a thought😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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What Koki said today was a premonition to the kind of relationship Ahem will have with his daughter. It might take time, as from the precap, she's crying when he's holding her, but I think that he'll definitely be his daughter's man after they bond. Just like my Pappa---awww!!! 😳 😆

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Awesome post Swsathi 👏😃

u remind me the old good days of SNS... I never ever forget that day when Ahem want to throw gopi out from his life n MM... Thanks to Nani coz her he bring gopi back or again thanks to Nani koki understand wht she going to wrong with has son married life... But yeah now times has changes completly who Ahem he cant stand gopi.. Today his life starts with her ends with means same gopi become everything for Ahem Parag Modi... Or just coz koki faith on has choice... She have faith one day her son surely understand the worth of his wife.. One day has son wont live with his wife... Or we all see koki's faith was come ture... 😊 Koki know her son so well coz she saw herself in it.. 😊 i love Ahem blind love on his mom that whtever his mom do for him is was the best.. which make KoHem relation so baeutiful... 😳

Actually... I think Koki wants to see Ahem as perfect father figure of his daughter... Thats y she want him to do all chores of his daughter... She want his son become responsible father... Not like Ahem's papa one... Means parag or his kids have no bonding.. Parag as father never did his actual reponsiblety... Thats y today Ahem gives core than more respect his mom as compair his papa... So didnt want Ahem be like parag... She want her son be like her... Responsible caring lovable or our Ahemji like always did his this resposiblity with full dignity... Imsure Ahem wil be the most adoreble daddy... With all qualities like caring lovable and tender also sensitive😳 his daughter most luckiest daughter who got father like Ahem Parag Modi... 😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
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So sweet of u to mention me swasti ..!! And loved your take on ahemji and dadaddy hood... he will be awesome and this lil girl will be a papas darling ..!!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Wonderful Post 😛
Really Nice 2 write Comparison Between present & Past😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ani_gr

Swasthi.. Beautiful write up...

I loved how Kokila said with the time he will be just fine with baby and then no one will get to hold the baby..Ahem's face said it all. He wanted to hold, but at the same he is scared and he was hesitating.. and then he thinks that the baby is in safe hands with Gopi.. I loved his expressions.. I hope the day comes soon when he holds his baby...😃


You are welcome Gayatri.

Well said too.

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