Aarti Should Be Blamed More Than Prashant!

To be honest I blame Aarti more than Prashant. If she hadn't lied to Yash in the first place, none of this would be happening. Instead of telling Yash the truth, she's increasing her own stress level, making herself vulnerable to his suspicion's later on, and is putting him in a position to be really heartbroken when the truth comes out. There's nobody to blame but herself.

Yeah, I agree. Prashant is a despicable character but Aarti is nowhere innocent or blameless. She dug her own grave from the very start. Even Yash was always truthful to her in regards to Arpita. He told her honestly that he loved his first wife and married her only for his kids. Later on he fell in love with her but he was always honest, whereas Aarti started this marriage with lies.

I thoroughly agree with both of you

Maybe I'm just having problems assigning blame, but I think faulty logic was used on both Aarti's and Prashant's parts. Aarti is working under the assumption that what she is doing is right by the Dubey's and she constantly keeps upping their ammo by allowing herself to be led by them, believing they actually have her best interest at heart. When that is rapidly proving not to be the case. At this point I find her frustrating because she won't stand up for herself and her unborn baby. Whatever consequences she has to face with Yash she will surely have to face and as a woman she needs to be prepared for that. She made some very bad decisions and she has no other option but to try and live with the outcome. Whatever debt she feels she owes the Dubeys has surely been paid. But now she has endangered the life of the baby she says she wants badly and for that reason alone she should get rid of the burden of the Dubeys.
Prashant on the other hand is being true to who he is... a very myopic little man with entitlement issues. He can't see why Aarti wouldn't want him back or why he shouldn't get her back. He made mistakes , he's not real sure what they were but everyone said he did so he must have and everyone else is happy so why not him? Everyone should sacrifice so that Prashant is happy and if they don't... well he'll just take his ball and go home.
And then there's Yash ... I could like a guy like him but I sure would hope that he were a little... never mind he's perfect and that could just be the problem.
This whole thing is like a giant game of "keep away" and Yash is the only one who doesn't know the truth that is rapidly unraveling around him. And still I can't really bring myself to assign blame.

I agree. Prashant is a despicable character but Aarti is nowhere innocent

Originally posted by: ilovepyaar

To be honest I blame Aarti more than Prashant. If she hadn't lied to Yash in the first place, none of this would be happening. Instead of telling Yash the truth, she's increasing her own stress level, making herself vulnerable to his suspicion's later on, and is putting him in a position to be really heartbroken when the truth comes out. There's nobody to blame but herself.

Aarti not wanting to lose Yash doesn't justify what she is doing in any way. Just because it's easier to hide the truth doesn't make it right. Since Yash is such a great man, it should be easier for her to tell him, but she's choosing to hide the truth and uses the 3rd BMT as an excuse. Who knows, even after the 3rd BMT happens and Yash doesn't find out yet yet, how much longer will she stall the truth?

I've been in a position where someone who was very, very close to me lied about something huge. Something I had the right to know. But they hid that, and I never forgave them. I'm kind of like Yash in that sense, I hate lies.

You shouldn't ever lie to your love interest about something so big, so I can't forgive Aarti for lying to Yash, and I'm not expecting him to forgive her easily either.

Yes, what Prashant is doing isn't right either, but at least he is clear about what he wants to do. He wants Aarti and Ansh back. Aarti wants Yash's love, but she doesn't realize that she would only deserve his love once she comes clean to him. Prashant isn't a saint. He isn't right in any way either, but I don't hate Prashant because Aarti had it coming. She dug her own grave. Prashant's nature is like this, but Aarti's bad decisions put herself in this position to be taken advantage of.

Originally posted by: ilovepyaar

To be honest I blame Aarti more than Prashant. If she hadn't lied to Yash in the first place, none of this would be happening. Instead of telling Yash the truth, she's increasing her own stress level, making herself vulnerable to his suspicion's later on, and is putting him in a position to be really heartbroken when the truth comes out. There's nobody to blame but herself.

Aarti not wanting to lose Yash doesn't justify what she is doing in any way. Just because it's easier to hide the truth doesn't make it right. Since Yash is such a great man, it should be easier for her to tell him, but she's choosing to hide the truth and uses the 3rd BMT as an excuse. Who knows, even after the 3rd BMT happens and Yash doesn't find out yet yet, how much longer will she stall the truth?

I've been in a position where someone who was very, very close to me lied about something huge. Something I had the right to know. But they hid that, and I never forgave them. I'm kind of like Yash in that sense, I hate lies.

You shouldn't ever lie to your love interest about something so big, so I can't forgive Aarti for lying to Yash, and I'm not expecting him to forgive her easily either.

Yes, what Prashant is doing isn't right either, but at least he is clear about what he wants to do. He wants Aarti and Ansh back. Aarti wants Yash's love, but she doesn't realize that she would only deserve his love once she comes clean to him. Prashant isn't a saint. He isn't right in any way either, but I don't hate Prashant because Aarti had it coming. She dug her own grave. Prashant's nature is like this, but Aarti's bad decisions put herself in this position to be taken advantage of.

I am Totally Agree with you..This is Totally Aartis Fault and She Should get Punishment for this...
I think She Knows Prashanth Very Well Better than any one..She loved him Most...So How can She Make her self Excuses and Hide the Truth...I am Not at All going to Pity for Aarti...
She Deserves all the Blames by Scindhya Family and Yash also...

saffi,

totally agree with you
arati is just taking advantage of yash's goodness
she should have told him the truth much earlier
but her way of leaving/ hiding this important truth from yash
is not acceptable at any circumtances
a lie is a lie
she very well knows yash hates lie
if her love for yash is true then she should have trusted him and told him the truth much earlier
at least before prashant's BMT

yash has total right to be angry with arati
she deserves his aloofness now