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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Samanalyse

@anonee: Actually, I don't think the Dubeys have ever been respectful of Aarti, even when they cared about her the most. From the very decision to go ahead with this PV for Ansh's sake to tearing up her wedding card with Prashant, everything was done either through force or blackmail. There has never really been any respect in their relationship for Aarti as an adult, which is why they feel free to blackmail her into whatever is convenient for them at that moment, whether it be the PV itself, the divorce lie or now Prashant's BMT. The only time Shobha ever acknowledged how much Aarti has done for them was when she was trying to upstage Prashant! So I stand by my original claim that the Dubeys some times care about Aarti more than others, but have never respected her.

The Dupeys sadly lack the ability to make decisions collectively as a family - their method is emotional blackmail. The first epi at Mansi's wedding when a lady comes with the offer for her son and insults Aarti - Shobha showed what the sherni in her in protecting Aarti (example of care with respect). Reminding her that the main reason she consented for a remarriage was because of Ansh - was care while reminding her of her need (not theirs). Mortgaging their house in order to get her married in a suitable manner - example of care and respect to maintain her dignity. Getting her home when G3 and Bua kicked her out - care and respect. But coercing at the wedding to not inform Yash - no caring attitude and no respect for her needs! I am not saying they did not love her - but the care and concern was absent!
I could site several more examples. Instead I will choose to agree that we disagree on this. In my POV care without respect or vice versa is hypocrisy.
Edit: Got to go - I have a 45 min presentation tomorrow on a topic given to me today. It is way left field - so I have to pull an all nighter. Wish me luck ALL!
Edited by anonee - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
I have been reading all the discussions on Prashnt'd care towards Arati.

He may have some care for Arati but did he ever care about Ansh . Even when he came to know that Ansh is kidnapped, not even for a moment he felt bad.So does he really have any right to ask for Arati and Ansh to come back to his life just because he is lonely.

Now if we look, it was Ansh who always attracted Prashant and that later on extended to Arati. Today also, his thought process was like to ask sorry to Arati and he wants them back but his actions to Arati are like he is happy if she is happy in her life. He also told today. I will never let you suffer because of me. But what I understand from his words is, he is expecting Arati to be thrown out once the truth comes and then he will hold her and support her which again gives him the mahan image and in a way there he is not letting Arati suffer as he is ever ready to accept her

He may care for people but only when he needs them and not when those people needs him.
Edited by jikky_84 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: jikky_84

He may care for people but only when he needs them and not when those people needs him.[/DIV]



Well said! Exactly my point!
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: K__S

@anonee: agree, Bua is never really highlighted as a "villain", however I have my doubts on her. I don't know why but I feel she might join Prashant somehow. She never cared about Yash or her families happiness as long as Aarti was not happy/or somehow proven wrong. There is something seriously wrong with her I tell ya!
Really makes you wonder what happened to her that makes her this bitter. I really wonder what the cv's have in mind for Bua (be it redemption or not!)
I think SP doesn't even think about her remarriage in this age lol!

I will not be surprised if she joins hands with P - more than the alliance she will enjoy revealing P's identity to SP and G3!
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Posted: 12 years ago
So I was thinking maybe we can get a scene like this in the future:
Prashant says he cares about Ansh and will give him everything Yash can after all he is my blood!
Aarti in a dramatic manner asks him where he was when Ansh was kidnapped and Dubeys called him for helping with the ransom money and reminds him how he had told them to go to Yash for help instead in a rude manner!

This could be a great dramatic scene which can tie things back to the start of this Punarvivah and also Aarti being present in that scene can come of good use now when the story will demand so!
And I want Yash to overhear all this and realize how Aarti is on his side and becomes determined to protect his little family from Prashant!

What say!?
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Posted: 12 years ago
Main difference between Prashant and Yash -
Yash is a man of his word, he treats his relationships with respect and is there for them whenever and however one might need him! He delivers what he promises, is full of love, doesn't want to burden others with his pain even when he is at his lowest (post-Mumbai track where he wanted to be left alone and cried in front of Gayatri for being a failure at relationships). He is a life partner whom you can trust blindly cuz that's how devoted he is and who will support you (Aarti) even when times are hard, but he just won't let go!!
Now Prashant is the exact opposite hehe!
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Posted: 12 years ago
Fantastic discussions Samana, Saffi, Meena and Chhavi 👏 👏 👏...You guys are on fire keep it up ❤️



EDIT: Holy crap, between some research and DC I didn't see the time passing it's after 1 A.M here 🤢 😳 Off to dreamland...Night or should I say Good AM, see you guys in a few hours 🤗


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Posted: 12 years ago
@Chhavi: I totally want a reality check scene for Prashant, where he is reminded of everything he did wrong or didn't do at all! I loved the one you described! For him, until Lalitpur, Ansh was just an idea that he didn't really like to think about, a responsibility that he didn't want to shoulder. But at L'pur he realised that this responsibility was really cute, cuddly and made him feel like a hero so he wanted more. But even more than the verbal reality check which you described, I want their to be an actual situation where Ansh needs a responsible father and Prashant makes a huge fanfare but fails miserably while Yash takes care of the whole situation without a peep, like he always does. It will show Prashant what it means to be a father and have Ansh's best interests at heart.
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Posted: 12 years ago
Interesting...very interesting...This episode might have looked like a filler but this is where the first seeds were planted in Prashant's mind...that he can have again what he had once...that he can be what he was...that she is now as she was then, which means he can be how he was too...that it is right to desire what seems out of reach...that she still needs him.

This is what I wrote yesterday in response to the episode and the promo:

An advice to Aarti: The future is a mere reflection, if you are still letting in the past and letting it reside in you...You have to be true to your present otherwise the past will turn around and break the mirror reflecting your future.


I know that you believe you understand what you think I said, but I'm not sure you realize that what you heard is not what I meant.

Prashant has not crossed over...not yet. However, his desires toward regaining his lost world are being tingled. Unfortunately, it is only Aarti who is encouraging him by her ambiguous behavior...by not being able to carry through with actions what her words say to him. His imagination is being fed at the moment by Aarti's naivety and her giving of that all-important inch. He desperately seeks the Aarti he knew, and she is giving him that by just being who she is. Prashant left behind a broken woman...and now he wants to mend that broken woman...himself...so he is looking for chinks in her supposedly happy married life. Problem is, from his narrow viewfinder he is finding plenty of evidence that suggests that Aarti is living under duress...that all that really matters to her is her security in a family...that she is compromising herself for the need to belong in the family. Aarti constantly lets him in on her fears...Her intent is to keep him away from her family, so she tries to appeal to his conscience and gives him the reality check regarding their personal equation...but he chooses to think that Aarti needs him to provide that security cover against the Scindias. The man dismisses the fact that he came uninvited, but retains the moments when Aarti needed him.

Aarti is stoking the embers of his desire and has no clue she is doing it. Her goodness is turning out to be her bane. Ever since he came back, Prashant had been witness to a very strong Aarti, a very defiant Aarti, a very angry Aarti, an Aarti who stood up to him...For the first time since Lalitpur, he finds a vulnerable Aarti and inadvertently he falls back to being the Prashant of yore...the Prashant who knew and wed a child-woman who didn't know what was good for her and needed constant looking after..."Aha, I knew it...she is still the same. More than herself she cares about others...what will they think if they knew...whether they will understand. She still has the same fears. She still cannot take care of herself...She knows one shouldn't take medicines on empty stomach, but look...she still behaves as stubbornly as she used to and refuses to listen to me. She is just the same as she was when she was carrying Ansh. Just like then, even now I have to forcefully feed her...make her see sense. Yes...she is still the same Aarti."

Prashant is confusing Aarti's compartmentalized psyche...by traveling to and fro between the past and the present...by coming between her need to hate him and not being able to do so...by being at the right time at the right place twice now and helping her when she was physically in need of care and when none of her family were around. She wants to drive him away, but how can she do that? The man is sick, needs her help in getting him through the treatment, and, moreover, has helped her in need. Prashant is making inroads in her life in a very unassuming manner and Aarti is helpless to control the situations that are arising out of his persistence to pursue her family...as she presumes and as what he makes her presume. "I know how I feel...you know what you feel...we both know that we have no feelings for each other, but how am I going to make my family understand this when they come to know who you really are?" By projecting her extreme fear she gives him the opening he needed to...that there's a chance the Scindias may go against her...that what his gut instincts tell him they will evict her on knowing the truth is true...that his very presence is lethal to all these new relationships that she has. At the moment, Prashant may feel sympathetic, even co-conspirational, in her need to protect his identity as the fatal desire to get Aarti/Ansh back has still not arisen, but these are the useful information his mind is subconsciously storing...

There's no doubt he helped her in need and was there when she needed caring...yet at the same time it was apparent that he liked playing the role of the man on whom she can rely on. In a small way, he was doing what he had omitted to do all those years back...fix her...after he broke her. His presence brought on that stress attack that caused her to rely on him. She hated the position she was in but was totally defenceless because of her sick condition. She didn't like being tended to by him...but he didn't know it. Aarti is hanging by the end of the rope at the moment...and the only thing that hasn't let her fall yet is Yash's love. She'll never recover if Yash turns his back on her...and that fear stresses her out more than anything else...Till Aarti tells Yash about her past, she will have to suffer this tug-of-war between what she wants and what she has to do!!!

Till Aarti tells Prashant in not-so-uncertain terms that she loved Yash and that she fears losing his and the family's love if they come to know of Prashant being her ex husband, Prashant will keep thinking that her reasons for being in this family are because circumstances pushed her to...that given a choice she'd still want her old life...the one she had with him and his parents...back. The pictures in the room gave him a huge reality check today...that what was once his belonged to the other now. The more he gets closer to them, the more his desires are awakening to have what he once had. Prashant's changeover from the darkest tint of gray to black just needs a trigger now!!!



That's it friends...The way CVs are tackling this issue, I have a feeling now that the family will be the hardest to convince about the truth, given Prashant's upcoming stance. An ex husband having a life of his own is easier to digest than the one who is single and forever hovering around their bahu/bhabhi. Yash is needed to be the mediator...He will be needed to defend her character when bua and the circumstantial evidences go against her.

Have a nice day.😊


Edited by InduG64 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
Beautiful Indu :)

Yash as a mediator? Lets see he and Aarti are really good at solving other people problems rather than their own lol

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