whats the meaning of selfish?

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sherma

@sherma

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Posted: 13 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: princessjojo
A sensible post. Purvi has been incredibly selfish in making Arjun pay for her mother's happiness. The less said about Ovi the better- I don't understand why the anti-ARVI crowd constantly sides with her. And Arjun is disgustingly gullible and blinded in his love for Purvi- and let's not forget that he has caused all these problems from the day he got engaged to Ovi knowing that he would break the engagement.

no1 is siding any1 here

this is the major problem,if we r against arvi sowe have side ovi

i m neither an arvi or ovi fan

i just mean that and evn u agree if ovi is selfish so is purvi,bth wnted their happiness,so y so much hatered for ovi

we all r angry on ovi drinking alcohal and tking a stupid step,and she too is abshed by us,but on the other side we understnd her sitaution too

we wnted arjun to behave like a husband instead of leaving her alone at hme,he cld complain ti her parents,the day ovi strted drinking,but wat was he waiting for

all three mad people need bashing and slaps from elders

but no1 isinterested to shw their mistkes

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bips

@bips

Sparkler

+ 8

Posted: 13 years ago

#12

Sashashyam, i remember kabhi kabhi but mostly the most amazing father son bonding scenes between shashi and rishi kapoor. I dont remember the scenes where rakhi and amitabh broke up.

Sherma, i dont think purvi has moved on at all. Then the prem wont remain pavitra. I think the whole cutesy pati biwi scene was just too confuse the viewers. There is a googly coming up.

Personally, i think all three of them - ovi, arjun, purvi need to break up with each other. Currently they seem to be sharing a single brain amonst themselves. A clear cut three way divorce is the solution. And they need to find better partners, preferably ppl with more sense than them

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pomegranate

@pomegranate

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Posted: 13 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: bips
Sashashyam, i remember kabhi kabhi but mostly the most amazing father son bonding scenes between shashi and rishi kapoor. I dont remember the scenes where rakhi and amitabh broke up.

Sherma, i dont think purvi has moved on at all. Then the prem wont remain pavitra. I think the whole cutesy pati biwi scene was just too confuse the viewers. There is a googly coming up.

Personally, i think all three of them - ovi, arjun, purvi need to break up with each other. Currently they seem to be sharing a single brain amonst themselves. A clear cut three way divorce is the solution. And they need to find better partners, preferably ppl with more sense than them

purvi moving on will be too good to be true. I don't think Cv's will show that, especially because there are such hardcore arvi fans out there. soon as as she sees arjun, old feelings will come rushing back and they will start having those passionate eye locks again. it's sad that the story is taking this turn because I thought yesterday's epi was the perfect way to bring this derailed show back on track.

Edited by pomegranate - 13 years ago

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Dabulls23

@Dabulls23

Stunner

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Posted: 13 years ago

#14

IF Cvs decide to show Purvi has moved on then why could they not show Arjun after marrying Ovi was able to move on?

CVs like to dangle that silly carrot "The romance, 21st century devine love" in front of ArVi fans or hopeless romantics..

Bips I am with you on the "Googly comin up" Waiting around the corner..

Though Arjun is hung up on Purvi more than Purvi being hung up on him as I dont believe she ever loved Arjun..Just like Arjun never loved Ovi..

Ovi's love for Arjun and Arjun's love for Purvi are the similar kinds..

Obsessive, Damaging and not healthy..

ADD: If by any chance Ovi loses a child and Purvi is not pregnant by Arjun's baby than all 3 need to break lose and get therapy big time to become whole again...Not fall for anyone until they are beyond 30, mature and learn from this mistake..

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Manoshono

@Manoshono

Sparkler

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Posted: 13 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: Dabulls23
IF Cvs decide to show Purvi has moved on then why could they not show Arjun after marrying Ovi was able to move on?

CVs like to dangle that silly carrot "The romance, 21st century devine love" in front of ArVi fans or hopeless romantics..

Bips I am with you on the "Googly comin up" Waiting around the corner..

Though Arjun is hung up on Purvi more than Purvi being hung up on him as I dont believe she ever loved Arjun..Just like Arjun never loved Ovi..

Ovi's love for Arjun and Arjun's love for Purvi are the similar kinds..

Obsessive, Damaging and not healthy..

ADD: If by any chance Ovi loses a child and Purvi is not pregnant by Arjun's baby than all 3 need to break lose and get therapy big time to become whole again...Not fall for anyone until they are beyond 30, mature and learn from this mistake..

@ green, I dont think Ovi's love is similar to arjun's.

Arjun sacrificed himself for purvi but ovi didnt. Love suppose to free the person for their happiness. Ovi didnt do anything like that, instead she became a complete physco and won arjun because she wanted her happiness. Arjun on the other hand did evertything for the sake of his love and destroyed his life, not once thinking that it will going to mess everything.

I understand both ovi and purvi were selfish, and i do blame both for making arjun's life miserable. But ovi ranks high in selfishness than purvi.

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MidnightRambler

@MidnightRambler

Rocker

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Posted: 13 years ago

#16

Guys, I think ArVi fans are misunderstanding some of us.

We are NOT saying Ovi isn't selfish. I completely agree. She is selfish.

What some of us are trying to say is that Purvi is ALSO selfish. Arjun is ultimately paying the price of her choice. I mean it was his decision too but that's another topic of discussion.

The point is that we're saying BOTH Ovi and Purvi are selfish. However, Purvi has been shown to be this mahaan, angelic girl who sacrificed her life or something for her mother. When the truth is that Arjun made the actual sacrifice. I hope it's clear.

P.S. ONE MORE HUGE POINT!!! Saying something against ArVi DOES NOT AUTOMATICALLY mean that we are siding with OVI. PLEASE UNDERSTAND THIS. I personally think all three of these people have made stupid decisions and ruined their own lives.

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Julie

@JulieD

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Posted: 13 years ago

#17

I agree that Purvi is just as selfish as Ovi. AND I also believe that Arjun is very selfish as well.

He knows that Ovi loves him desperately and he has no intentions of ever loving her back, But instead of divorcing her and letting her get the mental health she needs, he instead fooled her into believing he wanted another chance at his marriage and even went so far as to have sex with her all because Purvi told him too.

I was a huge Arvi fan in the early days, but not anymore. Just because of the games they are playing. Purvi never had to force Arjun in the first place to marry Ovi. All she had to do was go to Manav and tell him the truth about Sachin's demands. At that time I had felt bad for Arjun.

But now, after he said he loved Purvi in front of everyone, and then turned around and tricked Ovi into believing he wanted another chance, I lost all pity and respect for him.

He deserves to suffer each day thinking of Purvi with another man because at the end of the day, Ovi was his best friend.

And then does Arvi fans really want this guy who was having sex with one sister back with the other? That is truly digusting.

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Dabulls23

@Dabulls23

Stunner

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Posted: 13 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: JulieD
But now, after he said he loved Purvi in front of everyone, and then turned around and tricked Ovi into believing he wanted another chance, I lost all pity and respect for him.
He deserves to suffer each day thinking of Purvi with another man because at the end of the day, Ovi was his best friend.

Julie fab point..I liked Arjun so much initially until Being engaged to Ovi, he went ahead & fell for Purvi knowing the fact Purvi was Archana's daughter in short Ovi's adopted sister..

@ underline Karma is the biggest B ain't it...I hope so too after how he begged Ovi for the second chance at marriage by saying he will give her all the haqs of a WIFE but never said he will never ever love her..Had he said that Ovi would have never given him another chance..That moment she got, faced and accepted the truth..Her main reason for asking him the important Q out loud "If he loved Purvi"

He needs to suffer as much or more for going ahead and playing the cards Purvi dealt out...

Neither Purvi nor Arjun had to go along with Ovi'd deal..

Initially all 3 were at fault now Arjun and Arjun alone...Both Purvi and Arjun are selfish just like Ovi...

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Jazmin

@jnawaz

Inactive

+ 6

Posted: 13 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: jkhusi
Omg please not again the same thing purvi is selfish ovi is not selfish arjun bla bla seems like some of you are waiting for post like this every day seems like some of you are on a mission,Mission blashing arvi every day ,so you blash purvi and arjun hope you can sleep good to night

Breaking forum rule #3. All fans are entitled to their opinoins and can express so, as long as they dont break forum rules. You cannot attack a group of members for their views. If they feel a certain way, and you dont, discuss and put out your point of view about why you think otherwise, but DO NOT bash and attack them. Making mocking and derogatory comments like "hope you sleep good tonight" is also not allowed. Make sure all comments posted are w/in Forum Rules and IF COC.

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