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tanvismile

@tanvismile

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Posted: 13 years ago

I m not biased or sadist ,i realy admired the act when cvs showed young widows putting mehandi on their hands but yesterday dadisa putting mehandi on anandi,i mean i am not calling her as apshagun or something but the papampara has a beautiful meaning,a suhagan should mehandi on dulhan as shagun ki mehandi becoz she has spent lot of time with hubby ,she is lucky enough to have loving hubby suport throughout life so she is giving or spreading(dnt know the right word to be used)her fortune to the new dulhan ,so that new dulhan also is blessed by hubby suport throughout life.see it isnt anything wrong to put mehandi on one own hands ,bt shagun ki mehandi ..,see every ritual has its own meaning,now like a wife touches hubby feet to take his blessing ,so does it mean a women is les then man ,no.although some rituals are not so convincing bt we cant change them ,we need to respect them.

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Bulbul

@Bul3

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Posted: 13 years ago

i can understand what u are trying to say..I believe as long as u bind traditions and it is not the other way round it is allright!.. some traditions does not make a lot of sense but still many of us follow them..its not because we are superstitious or anything..but its simply because traditions have their own beauty..so as long as u are not rigid it is all good according to me..so I do not mind Anandi getting Mehendi from Dadisa but I would have not mind it otherwise..BV showed it because it was important to let people understand that traditions should not come in the way of happiness..the happiness in Dadisa's eyes when she puts mehendi says it itself why it was important 😊

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Posted: 13 years ago

it is better to avoid those rituals which disrepect widow

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Shreya

@luv_shanak

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: tanvismile
I m not biased or sadist ,i realy admired the act when cvs showed young widows putting mehandi on their hands but yesterday dadisa putting mehandi on anandi,i mean i am not calling her as apshagun or something but the papampara has a beautiful meaning,a suhagan should mehandi on dulhan as shagun ki mehandi becoz she has spent lot of time with hubby ,she is lucky enough to have loving hubby suport throughout life so she is giving or spreading(dnt know the right word to be used)her fortune to the new dulhan ,so that new dulhan also is blessed by hubby suport throughout life.see it isnt anything wrong to put mehandi on one own hands ,bt shagun ki mehandi ..,see every ritual has its own meaning,now like a wife touches hubby feet to take his blessing ,so does it mean a women is les then man ,no.although some rituals are not so convincing bt we cant change them ,we need to respect them.

its not at all about following a parampara, its about the orthodox belief that have been created in our society by some people who considered woman as weak and wanted to have domination of women... as anandi has said that shubh ashubh kuch nahi hota, kisi bhi nek irade se kiya gaya kam kabhi ashubh ho hi nahi sakta.. waise hi anandi was absolutely right ki each and every woman should get a right to put mehandi on her hand as its though considered as a shagun for suhagan but its also a beautiful feeling for a girl (i personaaly love to put mehandi on every other occasion)aur samaj ke dabav mein ake insaan ko uski itni choti choti khushiyaan na dena galat hai.. mehandi insaan sirf suhagan ki nishani ke liya nahi, shauk ke liye bhi laga sakta hai.. is baat ko shagun apshagun se jodna galat hai.. honestly i felt so proud yesterday when anandi asked dadisa to put mehandi.. got so teary eyed seeing dadisa's tears.😭😭😭

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shalgo

@shalgo

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: luv_shanak

its not at all about following a parampara, its about the orthodox belief that have been created in our society by some people who considered woman as weak and wanted to have domination of women... as anandi has said that shubh ashubh kuch nahi hota, kisi bhi nek irade se kiya gaya kam kabhi ashubh ho hi nahi sakta.. waise hi anandi was absolutely right ki each and every woman should get a right to put mehandi on her hand as its though considered as a shagun for suhagan but its also a beautiful feeling for a girl (i personaaly love to put mehandi on every other occasion)aur samaj ke dabav mein ake insaan ko uski itni choti choti khushiyaan na dena galat hai.. mehandi insaan sirf suhagan ki nishani ke liya nahi, shauk ke liye bhi laga sakta hai.. is baat ko shagun apshagun se jodna galat hai.. honestly i felt so proud yesterday when anandi asked dadisa to put mehandi.. got so teary eyed seeing dadisa's tears.😭😭😭

infact this has changed so much in cities. i remember that once or twice on my kava chauth i have requested my widowed mil to apply mehendi on my hand, when i could not go out to get it done, she also sits with me for the puja and guides me through all rituals...i cannot even imagine that she can be a apshagun of any sort for a family/son for which she lives and does so much...guys,...lets just break out of this...i think it is more on widow applying mehendi on their hands where people are still more orthodox...never seen this and admire that the serial makers made us think about this aspect as well/.

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ALISHA SHIRODKAR

@PRINCESS_ALISHA

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Posted: 13 years ago

i dont find anything wrong in it. I am shocked being in modern generation you have a small thinking. Jai ho!

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Minu Mishra

@mmishra1

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Posted: 13 years ago

I luved that. In our family (myv mom side-dhe is from a royal family) when some onr gets married first aarti karne ka haq family ke eldest woman like grandmother (either she is widow or suhagan) ka hota hai kyonki unka aashirwaad means a lot. DS ko mehndi lagate dekh yahaan rahte hue mujhe laga mai apni nani ke ghar pahoonch gayee, Rahee baat pati ke pair choone ka toh that is a dhakosla for me. Dil se izzat na ho toh pairchhoone se kya hoga?

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Yash Pal Dhavan

@Yash.Pal

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: mmishra1
I luved that. In our family (myv mom side-dhe is from a royal family) when some onr gets married first aarti karne ka haq family ke eldest woman like grandmother (either she is widow or suhagan) ka hota hai kyonki unka aashirwaad means a lot. DS ko mehndi lagate dekh yahaan rahte hue mujhe laga mai apni nani ke ghar pahoonch gayee, Rahee baat pati ke pair choone ka toh that is a dhakosla for me. Dil se izzat na ho toh pairchhoone se kya hoga?

Superb post, I really liked it.

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Payal

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: tanvismile
I m not biased or sadist ,i realy admired the act when cvs showed young widows putting mehandi on their hands but yesterday dadisa putting mehandi on anandi,i mean i am not calling her as apshagun or something but the papampara has a beautiful meaning,a suhagan should mehandi on dulhan as shagun ki mehandi becoz she has spent lot of time with hubby ,she is lucky enough to have loving hubby suport throughout life so she is giving or spreading(dnt know the right word to be used)her fortune to the new dulhan ,so that new dulhan also is blessed by hubby suport throughout life.see it isnt anything wrong to put mehandi on one own hands ,bt shagun ki mehandi ..,see every ritual has its own meaning,now like a wife touches hubby feet to take his blessing ,so does it mean a women is les then man ,no.although some rituals are not so convincing bt we cant change them ,we need to respect them.

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