Two much forward

Originally posted by: tanvismile

I m not biased or sadist ,i realy admired the act when cvs showed young widows putting mehandi on their hands but yesterday dadisa putting mehandi on anandi,i mean i am not calling her as apshagun or something but the papampara has a beautiful meaning,a suhagan should mehandi on dulhan as shagun ki mehandi becoz she has spent lot of time with hubby ,she is lucky enough to have loving hubby suport throughout life so she is giving or spreading(dnt know the right word to be used)her fortune to the new dulhan ,so that new dulhan also is blessed by hubby suport throughout life.see it isnt anything wrong to put mehandi on one own hands ,bt shagun ki mehandi ..,see every ritual has its own meaning,now like a wife touches hubby feet to take his blessing ,so does it mean a women is les then man ,no.although some rituals are not so convincing bt we cant change them ,we need to respect them.

Originally posted by: luv_shanak

its not at all about following a parampara, its about the orthodox belief that have been created in our society by some people who considered woman as weak and wanted to have domination of women... as anandi has said that shubh ashubh kuch nahi hota, kisi bhi nek irade se kiya gaya kam kabhi ashubh ho hi nahi sakta.. waise hi anandi was absolutely right ki each and every woman should get a right to put mehandi on her hand as its though considered as a shagun for suhagan but its also a beautiful feeling for a girl (i personaaly love to put mehandi on every other occasion)aur samaj ke dabav mein ake insaan ko uski itni choti choti khushiyaan na dena galat hai.. mehandi insaan sirf suhagan ki nishani ke liya nahi, shauk ke liye bhi laga sakta hai.. is baat ko shagun apshagun se jodna galat hai.. honestly i felt so proud yesterday when anandi asked dadisa to put mehandi.. got so teary eyed seeing dadisa's tears.😭😭😭

Originally posted by: mmishra1

I luved that. In our family (myv mom side-dhe is from a royal family) when some onr gets married first aarti karne ka haq family ke eldest woman like grandmother (either she is widow or suhagan) ka hota hai kyonki unka aashirwaad means a lot. DS ko mehndi lagate dekh yahaan rahte hue mujhe laga mai apni nani ke ghar pahoonch gayee, Rahee baat pati ke pair choone ka toh that is a dhakosla for me. Dil se izzat na ho toh pairchhoone se kya hoga?

Originally posted by: tanvismile

I m not biased or sadist ,i realy admired the act when cvs showed young widows putting mehandi on their hands but yesterday dadisa putting mehandi on anandi,i mean i am not calling her as apshagun or something but the papampara has a beautiful meaning,a suhagan should mehandi on dulhan as shagun ki mehandi becoz she has spent lot of time with hubby ,she is lucky enough to have loving hubby suport throughout life so she is giving or spreading(dnt know the right word to be used)her fortune to the new dulhan ,so that new dulhan also is blessed by hubby suport throughout life.see it isnt anything wrong to put mehandi on one own hands ,bt shagun ki mehandi ..,see every ritual has its own meaning,now like a wife touches hubby feet to take his blessing ,so does it mean a women is les then man ,no.although some rituals are not so convincing bt we cant change them ,we need to respect them.