Originally posted by: Bul3
i can understand what u are trying to say..I believe as long as u bind traditions and it is not the other way round it is allright!.. some traditions does not make a lot of sense but still many of us follow them..its not because we are superstitious or anything..but its simply because traditions have their own beauty..so as long as u are not rigid it is all good according to me..so I do not mind Anandi getting Mehendi from Dadisa but I would have not mind it otherwise..BV showed it because it was important to let people understand that traditions should not come in the way of happiness..the happiness in Dadisa's eyes when she puts mehendi says it itself why it was important 😊
Beautifully explained ,i also dnt say dadisa is upshaguni but according to me ,every ritual has its own beauty ,we dnt need to make out negitive meaning of everything,like dat we can why girls only have to change their surname after marrige ,y not boys.coming to dadisa ,she was very well participating in function,dancing,eating enjoying ,if she was considered upshaguni then they wudnt be allowed her to attend ,now atleast Kanyadaan is a ritual which i must feel even widow should do becoz it is greatest punya to do ,widow should nt be deprived of it,nways my thing is they overdid it
Edited by tanvismile - 12 years ago
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