Have you never lie EVER???

I see sooo many ppl sooo angry with Aarti for lying to Yash and that makes me wonder...Do most people actually have not directly or indirectly lied in their lives ever???? You know omit the truth now cause you think there is gonna be a better time in the future to disclose it??? Or just plain not tell the truth cause you do not want to hurt someone's feelings??? Or because of certain circumstances you cannot be truthful???

Originally posted by: Frozen007

If a person never ever lies in his life, is he known to have achieved a big victory ???

There are superficial beings in this world...no one is a born Rajnikant!!!

Or Yashji for that matter...Aarti is lying and this lie may cost her way too much in future...but if this lie is ensuring peace and happiness (Mind you, her being happy / otherwise will change Yash's life as well) then I really don't want to blame her...I don't have Yash - like ideals...every person is bound to have a different opinion because every person is given a separate mind to think...

I assure you there are persons who have lied at some point in their lives...I too have...because I am superficial :)

Originally posted by: DMKJ_VB

I think every person lies some time or the other. However when the lie is something like not telling ur husband that u have an ex husband who is alive, and that the ex husband has cancer, and u have gone and done ur son's BMT transfer...well, in that case, its not just any lie! Its a huge HUGE deal! and that can't be excused! Fear is normal. But u have to face ur fears and not lie becoz of them! Aarti would have been right if she had accepted that she was scared to tell the truth, and then inspite of that, she had told the truth to him ( because he deserves to know.and not be kept in the dark deliberately!)...esp after he himself told her so many times. I would have still sympathized with her had she just accepted she was scared ( even if she did not tell the truth).but she says she has no other way, she says "in such circumstances, what else can ppl do!"...Oh thats so not done aarti! U can't lie and then glorify it at the same time! Stop making it sound as if u r doing some sacrifice!

Originally posted by: akui1984

@ bold - From how I see it, I think Aarti needs reassurance that whatever she is doing is the "correct" thing to do which is why she tried to convince herself thet in such circumstances, what else can ppl do...You know sometimes you play these mind games cause deep down in your soul you know this is NOT the correct thing to do...But at that moment all that you want to do is allay your self-doubts and tell yaself that this is the only choice NOW...I do not think she wanted to glorify her actions...Anyway, maybe I feel differently than most ppl cause we all go through different life experiences that shape our perspectives!!!

Originally posted by: DMKJ_VB

I agree about that, but aarti has been doing it too many times. its strange if she keeps on convincing her she has no way out...inspite of Yash's continuous insistence about not to lie,and how he hates lies! Had I been in her place, i would have probably fallen sick with guilt! and I am also talking from personal experience. I agree not everyone thinks alike, may be its me who can't find any justification in what aarti is doing. Not now at least. I could relate to her till Prashant came back, but continuing to lie after that is shocking! Esp, whatever she did yesterday! and worst of all, she hardly showed any guilt on her face when Yash said sorry to her about lying!