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Originally posted by: jikky_84
Saffi, I don't think changing a school and BMT are of same wavelength
Also, Yash just took that decision and told to her immediately when they reached home. It was not that he kept it as a secret and took Ansh to school behind Arati's back, I think thats impossible too 😆
That was just few days after their marriage and both were not really into the marriage even. But now they have come a long way and things have changed a lot.
So, basically these two can't be compared.
Asha, I think they are on the same wavelength. What makes BMT any different? In both cases, one of the parents isn't notified of something big happening to their child.
How far along they are in their marriage shouldn't make a difference. The fact of the matter is that they were both responsible for their child, and making a huge decision without consulting the other parent has been shown in the show before.
He didn't hide it from Aarti, but he still made a decision for his son without asking her. That automatically takes away her right as a mother. Similarly, with the bone marrow transfer, she does it behind his back (and she implies that she'll tell him once the BMT is over) and this takes away Yash's right as a father.
You might assume that the bone marrow transfer is a bigger deal. I don't know whether it is a big deal or not, but I feel like changing schools without notifying the other parent is a huge deal as well. In my opinion, they're on the same level. If I were in Aarti/Yash's position, I would be equally pissed off if the father of my child changed his school without notifying me or made him undergo a bone marrow transfer without letting me know. It would all come down to them making a decision for my child without consulting me, therefore taking away my rights as a mother.
Edited by ilovepyaar - 13 years ago