Thing is
WHAT you bitch about.
Firstly, I don't even know what Delnaaz has done that's so evil. Personally, I have never seen her bitch, it's just that she listens to everyone.
Secondly, Aashka & all speak about what Urvashi has done to THEM personally (or at least what they think she has done). They never bring in her personal life into the conversation. Whereas, here in the live feed, Urvashi and Nik are speaking about:
1) Implications of Rajeev & Sana relationship
2) Calling Delnaaz's health problems fake
3) Saying why Delnaaz came on the show when she knew Rajeev was there (even though Delnaaz has said openly many times that she has a heavy loan to pay back and that she needs this show)
4) Debating who would 'cry' if they lost the show
... And all this is just what I caught on the live feed, I'm sure there was more.
If you can't see the difference between these two types of 'bitching' then, I don't know what else to say..