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Dabulls23 thumbnail
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Posted: 12 years ago
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If Pradeep had not lived with Anu for the past yr after leaving Mona, and now regretting him breaking up his marriage, I could give him a break..
People have different reasons for getting back together..
What is unforgiveable and unforgettable is Pradip himself cheating and breaking his own family, than living with the so called first love of his life for almost a yr...slipping once or one night stand is different than living with another woman for a yr..
I do not believe or condone getting back together for kids sake...Yes Pradip has realized his mistakes, regretting it too but he needs to go thru his own repentance once he finds out how Anu screwed him...Just like Mona lived without a man for a yr...She was lonely, she felt cheated, devastated...Pradip also needs to go thru his own..
Again I would like to see Mona doing her little soul searching..Apparently she is not the ideal perfect wife, daughter, dil, mother as she is portrayed...She needs to look inside and figure out what lacked in their marriage for it to break..I can be the odd ball here but I dont know why I feel she is going to hurt Vineet as she still is hung up on Pradip...I get that...12 yrs of loving and being married to a man, having 3 kids is alot to detach oneself from.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@TM I did read about the culture in the west issue , To clarify that, I know of many friends(indian in origin) who have gone through similar kinda ordeal & would seek a new chapter by staying as a single mom taking responsibilities of getting the children grow the natural way or look for a second marriage where the partner is giving a new phase in life even with such circumstances the two biological parents share enough time with the kids..

Trends Norms need to be handled well when you bring in too much of uncertainty thats where things go wrong..

Yes it would be devastation to split a family BUT looking at why & what happened many a times its ones self consciousness which will lead the right way.
In case of Mona the character is not ready to give herself some space to see WHAT she wants in life rather others are highly influencing her so for the SAKE of ... again needs HER OWN conciousness to help her LEAD the ri8 way...DECISION is hers.. AND DECISION AGAIN is something which is LEFT to YOU who can CHANGE & if the other party is HAPPY UNHAPPY is pleased is not iin ur control only urs is...

Just sharing my two cents...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Mona wants to be Good daughter, DIL, WIFI, Mother and than some b4 she wants to do the right thing by her, her kids...
She is doing it all for others and not really thinking abt her own self and kids...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Mona wants to be Good daughter, DIL, WIFI, Mother and than some b4 she wants to do the right thing by her, her kids...

She is doing it all for others and not really thinking abt her own self and kids...

y she always wants to be good for others😕?y she wants to please others😕?that too, at the cost of her self-respect n individuality.she is doing all things for her inlaws n for a husband who cheated,who killed her belief,trust,love,honour for the other woman.wn the trust is broken where is the space for love,intimacy,care n understanding?hw much can she forget n forgive?is it the only way?is it the answer?is it the right solution?will she ever realise wt she really wants in life?never felt mona as a strong independent woman.is she?
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