for the family sake..

I prefer they get back togather..no doubt vineet is 100% better than pradip,but he is not a father of monas kids...At this age,mona undoubtably wants to go back to pradip and they are showing that he regreting his mistake...still i would never forgive what he did to mona...But after all, for kids sake...i would like that creatives show that they all back togather as family...

Originally posted by: ruby2000

it is going on in India, but i believe that is the only reason indian culture has long lasting relations. People make mistakes in their life, it doesnt mean you give up on them and move on with someone else. If mona had made the same mistake pradip did, I would say the same thing specially when the person who made mistake realize their fault...[/quote]

Mona wasn't ready to give up on Pradeep. Even after knowing that Pradeep has been cheating on her with his boss for six months. She was ready to take him back knowing that he missed very special occasions in his children's life because he refused to take time off from his work (read: Anushka Sarkar). Mona was willing to forget every insult while Pradeep compared her with another woman. Pradeep is the one who repeatedly said that he wants a life with Anushka and he did what he said. He lived with her for 6 months. The last nail in the coffin was that Pradeep not only filled for divorce, but also signed those papers. Mona isn't the one who gave up, but Pradeep did. He moved on with his life 1 year ago! So what do you plead? That while Pradeep moved on Mona should wait for the day Pradeep sees his "mistake" and returns?

How do you define a mistake? To me Pradeep's actions aren't mistakes but sins (paap)! To make things worse he was aware of his sins and he still continued. I think and feel he ruthlessly broke each promiss of their marriage (saat phere).

Does Pradeep realises his "mistake"? Someone who realises his fault atleast takes responsibilty for his actions. I don't know how exactly, but may be a start is for example by admitting the grieve he caused his family (Mona and kids) and saying that it is nobody's but his fault. That he is sincerly apologizing for all of his horendous actions. Has Pradeep done that? No! Up to now he only feels sorry for himself. Instead of truely repenting for his sins Pradeep is all dazzled by Mona's mahaanta and disgusted by Anushka's betrayal. In Pradeep's own words he was seduced by Anushka into a relationship. Poor thing! After 1 night in a dirty jail and Mona lying for him to save him from murder charges he realises that Anushka is dirt who he (after 1 year) has thrown out of his life. How convienient! Telling Mona that all his desires were an illusion and asking her if it is possible to start again where they had left is not realising his "mistakes". It is another insult on Mona's part. It is an easy way out of the mess he created and is fed up with. Saying sorry to his mummy & papa and going back to his so called roots is not at all realising his "mistakes", but saving his damn A$$~!



There are differences between the west and us and those are fine, but may be they aren't as big as we think they are?. May be a certain approach of the west towards relationships is better then ours? May be their approach is more women friendly and more based on equality?
In context of KHTV Pradeep left his kids to suffer for his own happiness, didn't he? Can I say that in this situation there isn't a difference with the west? Just to be sure are there different rules for Indian women??

Originally posted by: rtms

if mona goes back to pradeep,wt lesson is she giving to her daughters?even if ur partner cheats u,breaks all the promise,makes u suffer,treat u like dirt,u must wait for him n wn he comes back,u must accept him???wt message is this giving to the society???

is re-marriage a sin?

v hv already discussed this in another topic,i guess,on sept.

the theme of re-marriage is impt n hw cvs r going to show is the point.they hv made the main theme of extra-marital affair as a big joke.so expect the worse frm them.for them plot is nt the soul,only character matters,that too the leads.they can't see anything beyond the lead.it is fixed,so to a certain extend they r innocent.

which woman ,a middle class woman, in real life will accept a husband like pradeep back even for the sake of family?