Director's cut - 5th November 2012

redwine1

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Posted: 12 years ago

#241

Thanx Puja .. interesting take ..

@ bold red: does she think he is lying about paternity ??

now if u go back to the La track .. she has seen how arnav had callously broken La's heart .. infact the fact that he was upfront about his intentions about La .. was always a shocker to her ..

if u go back to the epi .. when La explains 'live in' relations to her .. Khushi's thot process on arnav is very clear ..

yes she has changed him .. but 'Shee'tal was a part of his "past" .. a past where his relations .. were like La's ... everything but marriage .. living like a couple . but not married ..

in such a scenario .. is it .. very difficult to pinpoint .. Khushi's state of mind .. does she NOT TRUST him .. or is this about .. HER thinking he is unaware of his past .. & its repurcussions .. & is this about .. Khushi trying to get him to stand up to his past "indiscretions" ???

Just some random thots once again .. sorely for discussion purpose ???

ruby, @ bold, that reaction and thought process of kushi towards "live in" still surprises me. she had already judged and condemned him then. the fact that la was all for it, didn't even strike her. i have never understood that... i also cannot accept her thoughts on it or her interference at that time.

also, to me it comes across as she doesn't trust him. it still is the 'i know it all' and 'i am right' phase. how can arnav not be aware of his past actions? to bed a woman and not remember it? i find it preposterous,(unless he is a womanizer, and he not been shown to be one), if he cannot remember or if he can, then, kushi not accepting his word, but much rather believing sheetal. even before kushi changed arnav, he has always been righteous and just. there is no disputing that. even with la, he decided to be honest. To be honest, kushi is not as mature as we would all like to believe. she is also not simply pure and plain innocent. however she is quite foolish at times. her mahanta come from deep insecurities which are a result of wanting to fit in, be a part, be accepted, be appreciated. it is not always wise, it is not always for the best. some where along the line she has lost her sense of identity, and i do hope she finds it back now... realizing the importance of values in the sense it is meant to be applied, and definitely NOT in the kushi sense anymore. the "mahaan" doesn't get anyone anywhere, it doesn't make a person better, unless and until it is absolutely the just thing to do.

c in her mind .. arnav was a dictator a rakshash if u pls .. if u remember there were some monologues of Khushi's where she mumbled .. that he was forcing La to live with him in that form .. ( my version of khushi's thot process) ..

Khushi is a mature KID .. while she understands more than say an Aarav .. he reactions are very archaic .. very provincial .. ( ode to her upbringing in sheltered environ) ..

@ bold blue : oh pls i am with u .. i totally trust the character ASR .. even if Khushi doesnt .. a man does remember who he has slept or been intimate with .. specially a man with an iron control like ASR ( showed for the last 1 year to us 😉 ) ..

BTW : i am loving these discussions .. we must've more of these .. 😃

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saritha

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Posted: 12 years ago

#242

Originally posted by: redwine1

Thanx Puja .. interesting take ..

@ bold red: does she think he is lying about paternity ??
now if u go back to the La track .. she has seen how arnav had callously broken La's heart .. infact the fact that he was upfront about his intentions about La .. was always a shocker to her ..
if u go back to the epi .. when La explains 'live in' relations to her .. Khushi's thot process on arnav is very clear ..

yes she has changed him .. but 'Shee'tal was a part of his "past" .. a past where his relations .. were like La's ... everything but marriage .. living like a couple . but not married ..
in such a scenario .. is it .. very difficult to pinpoint .. Khushi's state of mind .. does she NOT TRUST him .. or is this about .. HER thinking he is unaware of his past .. & its repurcussions .. & is this about .. Khushi trying to get him to stand up to his past "indiscretions" ???

Just some random thots once again .. sorely for discussion purpose ???

ruby, @ bold, that reaction and thought process of kushi towards "live in" still surprises me. she had already judged and condemned him then. the fact that la was all for it, didn't even strike her. i have never understood that... i also cannot accept her thoughts on it or her interference at that time.

also, to me it comes across as she doesn't trust him. it still is the 'i know it all' and 'i am right' phase. how can arnav not be aware of his past actions? to bed a woman and not remember it? i find it preposterous,(unless he is a womanizer, and he not been shown to be one), if he cannot remember or if he can, then, kushi not accepting his word, but much rather believing sheetal. even before kushi changed arnav, he has always been righteous and just. there is no disputing that. even with la, he decided to be honest. To be honest, kushi is not as mature as we would all like to believe. she is also not simply pure and plain innocent. however she is quite foolish at times. her mahanta come from deep insecurities which are a result of wanting to fit in, be a part, be accepted, be appreciated. it is not always wise, it is not always for the best. some where along the line she has lost her sense of identity, and i do hope she finds it back now... realizing the importance of values in the sense it is meant to be applied, and definitely NOT in the kushi sense anymore. the "mahaan" doesn't get anyone anywhere, it doesn't make a person better, unless and until it is absolutely the just thing to do.

c in her mind .. arnav was a dictator a rakshash if u pls .. if u remember there were some monologues of Khushi's where she mumbled .. that he was forcing La to live with him in that form .. ( my version of khushi's thot process) ..

Khushi is a mature KID .. while she understands more than say an Aarav .. he reactions are very archaic .. very provincial .. ( ode to her upbringing in sheltered environ) ..

@ bold blue : oh pls i am with u .. i totally trust the character ASR .. even if Khushi doesnt .. a man does remember who he has slept or been intimate with .. specially a man with an iron control like ASR ( showed for the last 1 year to us 😉 ) ..

BTW : i am loving these discussions .. we must've more of these .. 😃

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