Men will be men; Edited - Page 13

Rima, I feel like you are desperately looking for an excuse for ASR oops Arnav's behaviour. Agreed men are men but the way he is behaving right now seems like khushi is some caretaker of the house and not his new bride. The compassion, concern from his side is gone..don't know why they are showing it this way?..but I feel if this is the way they want to end the show then they better show khushi leaving him arnav for good and let him suffer some pain coz khushi has had enough now!!

ya men will be men but after some years of marriage or after honeymoon but here they r less than 1 mth old married couple n he is saying abt taking an off day 2 spend with aarav.I never xpected this type cold behaviour with khushi.shaadi ke baad sab thanda padgaya lagtha hai.

Your right Rima! Men will be men! What to do?? They are not the most sensitive creatures and when they think they have stated a 'fact' to us they think that is the end of the subject!


Example: Arnav telling Khushi he only dated Sheetal, there was no intimacy that would result in a child! End of topic! For him, not for her!


So this is typical! We just want our dreamboat ASR to be a bit different to other husbands! But looks like he is a typical specimen! He may be a fab lover, and most men are before marriage, but that never stops them from being super dense husbands!

My husband took me to dinner last night! We have been married 5.5 years! So not bad! Lol.

ya totally agree with u rima..that's how they behave before and after marriage.

but when it comes to arhi we expect somethibng apart from reality.is that not the chemistry of arhi collected fans for the show all over the world.

then what the fans will do that the CHEMISTRY STARTS FADING..THE FIRE AND PASSION IS NO WHERE TO BE SEEN


FOR PAST A WEEK THERE IS NOT EVEN A SMALL RABBA VE MOMENT

I KNOW STILL ARNAV LOVES KHUSHI.AM NOT DOUBTING HIS LOVE FOR HER.

BUT I NEED HIM TO SENSE THAT SHE IS "UPSET"

nice post.. sensibilities differ for men and women and so does idea of expressing their love...for men more focus is on providing for needs,taking responsibility..and protecting their women...and for women..more emotional one...their focus is on small small things which defines love..like remembering their moments together...celebrating special dates and occasions..

Originally posted by: tia.o

Rima, I appreciate your point of views and I totally get it. But here's my reply,

I know a guy who forgot his first valentine with a girl he chased like mad and married against her Dad - Did he forget his first valentine after the girl constantly showed her excitement and talked about how important Valentine's Day is?

I know a guy who absent mindedly picked up a first anniversary card for first birthday of his wife after marriage - But he did buy a card. He didn't forget his wife's birthday, right?

I know a guy who totally did not take his wife out after wanting dates with her constantly before marriage? - But what did he do in their day to day lives? Did he spend time with his family and other "meant nothing" relationship and forgot that his wife has needs too?

You see Rima, Khushi has dropped so many hints that even a blind man will realize something is bothering her if not what is bothering her.

She asked about details of his date,

She got DNA test done which he saw,

She was agitated and restless,

She vanished from a family outing she arranged,

She made jalebies apparently for his win, but not sugar free which is why Aarav couldn't have it.

She asked him sarcastically, "You must have enjoyed the game naa?"

I mean how many clues do you need to realize something is wrong even though you can't point on what exactly is wrong?

A business tycoon who is famous for his negotiation tactics, can't read body language, expression, tone and attitude of the wife whose mind he could read from miles away in captivity?

This is where I'm objecting. If this is Arnav, then who was the guy we watched for 1.5 years. If that was the real deal, then who is this guy?

He sensed that she was upset and he asked her about that. She said she is fine.. about DNA report, he clearly told her that there is nothing like that so that made his point clear plus it wud have really hurt him that she wud go for such step without telling him...Khushi has always been open to arnav about her feelings..whether good or bad..she had been true to herself in front of him..and isnt arnav was first one to sense khushi was upset and he asked her in starting...Story wise you are now seeing more of khushi's POV...so let arnav's view be told too... we will know how he handles his wife's insecurities.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0JoM2Ix7UNI

i want the ASR back who could sense Khush's presence n give Khushi importance over any thing...