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Posted: 12 years ago
#41
@Tia I doubt the feelings they had at that time were anywhere close to what they have been projected to having now...after telepathy, and his repeated projection of love for her...
At that time KKG didnt even realize she was in love...ASR was starting to believe that he was in love, and he let his past which said that the middleclass woman is the home breaker overcome his feelings and he did whatever he did.
But then he realized what he felt for KKG, and overcame the past, and the fact tht Khushis mom was in fact the woman responsible for his moms death, and he married her since he meant so much to him...Khushi knew that and waited saying that he loves me and will come...and he did
If this track had come before all this, then her doubts would have made sense...now it doesnt...it looks forced...as if it is being done for the sake of the track...
Even the track is fine..its the execution which is appalling...why are they writing all these crappy scenes? chaprasi disguise etc...I guess thats what is putting people off
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Posted: 12 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: rima


while I do think ASR never meant to intentionally or unitnentionally flirt
or make her feel guilty because of distrust
I do feel he failed her miserably by being siltent on the contract marriage stuff
he made sure she clams up due to love or guilt or whatever
her insecurities suited him then. not now
anyway
I think ur post deserves to be a separate one


I'm just saying that if ASR was a negative character like Shyam, then his actions would have been a fit with the concept.. It's just a what if situation.

The day I would wish to commit suicide in the forum, I'll make this as a separate post and delete my account shortly after. Until then, this is better off being in some rational people's posts who won't jump down my throat in the name of ASR bashing.
Edited by tia.o - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: simim

@Tia I doubt the feelings they had at that time were anywhere close to what they have been projected to having now...after telepathy, and his repeated projection of love for her...

At that time KKG didnt even realize she was in love...ASR was starting to believe that he was in love, and he let his past which said that the middleclass woman is the home breaker overcome his feelings and he did whatever he did.
But then he realized what he felt for KKG, and overcame the past, and the fact tht Khushis mom was in fact the woman responsible for his moms death, and he married her since he meant so much to him...Khushi knew that and waited saying that he loves me and will come...and he did
If this track had come before all this, then her doubts would have made sense...now it doesnt...it looks forced...as if it is being done for the sake of the track...
Even the track is fine..its the execution which is appalling...why are they writing all these crappy scenes? chaprasi disguise etc...I guess thats what is putting people off


I'm just saying that if ASR was a negative character like Shyam, then his actions would have been a fit with the concept.. I am not saying that he is definitely a negative character. Just what if he was?
Edited by tia.o - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: chennaigirl

I am sorry but why and how can you compare both??? Both are different cases and different circumstances...

Even if u compare...This is after when Khushi and Arnav have vouched their love and trust for each other...The man has told her explicitly after seeing the DNA report in her hands that he never slept with Sheetal or anyone...That is why it is strange to see Khushi behaving like this..whatever be the case, they have officially destroyed the beautiful love story...Period...


Correction. He never told her that he never slept with Sheetal or anyone. He said that he and Sheetal were just dating. Now dating is a very vague term that doesn't indicate anything. Some people sleep together on a date, some people consider just going out is the end of dating. It all depends on people's perspective and their belief system.

Now Arnav was always a very liberal guy for whom live together or dating wasn't a big deal whereas Khushi was a very simple, old fashioned girl who never went on a date before marriage.

So how would she know what dating really means unless clearly explained? Granted, she should have asked what is the true meaning of date as per Arnav. But this doesn't take away the fact that knowing Khushi's background, Arnav should have explained clearly.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#45
Logic beautifully presented!!!
Thank you Rima for making this post!!👏

While I don't really think you can compare the two situations, I don't understand how Arnav can't seem to pick up on Khushi's insecurity regarding his past with Sheetal? He used to be so attuned to her thoughts and feelings before...now where is it??

Also, I get the fact that Khushi won't be in peace till there is some sort of proper confirmation that Aarav is/isn't Arnav's son...but why the comedy to get to that conclusion?? WHy can't it be handled in a way that doesn't require so much needless comedy!!

I mean seriously...WAKE UP CV's!!!! Don't they realize what they're showing on the show??
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Posted: 12 years ago
#46
i dont understand rima di!!!!
when ever kushi behaves something stupid or behaves OTT why u guyz instead of accepting that always brings past here!!!
and compare with arnav!!!
what ever happened in past was over!!!
then y do u always bring arnav and his deeds of past😕!!!!!


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Posted: 12 years ago
#47

Originally posted by: neenaLUVarnav

i dont understand rima di!!!!
when ever kushi behaves something stupid or behaves OTT why u guyz instead of accepting that always brings past here!!!
and compare with arnav!!!
what ever happened in past was over!!!
then y do u always bring arnav and his deeds of past😕!!!!!


simple
when someone accuses khushi
and says arnav is God
then people have to be reminded
khushi is stupid may be
but never harmful
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: neenaLUVarnav

i dont understand rima di!!!!
when ever kushi behaves something stupid or behaves OTT why u guyz instead of accepting that always brings past here!!!
and compare with arnav!!!
what ever happened in past was over!!!
then y do u always bring arnav and his deeds of past😕!!!!!



Because Arnav's past is glaring at our face. What is Sheetal if not Arnav's past?

If whatever happened in the past is over, then why is he not being more reserved around Sheetal? Or is it different strokes for different folks and you get to pick which past to remember and what to forget?

Like remember what sweet things he did for Khushi and forget all the nasty deeds?

In that case, you remember what sacrifices Khushi made for him since they met and forget everything she did wrong. Deal?
Edited by tia.o - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#49
No one comparing their deeds..but one is wrong that doesnt make other person right...you criticised arnav when he was wrong so why cant ppl criticise when khushi is wrong and if arnav was wrong at that time when he MU her then why khushi is not wrong here when supposedly they showed trust on each other during whole remarriage stuff show..where is belief that khushi had on arnav at that time that he will come... I have said arnav was wrong when he was wrong so why cnt ppl accept that khushi is wrong now...
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Posted: 12 years ago
#50

Originally posted by: tia.o


Because Arnav's past is glaring at our face. What is Sheetal if not Arnav's past?

If whatever happened in the past is over, then why is he not being more reserved around Sheetal? Or is it different strokes for different folks and you get to pick which past to remember and what to forget?

Like remember what sweet things he did for Khushi and forget all the nasty deeds?

In that case, you remember what sacrifices Khushi made for him since they met and forget everything she did wrong. Deal?

Indeed she made sacrifices and thats why we expect she shows that trust in her husband which she showed at mandap saying that Arnav will come...but here she is not confronting him directly instead making him believe that she trusts him and going on investigation behind his back...

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