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I have been thinking about this for a long time now. Somehow, I can sympathesize with the Dubeys - they did give Aarti precedence over their own child, their own blood when he was wrong, and went against the society to get her a good husband. Today, if they are expecting something from Aarti - it is more so out of humanity (atleast, Shobha?) that she would not say NO to save someone's life. They still want to (or hope) that Yash will not become aware of Prashant (not sure how!) because Dubey does say he hopes Yash doesn't come with Aarti.
I have a few fundamental problems with this:
1. They were the one who asked Aarti not to spill the beans, not once, but twice. Now, when they want Ansh's bone marrow, they are expecting Aarti to be the one who handles this. That is grossly unfair, specially at a time Aarti is suffering from so much stress herself and has just begun to get some happiness.
2. I do not say they should not ask for help - they are between a hard and a rock - but they must think what impact this can have on Aarti's life, and what they need to do to ensure her damage is minimized. In this case, if God forbid, Yash gives up on her - she will be in the same situation, pregnant and divroced a second time around - with no support (I dont think Aarti will then come to the Dubeys for that) and perhaps no chance of a "punar vivah" again.
3. Prashant! Where do I start? He is repeatedly saying that He does not want to bring any harm to Aarti - magnanimous of him to say that. They are showing him hurt with comments when Aarti says Yash has done for Ansh what his real father would not have... etc. etc. And, he is some sort of a reformed man, who helped Aarti reunite with Yash. But!!!
- What on earth makes him think that if he was not there, Yash would not have found Aarti. He would have. :)
- Why on earth he has no remorse that he was NOT There even a bit for Ansh - leave Aarti future aside, What right he has to even expect that Ansh should help him. Why???
- Why on earth he is trying to tell Yash what to do - how to treat Aarti - did he ever treat her well? And, if yes, why did he leave Aarti in the first place? Is his character so flippant that he can madly romance Aarti, then leave her for Nida, etc. etc., what goes to say that his remorse is permanent!?!?
- Why does he rue or use Aarti's gifts still!?!?
I am so confused with his character. I have sympathy for him that he is suffering from Cancer, but other than that, I have no understanding why he can even expect Aarti to help him, or why cant he be sterner with his own parents to stay out of her life. He is really not doing anything to stop them. If I were in his place, I would not be able to face Aarti - but!?!?!
I have a few fundamental problems with this:
1. They were the one who asked Aarti not to spill the beans, not once, but twice. Now, when they want Ansh's bone marrow, they are expecting Aarti to be the one who handles this. That is grossly unfair, specially at a time Aarti is suffering from so much stress herself and has just begun to get some happiness.
2. I do not say they should not ask for help - they are between a hard and a rock - but they must think what impact this can have on Aarti's life, and what they need to do to ensure her damage is minimized. In this case, if God forbid, Yash gives up on her - she will be in the same situation, pregnant and divroced a second time around - with no support (I dont think Aarti will then come to the Dubeys for that) and perhaps no chance of a "punar vivah" again.
3. Prashant! Where do I start? He is repeatedly saying that He does not want to bring any harm to Aarti - magnanimous of him to say that. They are showing him hurt with comments when Aarti says Yash has done for Ansh what his real father would not have... etc. etc. And, he is some sort of a reformed man, who helped Aarti reunite with Yash. But!!!
- What on earth makes him think that if he was not there, Yash would not have found Aarti. He would have. :)
- Why on earth he has no remorse that he was NOT There even a bit for Ansh - leave Aarti future aside, What right he has to even expect that Ansh should help him. Why???
- Why on earth he is trying to tell Yash what to do - how to treat Aarti - did he ever treat her well? And, if yes, why did he leave Aarti in the first place? Is his character so flippant that he can madly romance Aarti, then leave her for Nida, etc. etc., what goes to say that his remorse is permanent!?!?
- Why does he rue or use Aarti's gifts still!?!?
I am so confused with his character. I have sympathy for him that he is suffering from Cancer, but other than that, I have no understanding why he can even expect Aarti to help him, or why cant he be sterner with his own parents to stay out of her life. He is really not doing anything to stop them. If I were in his place, I would not be able to face Aarti - but!?!?!
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