Jagya ka 'Jhootha' Pyaar for Anandi

-If there is a God then one should REAP what they SOW. Has J sowed love to date that he deserves Anandi? Did he as a child really truly stand up for Anandi's right to study? Or did he fold to DS ka demand that A not study and achieve successes beyond him. Isn't he the one that said 10th pass is sufficient? He saved her from Heth's plot, but how many more times has Anandi saved him??? She has even taking a bullet for him. What did do in turn? He took his girlfriend to romance where his wife took a bullet for him. He has not sowed LOVE that he can now REAP it.

- Love is Selfless not Selfish... does J even know this? Jagya tried to show Shiv that he knows Anandi's likes and dislikes, but does he really? He thought her capable of killing his unborn child by telephone... he felt she stole his hospital away and gave it to LS... Where was J's faith and understanding of Anandi then? Where was this concern when breaking up with her via telephone? When he mocked everything about her? From her name to her clothes to her education? Forget the past - does he know her in the "present"?? What are her dreams? How much she values her role as Sarpanch of Jaitsar? Her plans for Jaitsar? Her wishes for her school? He never even visited her school properly. And is being willfully blind now to her obvious happiness with Shiv, which he's seen first hand not just in front of the Chief Minister, but also at her school. Her SMILE is undeniable and her happiness palpable.

- Shaadi is about two families not just two people - Despite his multiple marriage ceremonies, J does not understand what marriage is about. For him its about his PYAAR... not parivaar. Whereas for Anandi it starts with Parivaar (now the Singhs n Shekhars). If J understood this simple thing then he would not have taken BHIBHOOT to Bhago's house ever. Even now that he's gotten their "FORGIVENESS", he's once more taking the Singhs for granted. Not even for a nano-second contemplating what will be the impact of AnSh break up on the Singh's reputation... that too the break up of a rishta that the Chief Minister has come to bless and considers an example? And forget the Shekars, how will Khazan Singh feel about Anandi re-marrying the man he holds responsible for his wife's death?

- Rishta "Respect" ka: Even if I buy J's "love" for a moment, marriage is also about respect. Does J have any for A or her wishes?? He didn't even think she had the right to not forgive him. He was trying to trick her emotionally with his Amnesia pretense. Where is the respect that goes with love in a marriage? Its nowhere...even now he expects her to "serve" him dinner and most likely eat off his "jhutta" plate. She is still not equal enough to eat with him. That is symbolic of his LOVE... Its as "Jhootha" as his plate, which he expects Anandi to eat off.

I am amazed by people who stand by J's character and support J😡😡-- and I shudder to think the percentage of non-internet folks who are out there in the audience 😈

Edit -- really want A to knw about Ghanta's amnesia naatak 😡😡 eew hope A slaps him in everyone's presence. the way he was behaving with her just to spite Shiv-- as you observed earlier, he reached the lowest of the lowest depths then..😈

Mahi - ve u visited colors website and the other post supporting J that u just posted on?

Jhootha pyar...according to me this handsome scoundrel Jagia never LOVED Anandi!!

Ctrl C & Ctrl V from my other post...

J & A were married in childhood, they did not even know the meaning of the word then, but became used to each other ( if u keep a dog or any pet for a long time u become used to that😉and start liking it!) so they started caring for each other before Gauri came in... but were never in love. They were forced to believe that they were meant for one another but they were not!! The term Beend /pati-parammeshwar & beedni the whole enchilada of pyar was drilled into J & A's head and we the audience thought that they were meant to be together. Such clarity thrust upon then at such a young age was not right but duty bound Anandi did not falter & this made Jagia all the more selfish. I am the Parameshwar (thx to DS) and this damn beendni of mine will have to do everything for me.

But they never has similar OUTLOOKS. Their stories never matched... ...they were like two characters on one stage acting out different plays--they looked right at first glance ( baby J & A together were cuteness personified😳) , but there was an underlying lack of coordination to their interaction. They thought they loved each other but I guess, there was no LOVE ...it was just habit of one another 😛. Maybe J always wanted a girl like Julia Roberts in Pretty woman 😆 ...Voila he got Gauri...lol without any violation of equality😛

What can one expect from a romantically challenged J