Sneha's decision- my second thoughts

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I know this post is very critical..but i was watching the one hour long video of Sneha quitting again n this made me think..
I understand all her reasons for quitting..But after one n half years she's saying she could not meet the demands of the profession..not able to digest that..

She says clothes ka problem has been taken care of by Palki..n then again got prob with it..
She says Shantanu has made her comfortable n supported her but still she's not able to perform intimate scenes..

I dont think Shantanu is a pro at doing intimate scenes either(Palki did mention this indirectly "Pehli baar Shantanu ne kisi ladki ke pass gaya hoga")
but still he knows hw to keep personal beliefs and inhibitions out while when one is infront of camera..


N what intimacy yaar..Makers of the show n fans all know the level of intimacy that can be shown on screen that too at prime time..

Now after Sneha's exit if the show does not pick up then who is responsible. we cant say its because of creatives alone..or cant blame the viewers either..

When Sneha just thought of her personal issues n left D3, she has no right to say that we as fans should support D3..

Wasnt she briefed about the passionate Swaron lovestory at the start? when that time she thought she will overcome then now also she should have overcome her inhibitions..I would have more respect for Sneha then..

She should have said no for the character at the start only na...

N Palki is supporting Sneha still after knowing that her show may face problems..thats commendable. n also she altered the script for Sneha thats also great..

One smart decision is that Sneha is quitting acting coz main thing as an actor of keeping professional and personal life different, she's not able to do..

I guess the actual reason for her quitting is some "Behind the scenes" reason...

Instead of saying all these crap reasons, the actual reasons should have been brought out..

I really can understand Shakti's decision of quitting D3 coz she was always passionate of dancing n always wanted to study dance..

But Sneha's reason is a bit dicey for me...Alteast if she would say its just coz of personal reasons she's quitting, it would be more believable that her reason is true..

Not that Sneha is unprofessonal because she's served her notice period n then quit..
Sneha got her fame, fans n everything in this one n half year
..Who is losing in all this? i guess its we who are so addicted to d3 are losing on all this..

Just my point of view guys...Maybe i'm wrong...

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tannuluv thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i know infact i thought many swaron fans no that interview only bring half truth...but kya faida sneha tho jarahi he...fir kyun us topic ko keechna...infact i got this doubt when i first saw the interview...she clears every gossips except one we know what it is...but i dont have any issue about that bcs i am happy atleast she differenciate her personal n professional issue in interview...even i think no actors should not talk about their personal life if they are not ready she did that i am happy...

Important thing pls avoid making post on this issue...i understant why ur making this post...i no ur upset about track...they ignoring shantanu...whatever happening is started after sneha leave the show...but sneha is already leave d3 that chapter is over n we all r sent her with full respect we should maintain that na...infact after saw the interview i completely gone to shock...bcs i was the one who blame palki mam,luvtannu, n that newbie by making post on sneha that she never b possible reason for making script change...bt i dont have any hard feeling for her just for one reason she gave us wonderful sharon n for that i respect her most...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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eg: i chose Computer Science as my career option coz i know somethings of computer n i was interested in that subject...when i was choosing this field, i knew i have mathematics as a subject in which i am pathetic but somewhere i believed, i would cope up with the help of lecturers n by taking extra lecturers for that subject... but unfortunately, by last year of my course i realised that mathematics is also needed in other subjects of the course n further my studies will revolve around same subject(which i hate n have no interest in or to say i cant cope up with that subject),
So it was evident that i would not be happy in this field as that subject wont let me give my best, and as a result i decided to chose some other field where i can excel with full heart n happiness...and obviously i dint tell others that i was not happy with the career option so i quite that, i jus told them i could not cope up with the studies i required to do(which was not a lie either)...

Now if i had the choice to change my career option why not sneha???? whatever might be the reason, but she was NOT HAPPY so why all this????

PS: i know what you might be feeling, but just lets leave this topic??? n let others cope up with the situation, instead of getting them back to it???
Edited by shaani2209 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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It took time for sneha to realise that she cannot fulfill the requiremnts of this field...and she had quit...if it was actors then the decision wud have been easier to analyse wat kind of charactertr and wat kind of scenes and all...but they wre dancers and unaware of all this camera things...and we all know sneha is a sensitive kind of gal...family problms her personal life and this busy hour workings isnt making her happy vch was not the case in the beginning...the thing is despite being unhappy sneha had continued till some time and dats why we got some meaning in the show...she realised it was getting too bad fo rswaron and she had quit...lets not drag it...i can understand ur feelings...but the truth can nvr be out...so let it all be...and yea sneha definitly doesnt belong to this world and she too had realised it...dats why she had taken the decision to quit acting...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ya even i thot d same dat y after one and half yrs she is sayin dat cnt do anymore d3...she shud hv nt taken d character of sharon since d beginnin den n plzz dnt tel me dat she dnt knw wat an actin profession demands frm its actors...to be frank i hv lost interest in d3...without sneha d3 seems incomplete...ya i knw dat all actors r gud n v shud watch it for dem bt v as fans hv our favourites...since no swaron, i hv 2 c dat idiot taarey😡😡😡i just hate taani...i may watch it if sum new girl as sharon returns though it depends hw she will act...for nw disappointed n nt interested

just a suggestion for palki- since sneha has quit, can v request sneha n palki both 2 try 2 hv sneha shoot frm her home by showin sum cute swaron phone conversations...i knw its nt possible bt just a thought so dat atleast apart v swaron fans can enjoy tanha wala swaron😊😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Guys no hard feelings to anyone here neither to Sneha..I do accept her decision..Just wanted to vent out my feelings...Just dont want anything to affect D3 in a negative way...Peace...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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First of all, I don't buy the excuses SK made for her exit from show. C'mon we know all of them were wrong for eg.,
  1. SK told I have never given hug Tannu but, I can show some 1-3 scenes where she clearly hugged him.(excluding the last episodes)
  2. I have inhibitions from day1 C'mon: palki has clearly mentioned we have changed script to avoid SK's discomfort. then what inhibitions I don't know
  3. I was not professional: Yes, she was not but, during her notice period as Palki told.
  4. Intimate scenes: What Intimate scenes man, seriously, as palki has already made changes to script on a new comer's request, Swaron had as many close scene as they were shown together
  5. ShanTannu was supportive: Then why the hell she has discomfort ?? after making the script changes Shantannu was not even went close to her (one Arm distance)
  6. I have family reasons: Family reasons har kisi ko hothey hai yaar, it doesn't mean evrybody should quit their profession
  7. I want to be with family: Don't other ppl have that urge ?? I was laughing at this childish excuse

I have asked above questions with a right; just like the right Parents have to know what's happening in their children's life, whom they have provide their unconditional love.

We too as TanHa fan provided our unconditional love to them and we have evry right to know what was the reality; it is bothering more than any thing. In fact I tried to clear this with one of the senior member but, no response. I think many of us know the truth but, why don't they share with all of us we are too has same Intensity/love towards TanHa and we have right to know the truth.

See I'm not creating any scene here, but as a TanHa fan, we gave ur love respect and evrything to them and as a TanHa fan I have evry right to know whatever happened to my Couple... their suffering is mine... it is killing man...😭😭

Now, ppl who those make loo*** statements like "writing all these crap about SK, and you call your self SK fan "😡😡plz stay away. I wan to know the truth😡

If moderators are going to ban me or delete my account I'm fine with it. But, I want to know the truth that's it... If any1 has problem simply I don't care now...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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i jus love it dear! this is the exact thing i also wana say.. i am glad tat u made it! u knw wat i jumped out of my chair... i love u a lot dear.. u knw wat either tey shld bring sneha back or end d show! bcz now itself d show has lost itz crisp! no one gono watch it anymore yar.. i knw many tanha fans has left show & forum & iam glad too

ps: plz viewbies plz don close this topic tere may b so many reports but i sincearly req u nt to close the topic.. plzzz
Edited by preethi_shamya - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: shaani2209

eg: i chose Computer Science as my career option coz i know somethings of computer n i was interested in that subject...when i was choosing this field, i knew i have mathematics as a subject in which i am pathetic but somewhere i believed, i would cope up with the help of lecturers n by taking extra lecturers for that subject... but unfortunately, by last year of my course i realised that mathematics is also needed in other subjects of the course n further my studies will revolve around same subject(which i hate n have no interest in or to say i cant cope up with that subject),

So it was evident that i would not be happy in this field as that subject wont let me give my best, and as a result i decided to chose some other field where i can excel with full heart n happiness...and obviously i dint tell others that i was not happy with the career option so i quite that, i jus told them i could not cope up with the studies i required to do(which was not a lie either)...

Now if i had the choice to change my career option why not sneha???? whatever might be the reason, but she was NOT HAPPY so why all this????

PS: i know what you might be feeling, but just lets leave this topic??? n let others cope up with the situation, instead of getting them back to it???

BRILLIANTLY said, Rosh. I LOVE you, you know that?

And @topic maker...you understand Shakti's reason, but because you are finding it difficult to understand Sneha's, it doesn't become an invalid reason in itself. And for the record, in the one-hour video itself she HAS mentioned family issues that were part of why she left. I can understand where you're coming from, but the fact of the matter is, like Rosh said, Sneha was NOT HAPPY, and the decision has been TAKEN. To dwell on it will do neither you nor anyone else any good here, because things are what they are, and aren't changing any time soon. Acceptance is better than second thoughts that only lead you round endless circles. Think about it.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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If You Have listened Her intrview Clearly she mentioned that in starting it was She Thought and knows the intimacy n all is Just Mind Block of her which she might will over come. And palki knew that too at that time..

But she is not being able to over come that MIND BLOCK hence she is leaving.

Its simple as that.

Now rather going in deep and thinking too much will take nowher.
I also think that there is also smthng wrong with Or some Prb. from PH house.
If u will think too much more qustion will rise . .

Moreover its not worth ,
she is gone .. Oh i hate that word..

So giving second thought to it by u or me is just pressuring ur own mind..
Edited by Ankithate - 13 years ago

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