I can Understand Sandhya , She is a Human

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Posted: 13 years ago
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PS : This is Not to Offend Anyone


I can Understand Sandhya , She is a Human , Not a Toy/Tool of Reproduction

Her Age is 18-19 ,she is well setlled in her Dreams. she is Book Makhi . State Rank Holder.Medalist Rank Holder .

She Loves Suraj to Core , When we Read her Mental state from her Age Prespective , From the Life style She has come From , the only thing that is Filled in her Every cell is Dream.She Loves him to the core but she is still surrounded with that Dream Which Her parents Dreamt of her , Still she has Disturbance in her soul , for not making her Parents soul rest in peace . So to Such Kind of Girls it takes time to come out from that state , till she Feel she Lost All Hopes all Ways to go with Dream they cant lead a Life Like other Beendinis which Bhabo wished for .


As a Viewer we Know Suraj Supports , But to Her What she Know is Not to create Shantinivan to ashantinivas by her. Bhabo said that she not willing to Replace Pallu with a Police Cap , Bhabo Personally came and Took a class to Sandhya that a Girl comes from Mayke to Sasuraal Her duty is only to Share Happieness in her Sasural and Extend their Heriditary .

A Girl Like Sandhya cant use Contraseptive Pills or condomns to fulfill their Marrige Desire and Kill a Baby .

Now that the Matter is Different , Not demanding for Desires to go for condomns , it is Demanding to see a Baby/Pothi to Extend Family ..

Precap Saying she has Put aside her self ones aspirations , dreams , her- self and got prepared for Badi Bahu Duties .. She Prepared Her Self with a pained Heart , she prepared Herself to her Badi Bahu Duties ..

I can Understand Sandhya , She is a Human . She has No Right to use Contraseptive Pills .. She is Bahu of Bahbo , She Understood , that She has No Right to think of Self Dreams .

I can Understand Sandhya , She is a Human .she is Not a Fictional character , Fate of a Real Life Girl





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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think we all sympathize with Sandhya's plight regarding her shattered/unfulfilled dreams...have been doing it since day one.
But I just feel that this whole consummation issue should have been dealt with in a better way by the CVs. And I don't think it's wise to use it as a trade off so to speak in relation to Sandhya's IPS dream. Which by the way may take 3 or 4 years to achieve. How realistic is that?
I'm not saying that I want consummation in the very next episode...but I don't think it makes sense to drag the issue either.
By the way...using contraception does not kill a baby...it's a precautionary measure so that you don't become pregnant in the first place.
I don't understand why you are saying she has no rights to use them...😕
As we've seen in Meena's track...Sandhya is aware of such measures, and didn't find its use offensive...rather she felt the decision whether or not to use them is between a husband and wife.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ok I Agree with u , I understand she is human , story would be Diferent to Sandhya if she is Not Married , but Now she got Married she cant make him wait till she complete her studies 😕 or she cant make Rathis to get Mocked by everyone for Not having kids with Eldest DIL lap till she complete her studies 😲 , She is Now married , Now its Not time to get consummated but certainly she has to Do it . Now a Days U can Manage Life Personal and Professional if Husband is supportive 😃 Sandhya Suraj are supportive so there would be no problem for them 😃


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Nice post about Sandhya. 😃
I sometimes feel that Sandhya should protest more often against the atrocities of Bhabo and tell her that her dreams are important. 😳 A girl, who is thinking about becoming IPS officer (working with dedication towards it), and found a supportive husband, shouldn't let go her dream so suddenly just because of some sweet brainwashing by Bhabo
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: _srija_


Ok I Agree with u , I understand she is human , story would be Diferent to Sandhya if she is Not Married , but Now she got Married she cant make him wait till she complete her studies 😕 or she cant make Rathis to get Mocked by everyone for Not having kids with Eldest DIL lap till she complete her studies 😲 , She is Now married , Now its Not time to get consummated but certainly she has to Do it . Now a Days U can Manage Life Personal and Professional if Husband is supportive 😃 Sandhya Suraj are supportive so there would be no problem for them 😃







I agree with u , Its Not the Time to consummate under Forced or Pressured conditions , I Feel Better if consummation Happens with full of Love . But Surely she has to Do that one day without making them to wait for long time Atleast Let her complete the Half of her 3rd Year .



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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ummesulaiman

I think we all sympathize with Sandhya's plight regarding her shattered/unfulfilled dreams...have been doing it since day one.

But I just feel that this whole consummation issue should have been dealt with in a better way by the CVs. And I don't think it's wise to use it as a trade off so to speak in relation to Sandhya's IPS dream. Which by the way may take 3 or 4 years to achieve. How realistic is that?
I'm not saying that I want consummation in the very next episode...but I don't think it makes sense to drag the issue either.
By the way...using contraception does not kill a baby...it's a precautionary measure so that you don't become pregnant in the first place.
I don't understand why you are saying she has no rights to use them...😕
As we've seen in Meena's track...Sandhya is aware of such measures, and didn't find its use offensive...rather she felt the decision whether or not to use them is between a husband and wife.



Am Trying to say Let her Live like a human , Instead treating her like scapeGoat for Kids
she will Surely Fullfill all of her Family dreams on her .
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Posted: 13 years ago
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If she is in love... she should have the desire to consummate...!!! I am not saying that today after bhabo broke her dream again she still should do this with love n desire...!!! I also dont want her to consummate today under pressure for getting pregnant...!!! But she put away her dream the moment she decided to stay with this family n not to sign the divorce paper in her mind...!!! So if the dream thing didn't create a problem to fall in love with Suraj (consummation is more easy than falling in love with someone) n confess her love... Then why its a problem against consummation... Well now she knows what bhabo demand which is a grandchild... Thats why she might fell weird to use contraception... But b4 that what was she waiting 4??? Actually what were they waiting 4??? Cause I feel Suraj is also acting so cold in this matter...!!!
But frankly I am more angry with cvs cause they r playing this mind game with loyal viewers like us... Made our wish to see them consummate against us...!!! It was not fair at all...!!!! 😡

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