IMO there are 4 messages that have been given out so far which are all reprehensible:
1. divorce is bad. A person should be forced to stay in a bad/unhappy marriage and if they choose not to they are bad and punished by God2. Scarifice is good and is rewarded by God3. that God has endorced this UNHOLY, IMMORAL UNNECESSARY RELATIONSHIP, between a bhanja and his mama's love, even though it will destroy a family4. that God has rejected a plea by a girl who has been faithful to her fiance for years when she asked God to help her fight for what is right