ASR did the right thing - Page 5

Originally posted by: Ukp18

What if Shyam had called Anjali characterless?Would he not have reacted then?Everyone in the family believes Anjali but still definitely he would have reacted.
May be the editor/CV's didn't think showing expression on Arnav's face is important here-but just a reaction/small gesture of support like what they showed on NK/Payash face would have been sufficient.My POV.Still I loved the episode.

Your line is striking. I was thinking maybe ASR did not react so that Anjali would have focus. You however have a point. Khushi was not the one being characterless, selfish, harming their own child, but still no one said anything. However if anyone had called Anjali characterless they would have reacted. In any case in my eyes Anjali is equally guilty. She played also a part in the killing of her own child. If they had not shown her the videos, she would still have continued to believe that Shyam.

Originally posted by: samin096

Your line is striking. I was thinking maybe ASR did not react so that Anjali would have focus. You however have a point. Khushi was not the one being characterless, selfish, harming their own child, but still no one said anything. However if anyone had called Anjali characterless they would have reacted. In any case in my eyes Anjali is equally guilty. She played also a part in the killing of her own child. If they had not shown her the videos, she would still have continued to believe that Shyam.

👏Great Post!!People will instigate and try to convince you hard to believe ASR was wrong..they tried their level best with me in my post. Some people want blindly follow and support Khushi as soon as you support or drool over ASR, your, yourname, your family's characterization is done by forum members.Shyam was out of his mind today, first he confessed and then he said Arnav and his wife planned everything. Does ASR is so low to shout on his useless scream? When needed he slapped Shyam for his misbehave with his wife but today he wanted his Di to punish that Man, he was nervous and confused how will his Di react? as soon as Anjali slapped he got strenght , he ran and pulled that man out of the house.Here some people just need one small mistake in ASR, actually main reason few members are furious because. Shyam confessed he did kidnapped ASR but not confessed anything about K. They cannot shout on Cvs, so they are taking out frutration on ASR.

To start with Arnav's character is very complex and layered..I think everyone agrees on that .. Im saying this to reason as to why he hasn't revealed everything regarding his 6 months contract wedding with Khushi, the kidapping track ...I think he had his own version of the story..how he was kidpapped..where he was kept..how he was beaten up then how khushi came to save him..and was taken away by Shyam..how both of them could have died..all that no1 knows except Arnav and Khushi..what he dsnt know is how Shyam has been harassing Khushi..still I think he has an idea coz he heard Shyam the day of the wedding ..He has never shared all this with any1 ..except nani who knows few things... that is ASR's character..dsnt he always say ''I dnt care what people say or think'' and who is there other than Anjali whom he might explain now that she's back to her senses...nani already knows..Payal knows so its understood Akash would know..Mami's opinion hardly matters ..she would insult phati sari and khoon bhari taang no matter how good and innocent they are..for her them coming from a middleclass family is enough to insult them..mamaji is never around..who remains ?? nk? He has always supported them..so who are these family members who need to know everything..??

Originally posted by: CDlove

Actually he purposefully with-held information about Khushi's side of the story from everyone (with the exception of Nani and even then he never gave details on how and why he trusts Khushi). Until this day Akash, Anjali, maami etc believed Khushi was either misunderstanding Shyam's advances or was lying about the whole thing. Did Arnav do anything to rectify their mindset?

Had he mentioned how SHyam said during Payash wedding day 'Khushi was his life and rani sahiba was the one coming between them' all other accusations directed at Khushi would have crumbled down. Family members would have believed him over Shyam. But then he never bothered(?) to give clear cut proof on aligations against Khushi did he?

His characterisation and actions just portays a careless attitude when it comes to his husbandly duties.

Agreed he's not a perfect man and I wouldn't want him to be a goody two shoes. But defending Khushi's integrity and innocence is something he should have done without wasting any time right?

@sirija- I agree...Arnav has done grave mistakes in the past..some knowingly, some as a misunderstanding..some situational..Khushi is easy to read and understand and any1 would fall in love with her ..ASR is not easy to comprehend and thats the USP of his character..

Originally posted by: vaishali-AR

To start with Arnav's character is very complex and layered..I think everyone agrees on that .. Im saying this to reason as to why he hasn't revealed everything regarding his 6 months contract wedding with Khushi, the kidapping track ...I think he had his own version of the story..how he was kidpapped..where he was kept..how he was beaten up then how khushi came to save him..and was taken away by Shyam..how both of them could have died..all that no1 knows except Arnav and Khushi..what he dsnt know is how Shyam has been harassing Khushi..still I think he has an idea coz he heard Shyam the day of the wedding ..He has never shared all this with any1 ..except nani who knows few things... that is ASR's character..dsnt he always say ''I dnt care what people say or think'' and who is there other than Anjali whom he might explain now that she's back to her senses...nani already knows..Payal knows so its understood Akash would know..Mami's opinion hardly matters ..she would insult phati sari and khoon bhari taang no matter how good and innocent they are..for her them coming from a middleclass family is enough to insult them..mamaji is never around..who remains ?? nk? He has always supported them..so who are these family members who need to know everything..??

Your post is well written, there is a time and place to react, this was about Anjali and her Family. Arnav knows how innocent Khushi is do you all remember the night at the Farmhouse, he knows who she is, no need to confront a fool, what do they say about arguing with a fool, you become the bigger fool and there rest my point. Your post is appreciated, sometimes if we assess the situation we can be objective.

Originally posted by: srija.singh04

well I think back then he did not realise that such a time could come wen Shyam would try to gain an entry again nd that too through his di, he saw it as a closure and khushi's character no more remained the issue, remembr even anji continuously said there must have been some sort of misunderstanding nevr blaming khushi. Also I think not revealing the Payash marriage convo wid Shyam was probably a conscious decision on his part, like not telling anyone about the contract wedding thing, cz among other effects if would also make khushi's stance vulnerable, maybe, cz then they would have had to disclose the whole thing and apart frm shyam's end sm would have also probably raised qstions on khushi's character.

I know he is wrong at times, but that is wat I like about him, he is not all good...he did what he had to do to save khushi frm disgrace then, but today nothing was required so he remained silent throughout.