EPISODE - Page 3

Kinwal relationship would have been better if Urmi was not around...Urmi asa Saas is not something Kinjal will put up with...she is not gopi...respecting even when they hurt you...
Koki is right to some xtent but should know what ~Ki njal has to put up with...I am glad they hadf ashowdown...
GOhem well they are becoming soulmates...pouring their ineer pain ,feelings out to each other...but they have had to work hard to get here..

Koki's treatment of Parag is different from Kinjal's treament of Dhawal. Firstly, Koki shuns (used to, I think) Parag's inability to be the breadwinner for her family. Kinjal, on the other hand, shuns Dhawal without reason. She might have seen Koki voice her disappointments to Parag, but that still doesn't give her the go-ahead to do the same to Dhawal. Such modelling behavior and "imitation" (in Kinjal's POV) doesn't fit her cause. Sure, she's disappointed at her "punishment" of being married to man she thinks ill-suited to her standards, but that was her choice. Although I agree that she shouldn't be punished for one mistake for the rest of her life, Kinjal's the one who thinks that it's a punishment. No one, but she, is saying it.

I also understand that because Kinjal is from an upper-class family that she needs time to adjust. However, this public tussle of words (in today's episode) happened almost a year after their marriage. There should be no reason for Kinjal to stall her adjustment at the Shah House. She should have been halfway there (or completely adjusted), in my opinion. How much more time does she need?

Now, let's return back to Koki once again. I think that she was right to try to make Kinjal understand. My mother would have done the same. The bigger picture, after all, is to fix KinWal's marriage. It's not about what Kinjal did (although it might help) and not about what Dhawal did, but it is about the marriage that must work.

This was a lovely discussion and I'm glad to see everyone pitching in. 😃

Originally posted by: RachP

Koki's treatment of Parag is different from Kinjal's treament of Dhawal. Firstly, Koki shuns (used to, I think) Parag's inability to be the breadwinner for her family. Kinjal, on the other hand, shuns Dhawal without reason. She might have seen Koki voice her disappointments to Parag, but that still doesn't give her the go-ahead to do the same to Dhawal. Such modelling behavior and "imitation" (in Kinjal's POV) doesn't fit her cause. Sure, she's disappointed at her "punishment" of being married to man she thinks ill-suited to her standards, but that was her choice. Although I agree that she shouldn't be punished for one mistake for the rest of her life, Kinjal's the one who thinks that it's a punishment. No one, but she, is saying it.

I also understand that because Kinjal is from an upper-class family that she needs time to adjust. However, this public tussle of words (in today's episode) happened almost a year after their marriage. There should be no reason for Kinjal to stall her adjustment at the Shah House. She should have been halfway there (or completely adjusted), in my opinion. How much more time does she need?

Now, let's return back to Koki once again. I think that she was right to try to make Kinjal understand. My mother would have done the same. The bigger picture, after all, is to fix KinWal's marriage. It's not about what Kinjal did (although it might help) and not about what Dhawal did, but it is about the marriage that must work.

This was a lovely discussion and I'm glad to see everyone pitching it. 😃

Originally posted by: -GiNa-

@ Harini im 100% agree with whtever u wrote... Really awesome 👏

koki as a mother she always want has both Son or Daughter make his lifes in a better way like she did without helping with has husband... Ahem is always obey koki whtever she say to him but kinjal is not like Ahem she always want to do like has way which is koki hated... I really like ur post justifies Kinjal so well really appericated...