ovi mams ridiculous expectation

so finally ovi mam start shocking . but how dare she !!!!😡 she did a deal and arjun knows everything . and still arjun live in home with her and behave gently , that is too much . but she also expect more than . how self irrespectful girl ,shameless girl and selfish girl !!! she not even feel guilty that she ruin her childhood friends life . ovi not even deserve friendly behavioure .arjun still tolerate her . its a big things .but she also expect that arjun not meet with purvi specially when he knows everything . arjun was not meet with purvi intentionally but if arjun meet purvi intentionally then ovi mam has no right to say anything as she knows its just a forcely marriage ( forcely marriage is not marriage ) and how much arjun loves purvi and she also knows , arjun married her only for purvi . but thanks to ovi mam at least for this reason slowly slowly friendly behaviour will go off air ,they will get divorced very soon for this reason .

but THEY are married and marriage requires respect otherwise SEPARATION. and this is a public forum and i am free to say what i think(opinions). please dont tell not to say the same.

Originally posted by: nirvanlove

but THEY are married and marriage requires respect otherwise SEPARATION. and this is a public forum and i am free to say what i think(opinions). please dont tell not to say the same.

nobody is lecturing anyone here

all they are doing is saying what they think aboutthe topics.

Originally posted by: nirvanlove

nobody is lecturing anyone here

all they are doing is saying what they think aboutthe topics.

Originally posted by: TALIRAlinda

so finally ovi mam start shocking . but how dare she !!!!😡 she did a deal and arjun knows everything . and still arjun live in home with her and behave gently , that is too much . but she also expect more than . how self irrespectful girl ,shameless girl and selfish girl !!! she not even feel guilty that she ruin her childhood friends life . ovi not even deserve friendly behavioure .arjun still tolerate her . its a big things .but she also expect that arjun not meet with purvi specially when he knows everything . arjun was not meet with purvi intentionally but if arjun meet purvi intentionally then ovi mam has no right to say anything as she knows its just a forcely marriage ( forcely marriage is not marriage ) and how much arjun loves purvi and she also knows , arjun married her only for purvi . but thanks to ovi mam at least for this reason slowly slowly friendly behaviour will go off air ,they will get divorced very soon for this reason .

now dont tell me anybody that they are married and ovi has right to ask some ridiculous question . for me forcely marriage not married and no need any lecture . i know what is the right , what is the wrong , what is the marriage , what is love so no need any lecture . i am not a baby .

You are quite right my dear. No need for any lecture, including one from you (if you look at it that way) I'm perfectly fine with members venting out their frustration but isn't it a bit hypocritical to discourage those that have opposing viewpoints from doing the same?

Now to the topic, I don't understand how it was a forced marriage. Everyone was in their senses. It was Purvi who planned the whole wedding out, Ovi wasn't even aware what was going on. Granted, she did make a plea but that was her desperation. She was even willing to kill herself the night of Arjun's wedding.

Let's not forget that Arjun on his own wanted to get marries to Ovi before he came to Canada. He was even enraged when some guys hit on Ovi. Like someone said, such is the male ego. Purvi was a spicy creature for Arjun since she refuted each and everything Arjun commanded. Guys eventually fall for hard-to-get girls, it's psychology. Some people might believe it's pure love, others might not (it's just a matter of perspective). Plus every kind of love requires work to be done to maintain it.

Not saying Ovi-Arjun pair is ideal but now that Ovi-Arjun are married, they should try to work on it. I see effort done by Ovi which is a good sign. In the movie Kabhi Kabhie (1971) Amitabh's character did not get to marry his sweetheart. Both got married to strangers but it worked out in the end. I think this marriage should be give time a space. It doesn't help to see an ex if you're not over them. I think they should be sent out of India for a while to work things out. If it doesn't, they could at least say they tried.

Originally posted by: PandorasBox

You are quite right my dear. No need for any lecture, including one from you (if you look at it that way) I'm perfectly fine with members venting out their frustration but isn't it a bit hypocritical to discourage those that have opposing viewpoints from doing the same?

Now to the topic, I don't understand how it was a forced marriage. Everyone was in their senses. It was Purvi who planned the whole wedding out, Ovi wasn't even aware what was going on. Granted, she did make a plea but that was her desperation. She was even willing to kill herself the night of Arjun's wedding.

Let's not forget that Arjun on his own wanted to get marries to Ovi before he came to Canada. He was even enraged when some guys hit on Ovi. Like someone said, such is the male ego. Purvi was a spicy creature for Arjun since she refuted each and everything Arjun commanded. Guys eventually fall for hard-to-get girls, it's psychology. Some people might believe it's pure love, others might not (it's just a matter of perspective). Plus every kind of love requires work to be done to maintain it.

Not saying Ovi-Arjun pair is ideal but now that Ovi-Arjun are married, they should try to work on it. I see effort done by Ovi which is a good sign. In the movie Kabhi Kabhie (1971) Amitabh's character did not get to marry his sweetheart. Both got married to strangers but it worked out in the end. I think this marriage should be give time a space. It doesn't help to see an ex if you're not over them. I think they should be sent out of India for a while to work things out. If it doesn't, they could at least say they tried.

^ yep it is a public forum. Just like you gave a "lecture" expressing your view, as did I. I bet you that if I wrote things you agreed with, you wouldn't be complaining about this so called "lecture". You have to let other express their views as well even if it contradicts your opinions.

You can either choose to ignore my post or refute my points with supporting argument, I'm in favour of either one. But do not tell me that I have no right to post what I feel just like you did.


p.s. taking it personally is the last thing I did. and what's with the "you people" - now that's taking it personally. You are doing the exact thing you're telling others not to do.

Originally posted by: PandorasBox

^ yep it is a public forum. Just like you gave a "lecture" expressing your view, as did I. I bet you that if I wrote things you agreed with, you wouldn't be complaining about this so called "lecture". You have to let other express their views as well even if it contradicts your opinions.

You can either choose to ignore my post or refute my points with supporting argument, I'm in favour of either one. But do not tell me that I have no right to post what I feel just like you did.


p.s. taking it personally is the last thing I did. and what's with the "you people" - now that's taking it personally. You are doing the exact thing you're telling others not to do.

the whole thread is titled Ovi, what do you mean you don't want to discuss about Ovi 😳 You are contradicting yourself.

And by the way, my posts are not just for you but anyone can read them so please do not try to limit what I can discuss if it doesn't go with your opinion.

I have a feeling I'm going in circles though. Let's leave it at that. I posted what I posted and u did your bid. Now unless you want to discuss the show, I think I'm through with you.