ANADI IS TOO CLEVER

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hi guys,

I know there are a lot of Anandi fans out there who will not accept the facts i am about to say because most of us are just sympathetic for her. This is not against anybody...this is just my opinion about the serial balika vadhu and its direction. I liked the show in the first place because the characters were good. However, I think the direction is going so haywire that they are far from being even little realistic. I wish the program team was able to see my post...it might help them.
I agree that she has been through lot of difficulty since childhood and now got divorced even though she didnt want it but dont you guys agree that she has always been well off and in better condition than Jagdish who is the real Child of this Household.
Seriously lets talk some sense! In todays episode Anandi finally realizes that she is taking jagdish's family away from him. Now what had happened to the same understanding when Jagdish had actually left her long back. SHe should have left the haweli right then and there but she did not. She decided to stay there are remind jagdish's family that their son had done wrong to her. Despite their affection for jagdish they got so helpless because of guilt for anandi that they had to get harsh with jagdish. Now people dont be bogus and be honest. WHo does that in real life...Who disowns their own child and adopts their daughter in law!!!!
On the other hand, Anadi was so much into herself in the haweli doing her things (being teacher and Panchayatan) that she did not even bother to go and check on her real mother. Ultimately her mom got so sick and passed away.
And now, suddenly out of nowhere she is realizing her mistakes just so she can show off how much she cares about dadisa family. IF she had done this long back Jagdish and his wife gauri wouldnt have to go through all this trouble. If she were to be selfless for real she would have tried to get jagdish back to the family with gauri and she would have gone back to her Parents. Instead she chose to take all the family Sympathy, affection and she was also able to live very lavishly. Whereas Jagdish sufffered so much because of her and is still suffering. Anandi did not leave any option to Jagdish's family by staying in front of them constantly. If she was really a sensible lady she would not taken away jagdish's rights from him.I do understand she took a bullet for jagdish but she did that out of love...she cant ask a favor of taking away his family from him forever. All I am saying is...If Anandi is so great for real howcome she didnt think of this long back. When there was no relationship with the real person(husband jagdish) then what right makes her stay in sasural; neglecting her real parents completely.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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GAURI's copied bhashan 🤣🤣🤣
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this type of topic has been discussed many times ie why anandi is staying in sasural why she is not taking care of her parents .if u want link of those topic i can give u .
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HUH! Controversy creates cash ...I means views here & replies lol. I can see this post reaching 10 pages of arguments. Defending & arguing. 🤢😆
AHHH literati😛 ... Poor Jagia was victim of physical & emotional abuse lol he needs his family as he was married to a felon, acholic girl... Gward!! Anandi was sleeping with other man in Jaisar right. There was nothing WRONG with Jughead he had just fallen "out" of love now is "back" in love... so wants to get back with A & family. Anandi shd have jheloed everything in mute and gone back bag & baggage to her poor parents to hear some more taunts from illiterate villagers. Anandi sure shd be prosecuted instead of being protected.

No wonder women are'still being abused in India under the awesome Pati Parameshwars.




Edited by queen-bee - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: queen-bee

HUH! Controversy creates cash ...I means views here & replies lol. I can see this post reaching 10 pages of arguments. Defending & arguing. 🤢😆

AHHH literati😛 ... Poor Jagia was victim of physical & emotional abuse lol he needs his family as he was married to a felon, acholic girl... Gward!! Anandi was sleeping with other man in Jaisar right. There was nothing WRONG with Jughead he had just fallen "out" of love now is "back" in love... so wants to get back with A & family. Anandi shd have jheloed everything in mute and gone back bag & baggage to her poor parents to hear some more taunts from illiterate villagers. Anandi sure shd be prosecuted instead of being protected.

No wonder women are'still being abused in India under the awesome Pati Parameshwars.





Well, Apparently Anandi has not tolerated (jheloed) anything. She has lived very comfortably in the Haweli with all the allowances etc etc. She might not have done anything immoral in her marraige but if we really have to point out She should have gone with Jagdish when he went to study long back. Her first responsibility was her husband then the family. If she had been with Jagdish he wouldnt fall for another girl. Nobody has greater right upon family than the actual heir of the family. I dont understand how Jagya's parents can be so heartless and forget their own child...see their own child suffer so much because of their decisions BOGUS!. Be realistic who will do this for real.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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how can u say that anandi live in haveli did not jhelofying anything .dont u remember how dadisa use to torture anandi in child hood .i remember when dadisa closed her in kothri for putting bangles in aasha hand next day she ran away to bilaria and said i will never go to haveli but her father said it is ur sasural u cant leave ur sasural .so it was clear that little anandi does want luxury from sasural she want love from sasural .now anandi exactly doing what she learn from parent

now why she did not go with jagya because she thought that after five years she will remain with jagya together in haveli because jagya said to anandi that he will practice in jaitsar as there is no doctor in jaitsar and she cant even think in her dream jagya will leave her for another woman who used love anandi very much but when she went to mumbai she was shocked to see jagya behaviour when she went to celebrate jagya birthday .he said i have no time for u ,i come here for study and he threw goggles brought by anandi for jagya by saying do u think i will wear such cheap goggless and even said that she is nandini ,my door ki rishtedaar .after this anandi remain unhappy by seeing anandi unhappy bhairon singh bhago want anandi to stay with jagya she refuse why because of jagya behaviour in mumbai .again so much request by bhairon singh she agree to live with jagya but jagya stop anandi reaching mumbai by saying that anandi i do not love u .thats why she again do not go to mumbai to live with jagya .she was so tense that she got ulcer in her stomach .when bhairon singh informed jagya about anandi illness he made lame excuse that he did not get flight reservation and decide to to take care of gauri who was also suffering from fever at that time in mumbai

when she came to know jagya wil marry to another girl she felt unconcious in hospital and cry bitterly in roof .it was again proof that she did not want haveli luxury

when jagya gauri came to haveli to seek blessing anandi about leave haveli , due to anandi leaving dadisa got heart attack thats why she stop and dadisa said promise me u will not leave this haveli and anandi agree

i admire bhairon singh dadisa sumitra that they do not bindly support jagya .

if anandi do not talk to bhairon singh about jagya medical entrance jagya would have never become doctor
Edited by surabhi01 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well, Apparently Anandi has not tolerated (jheloed) anything. She has lived very comfortably in the Haweli with all the allowances etc etc. She might not have done anything immoral in her marraige but if we really have to point out She should have gone with Jagdish when he went to study long back. Her first responsibility was her husband then the family. If she had been with Jagdish he wouldnt fall for another girl. Nobody has greater right upon family than the actual heir of the family. I dont understand how Jagya's parents can be so heartless and forget their own child...see their own child suffer so much because of their decisions BOGUS!. Be realistic who will do this for real.


It happens in families who have real moral values. India's one of the most famous family had similar incident where Son was nalayak and used to torture his wife. Also had relationship wit other woman. Parents did the same thing kick out their son and took care of Bahu and same thing they did divorce and remarriage of that Bahu. That shows real value. I realy can't understand why u all have problems with Anandi living in haveli. Why she will be the only one to suffer emotionally? Gauri was never Jagiya's wife she is still a keep. Did Jagiya file for divorce with Gauri? No he doesn't need to do it. AND SABHYA GHARON MEIN BETE KI RAKHAIL KO NAHEE ACCEPT KIYA JATA HAI? WHAT IS REALISTIC IN IT? 🤢🤢😆😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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mujhe to lagta hai agar anandi ki sasural poor hoti aur mayka rich hota to agar anandi mayka mein rehne jaati jagya ke chodne ke baad to yeh objection uthaya jaata ki anandi mayeke mein kyon reh rahi hai hai sasural mein kyon nahi .
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Jugya - didn't know you visited India Forums🥱

Your family prefers Anandi cuz you treated your family like dirt. You stepped on all their dreams...told your friends lies about them. Bribed court officials with family heirloom. Humiliated them and their sanskar with the presence of your mistress in their home and village. You tried to extort property from them. Even Makhan kaka is more loyal and worthy of support compared to you. Who got educated to become a DISRESPECTFUL PSYCHO CRIMINAL who believes more in Darru then Dawa!

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P.S. i have reported this topic as you have a prior topic with essentially same arguments:
Edited by AnjanaYYZ - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

mujhe to lagta hai agar anandi ki sasural poor hoti aur mayka rich hota to agar anandi mayka mein rehne jaati jagya ke chodne ke baad to yeh objection uthaya jaata ki anandi mayeke mein kyon reh rahi hai hai sasural mein kyon nahi .


Surabhi, some people always have problem with the girl only...if she would have hung herself upside down for that jughead these MCP would have been happy. 🤢
I wish we had responsible parents... i mean In laws like Anandi's😃 all the guys would have shudhrofied by now. I agree that 2 people in a relationship can have differences and may realize that they are not meant to be together & may want to part ways but what & how J did everything was absolutely brutal.

Physical strength, financial independence, lack of education among woman are major causes for these kind of abuses. I'm so glad the maker are showing Anandi so strong and she has the support of her ILS. But when I see posts like these I feel...India is still a male dominating society. But fortunately, few people have the tenacity to go against a defined society norm like the Singhs👏

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