Hi guys,
I know there are a lot of Anandi fans out there who will not accept the facts i am about to say because most of us are just sympathetic for her. This is not against anybody...this is just my opinion about the serial balika vadhu and its direction. I liked the show in the first place because the characters were good. However, I think the direction is going so haywire that they are far from being even little realistic. I wish the program team was able to see my post...it might help them.
I agree that she has been through lot of difficulty since childhood and now got divorced even though she didnt want it but dont you guys agree that she has always been well off and in better condition than Jagdish who is the real Child of this Household.
Seriously lets talk some sense! In todays episode Anandi finally realizes that she is taking jagdish's family away from him. Now what had happened to the same understanding when Jagdish had actually left her long back. SHe should have left the haweli right then and there but she did not. She decided to stay there are remind jagdish's family that their son had done wrong to her. Despite their affection for jagdish they got so helpless because of guilt for anandi that they had to get harsh with jagdish. Now people dont be bogus and be honest. WHo does that in real life...Who disowns their own child and adopts their daughter in law!!!!
On the other hand, Anadi was so much into herself in the haweli doing her things (being teacher and Panchayatan) that she did not even bother to go and check on her real mother. Ultimately her mom got so sick and passed away.
And now, suddenly out of nowhere she is realizing her mistakes just so she can show off how much she cares about dadisa family. IF she had done this long back Jagdish and his wife gauri wouldnt have to go through all this trouble. If she were to be selfless for real she would have tried to get jagdish back to the family with gauri and she would have gone back to her Parents. Instead she chose to take all the family Sympathy, affection and she was also able to live very lavishly. Whereas Jagdish sufffered so much because of her and is still suffering. Anandi did not leave any option to Jagdish's family by staying in front of them constantly. If she was really a sensible lady she would not taken away jagdish's rights from him.I do understand she took a bullet for jagdish but she did that out of love...she cant ask a favor of taking away his family from him forever. All I am saying is...If Anandi is so great for real howcome she didnt think of this long back. When there was no relationship with the real person(husband jagdish) then what right makes her stay in sasural; neglecting her real parents completely.
Edited by puredesi21 - 13 years ago