About Jagya- please do read!!!!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hey Everyone,

I wanted to write this since a long time but never got a chance... I feel really bad for Jagya... that's right Jagya not Anandi... I am sure u guys would be shocked... as everyone likes Anandi.. but guys i have so many reason to support this topic..

First, it was not just Anandi who suffered from child marriage, it was Jagya also. Anandi and Jagya both were kids when they got married..I know Dadisa was very strict with Anandi... but everyone else used to give attention to Anandi more than Jagya... even jagya's parents.. But still Jagya still used to care about Anandi..I know u guys would say that "Anandi has taken bullet for Jagya to save him..." i know she is very nice person..but Jagya has also done alot for Anandi which people wont remember...he tried to fullfill her wish of studying in childhood...she wanted to go to school.. which jagya asked his dad to send anandi to school but it was Dadisa who stop anandi from studying not Jagya... Anyways.. what i am trying to say that is that Jagya is also got targeted with this childhood marriage not just Anandi...

Next Jagya was honest to Anandi , about Gauri .. he told Anandi that he loves Gauri not her..which show that he was being a nice person, he could had lied about Gauri but he did not..

After Everyone knowing that fact about Jagya and Gauri... everyone supported Anandi which is rtie thing... but what I Hate about Anandi...why is she staying in Jagya's...for what rishta... when her husband does not have to have rishta with her...then why the hell she wants to keep a forceful rishta with his parents.. if u guys are saying India girls are like that.. they care about the family... please dont tell me this...she could have taken care of them by calling them or visiting them once a while... She has low selfish grl i have ever seen... She could have gone with her parents when they came to get her... she did leave when Jagya and Gauri came to the house as husband and wife.. that they got married... Anandi always had an luxuries life... whereas Jagya who is born in the richest family of Jaitsar, had to live a struggling life because his parents supported Anandi... and disowned their own child...

Nobody in Jagya's family supports him, none understands him...now Gauri also said so many bad things to him... as u all have seen that episode..

I honestly feel that Anandi should leave Jagya since she has not rite to stay at his house with all means

Friends i just wanted to share it with you all this... i am sorry i have offened anandi's fans... But i like Jagya MORE as character and Actor who is playing that role.. is an awesome actor...

Do share your comment and ideas about this


Thanks


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: puredesi21

Hey Everyone,

I wanted to write this since a long time but never got a chance... I feel really bad for Jagya... that's right Jagya not Anandi... I am sure u guys would be shocked... as everyone likes Anandi.. but guys i have so many reason to support this topic..

First, it was not just Anandi who suffered from child marriage, it was Jagya also. Anandi and Jagya both were kids when they got married..I know Dadisa was very strict with Anandi... but everyone else used to give attention to Anandi more than Jagya... even jagya's parents.. But still Jagya still used to care about Anandi..I know u guys would say that "Anandi has taken bullet for Jagya to save him..." i know she is very nice person..but Jagya has also done alot for Anandi which people wont remember...he tried to fullfill her wish of studying in childhood...she wanted to go to school.. which jagya asked his dad to send anandi to school but it was Dadisa who stop anandi from studying not Jagya... Anyways.. what i am trying to say that is that Jagya is also got targeted with this childhood marriage not just Anandi...

Next Jagya was honest to Anandi , about Gauri .. he told Anandi that he loves Gauri not her..which show that he was being a nice person, he could had lied about Gauri but he did not..

After Everyone knowing that fact about Jagya and Gauri... everyone supported Anandi which is rtie thing... but what I Hate about Anandi...why is she staying in Jagya's...for what rishta... when her husband does not have to have rishta with her...then why the hell she wants to keep a forceful rishta with his parents.. if u guys are saying India girls are like that.. they care about the family... please dont tell me this...she could have taken care of them by calling them or visiting them once a while... She has low selfish grl i have ever seen... She could have gone with her parents when they came to get her... she did leave when Jagya and Gauri came to the house as husband and wife.. that they got married... Anandi always had an luxuries life... whereas Jagya who is born in the richest family of Jaitsar, had to live a struggling life because his parents supported Anandi... and disowned their own child...

Nobody in Jagya's family supports him, none understands him...now Gauri also said so many bad things to him... as u all have seen that episode..

I honestly feel that Anandi should leave Jagya since she has not rite to stay at his house with all means

Friends i just wanted to share it with you all this... i am sorry i have offened anandi's fans... But i like Jagya MORE as character and Actor who is playing that role.. is an awesome actor...

Do share your comment and ideas about this


Thanks



@red for ur kind information just go and see the Bv episode of 20th april 2011. then u will come to know dat jagya was honest or not. dat time he did say dat he didn't love anandi but he never mentioned about gauri to anandi.
it was from bapusa anandi came to know about gauri and jagya. here is the link for dat episode:


@green she is not forcefully keeping her rishta with singhs neither are they. she and singhs are bonded by love for eachother. and the reason singhs hav not accepted jagya is not only because of anandi. jagya had once been ashamed of his own family and thats why he lied in his college. he insensitively rejected the hospital his family very lovingly made for him. he sold the locket of his dadusa which was his last belonging just for illegally marrying gauri and he asked for property in return of divorce from anandi. these reasons are enough for a family to disown their son and accept the DIL who had been standing and supporting them in every thick and thin of singhs
Edited by Asi80 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think you have seen only selective episodes of the show ... and also have not read ... pages and pages of the same topics ...
Jagya was always a man child and very immature ... you think that after hurting his parents so much and after his girlfriend doing tamasha so many times ... in front of so many people ... the family would forget anf forgive them ... No .. they will not ... it will take a lot lot lot of genuine effort from J and G to get in the good books of the family ... honest effort..
As for Anandi not leaving J ... as soon as he introduced her as relative ... in front of everyone ... she understood that thier relation was not the same any more ... if watch the episodes carefully ... she did maintain distance ... with some hope ... and A had told that she will leave ... but the singh pariwar love her so much that they think her as daughter not an in-law ...
Bond of love is greater then that of blood ... basic thing!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Anandi came to the house as a child bride at the age of 8. She has been here since then. She has spent more time here than at her maayka. Sumitra knows her better than her own mother. Bhairon knows her better than her own father. Not because her parents do not love her but because she spent 16 years of her life with the Singhs.

This is my question - because Jagdish wants to go live with his new wife, is it fair to take away from Anandi the only home she knows? Jagdish is a spineless loser who wanted a shiny new thing aka a modern wife and threw Anandi away like a used tissue. I am sorry to use such language but that is what he did. He treated her like dirt and Gauri followed his lead. Anandi is not a washing machine or TV, ki naya laye toh purana phenk do. She is a person with feelings.

Why should Anandi lose her Bapusa, her maa, her daadisa and all her relations because Jagya does not know how to be moral and responsible. He cares not about anything other than his own wants and needs. Why should Anandi pay the price for his misdeeds? Why should a woman always pay the price for a man's mistake?

Anandi does not deserve to lose her home because Jagya chose to go live with another woman. Jagya made the mistake. He has no legal, religious or moral right to make Gauri his wife yet he and his so called wife are content to live together without any legal wedding. More power to them. So again why should Anandi leave when she did nothing wrong? She is as much a daughter of the house infact she has done more for the Singhs than Jagya ever did and it is high time she got recognition for that. She deserves to live with the Singhs in their house more than that loser ever did.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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You know what i feel... Anandi is going to catalayst Jagya's ( and Gauri😡 ) home coming... she knows Jagya's family misses him and they ofcourse need their son and Jagya also needs to be with his family to take care of them, if nothing else... i dont think Jagya can come back from Gauri because firstly remember this is not a normal saas bahu show where husbands can jump between 2 or more wives and still be okay !! and secondly gauri has been honest in her love for jagu if nothing much ... so joining dots.. things would move for good and everyone is falling in place.. Ja-Ga , An-Sh ...

Wait and Watch...

But But But... agar J-A hua i m tou going to stop watchin it as i dont want another Sas Bahu line drama 👎🏼

see already CVs are smart people they have moved the track in a way that Jagya is getting in positive light and people talking good about him :D
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Posted: 13 years ago
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one word to this topic-rubbish
Edited by surabhi01 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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this post shows he didn't see monday episode of brawl with vendoe and shiv analysed in first meet so how man u support this pighead man 😡
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Posted: 13 years ago
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There are few things I agree with you on your post and some that I disagree with.

Yes like Anandi, J too had to face child marriage. I also agree that A got very good support from everyone except Ds and A herself acknowledges of the love and support she got from everyone in the family including Child jagya.

However, it was J who abandoned A after constantly cheating both the girls. He insulted her, lied to her, abused her womanhood, her emotions, disrespected her on various occasions and made her feel completely useless. Yes you might say that he saved her life from goons, but the wounds he created were too deep to be healed…

The reason why Singhs look after A is not only because J left her, but because they themselves feel J is not worthy of their family. Yes he is their son, so they can't forget or erase him from memories, but they don't love him in the same way anymore. And Anandi stays with them because until divorce, she was a legally wedded wife of Jagya and had rights to stay there. After divorce also she can stay there, as she shares a bonding which is above and beyond merely classified relationships.

Coming to second point, J's child marriage abuse would have been justified, if the scenario was any different.

Say, after he realised he was in love with G, if he had confided that A and his family and persuaded to end the marriage with A respectfully. He should have then convinced Singhs to approve J-G relationship and then get them married. In this way G too would be in better circumstances & status, then what she got into.

Even in this scenario A would have suffered, but J would have been less at fault and their parents more at fault for imposing Child marriage. At least A wouldn't have to go through the pain of betrayal, abandonment & rejection. She wouldn't have to see J-G sleep together. And in this case it would be required that A goes back to her parents (who would then be actual culprits for A's loss)

What J has done is a case of Adultery and not a case of Child marriage Victim. Its unfortunate that he ended up choosing a wrong partner who can't support him and he has to bear with her for the rest of his life now. But as the saying goes ' As you sow, so shall you reap'

I feel sorry for J when G treats him like a trash, but never otherwise.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: puredesi21

Hey Everyone,

I wanted to write this since a long time but never got a chance... I feel really bad for Jagya... that's right Jagya not Anandi... I am sure u guys would be shocked... as everyone likes Anandi.. but guys i have so many reason to support this topic..

First, it was not just Anandi who suffered from child marriage, it was Jagya also. Anandi and Jagya both were kids when they got married..I know Dadisa was very strict with Anandi... but everyone else used to give attention to Anandi more than Jagya... even jagya's parents.. But still Jagya still used to care about Anandi..I know u guys would say that "Anandi has taken bullet for Jagya to save him..." i know she is very nice person..but Jagya has also done alot for Anandi which people wont remember...he tried to fullfill her wish of studying in childhood...she wanted to go to school.. which jagya asked his dad to send anandi to school but it was Dadisa who stop anandi from studying not Jagya... Anyways.. what i am trying to say that is that Jagya is also got targeted with this childhood marriage not just Anandi...

Next Jagya was honest to Anandi , about Gauri .. he told Anandi that he loves Gauri not her..which show that he was being a nice person, he could had lied about Gauri but he did not..

After Everyone knowing that fact about Jagya and Gauri... everyone supported Anandi which is rtie thing... but what I Hate about Anandi...why is she staying in Jagya's...for what rishta... when her husband does not have to have rishta with her...then why the hell she wants to keep a forceful rishta with his parents.. if u guys are saying India girls are like that.. they care about the family... please dont tell me this...she could have taken care of them by calling them or visiting them once a while... She has low selfish grl i have ever seen... She could have gone with her parents when they came to get her... she did leave when Jagya and Gauri came to the house as husband and wife.. that they got married... Anandi always had an luxuries life... whereas Jagya who is born in the richest family of Jaitsar, had to live a struggling life because his parents supported Anandi... and disowned their own child...

Nobody in Jagya's family supports him, none understands him...now Gauri also said so many bad things to him... as u all have seen that episode..

I honestly feel that Anandi should leave Jagya since she has not rite to stay at his house with all means

Friends i just wanted to share it with you all this... i am sorry i have offened anandi's fans... But i like Jagya MORE as character and Actor who is playing that role.. is an awesome actor...

Do share your comment and ideas about this

Thanks



@ Green... Jagu and honest... in what world??? for your kind information he lied to both Gauri and Anandi. He never told Gauri about him being married.. and he never told Anandi about Gauri. Also when Anandi when to Mumbai he introduced her as his distance relative. On the other hand Lal Singh told everyone he was married as a kid and he introduced his childhood bride to all his friends. SO please no excuse about Jagiya begin a victim. He could have been honest and handled the situation in much better way.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: easyandbusy

You know what i feel... Anandi is going to catalayst Jagya's ( and Gauri😡 ) home coming... she knows Jagya's family misses him and they ofcourse need their son and Jagya also needs to be with his family to take care of them, if nothing else... i dont think Jagya can come back from Gauri because firstly remember this is not a normal saas bahu show where husbands can jump between 2 or more wives and still be okay !! and secondly gauri has been honest in her love for jagu if nothing much ... so joining dots.. things would move for good and everyone is falling in place.. Ja-Ga , An-Sh ...


Wait and Watch...

But But But... agar J-A hua i m tou going to stop watchin it as i dont want another Sas Bahu line drama 👎🏼

see already CVs are smart people they have moved the track in a way that Jagya is getting in positive light and people talking good about him :D


Even if Jagu has become "Positive" I would rather have him and Gauri stay thousands of miles away from AnShi.. Otherwise Gauri and Jagu will play tricks to break Anandi's new home. Because in their eyes the chal-baz Anandi does not deserve happiness and I am sure that Gauri will do all that she can to create misunderstanding between AnShi.

The farther Jagiya-Gauri are from AnShi and Singh parivar the better it is for all.
Edited by desi5555 - 13 years ago

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