Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ
One has to have a relationship for that relationship to have issues😛 AnSh ka rishta kya hai? Koi mujhe first yeh bolo? Yes. They are engaged...but, so far they are barely even friends. S may love A, but its yet to be reciprocal. Till the wounds of the past are not cauterized and closed, A cannot emotionally move on...not really. That's where they are now at. Negotiating the past, so they can forge their own real relationship. J is not the glue keeping them together. Bhago's promise, A's respect, and Shiv's love is the glue to their current nameless rishta...
In Shiv's ling - yeh "rishta jo abhi judhi bhi nahi" ... jab judh jaye tab uski aapni problems and challenges hogi... now its the challenges of a divorcee with one step in the past and one in the present...trying to move on with the support of her future. And to overcome the past one must face it...its easy to ignore in absentia...but, closure requires interaction with the past and making peace with it. And jodhiing new rishta requires acceptance, which is not easy and instantaneous when either partner has a past