Is it Tara's fault?

😊Is it tara's fault that she wants a child? Up until now I used to think Tara is extremely crazy that she can stoop to such levels for a child. However, when you think about it Tara's yearning for a child isn't wrong. I mean I can understand that Tara is going through the wrong way but, does she know Urvashi's Intentions? "NO". All tara wants is a child who can call her Mom, whom she can love. I can understand the fact that maybe by asking Urvashi😭 😡😭(by willing to divorce Brijesh) is the wrong way but, is anyone actually listening to her. Noone wants to hear her yearning, I also understand the fact that she has definitley started speaking Urvashi's language (but wouldn't we all listen to our siblings). Even if someone's older sibling tells them the wrong thing we still believe it is right therefore, why can't Tara. Tara shouldn't have accused Nahar and Saloni after all they are trying to help on the other hand, Tara can see no right and wrong she simply wants a child; it isn't her fault she can't be a mother. Do you believe that Tara is completely crazy to yearn for a child? Sorry, for the long topic/post just wanted to know your views regarding the fact whether it is or isn't Tara's fault to do all this. 😃

😃Manisha😃

I do sympathize with Tara but she is going to an extent.. I mean if she really wants a child: she can always adopt a baby and the baby can call her 'maa'.

n what will the child think of Tara when he/she grows n gets to know he/she is Urvashi and Brijesh's

No offence anyone.. my opinion

i m not sure!maybe u r right!!

yes, adoption would be the perfect solution here, everyone is happy, no relns hurt, Urvashi's plans fails, and Tara and Brijesh gets a child who wud call them maa and pa. but when Tara is adamant abt wanting Brijesh's kid, then, she cld go for a surrogate mother who is unknown to all and wud do it for money. Its not Tara's fault that she cannot become a mother, but it is Tara who is letting Urvashi get what she's after. Yes, we often look up to our older siblings for advice, but would not just sit there and listen to them and do what they say if that advice feels wrong to our ears. I have an older sibling too, she means the world to me, but i would not listen, if i think the advice is wrong, i mean Tara is not dumb, she can do a little thinking for herself.

I agree with Mamis.

Plus Tara was shown an intelligent woman. If she goes to some peaceful place for a day (away from Urvashi n everyone) she may realize she is making the biggest mistake of her life.

Just a thought: cant they have a test tube baby?

they can hace test tube baby.

Tara is in a state where she is very vulnerable to people's thoughts. Now that urvashi stays with her and spend a lot of time with her, brainwashing her, she unknowingly had fallen into urvashi's trap. iTS NOT HER FAULT. i mean, all she wants is a baby. Se doesn't wanna adopt because she wants it to be Brijesh's child and i think, wanting only the child to be brijesh's, was a little too much...

i think it depends on your definition of what you consider as "your child" if you consider the realation with the child is more important than whether the child has your blood, then i'd say adopt.

if you do care that the child should have some blood realtion, then i'd say no to adoption.

in tara's case, she does consider having a child sharing at least one of the parents blood.

so i wouldn't say she's wrong in that case.

however the director seems to be under some misunderstanding. women that can't get pregnant by natural means can still go for artificial insemination with their husband.

i thought that was the whole point of artificial insemination. the process is life threatening though based on your ferility.


Tripler

i have seen woman yearning for kids and sometimes not only woman herslef but other peole's infuluance ask them to behave that way. they are totally in other peole's influance they are not even able to think what is right and what is wrong and they only see things what people what peopel shaw them and these peole are nobody but their very kin person, becaus e they think if they cannot give kids and sometimes son to the house their position in the house will be not very high like in tara's case she start behaving like this once hersister start instiguing her against all and gave tara all this thought other wise she was normal and did not care about all this, so at somepoint of you life this kind of setuation may arise if you are unable to give something and that is very essencial.

so i think tara is not wrong in thiscase and people soround her should behave with matuarity like the way tara is thinking only hersister can understand her but other people are her "dushaman"

few people among us might have seen this kind of setuation not worst like this but something similar in our life i have seen this that's why i am telling

I think as far as Tara needs a child, why not go in for test tube baby, instead of asking her sister to be the surrogate mother. I do not think that yearning for a child can lead to such an extent that one looses his mind or thinking senses. After all if the fault was in Brijesh and not in her, would she go ahead and sleep with someone else to get a child, she would then either accept Nahar & Saloni's First Child or Adopted a child.

Then why not do the same now???

I donot understand Tara's Logic she has been totally influenced by her sister Urvashi who is already a divorcee