Apology VS Being Togehter

A2ZVictory thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
#1
Jagya has come back. He want forgiveness. He is begging, pleading, demandig, forgivness.
For a small minute (or just for argument sake) lets say Jagya has really redeemed himself. I would then say he sould be forgiven. (Now wait a minute- before you guys want to beat me up, listen to what i have to say furthur).
1. His family including Annadi should forgive him.
2. Certain actions are irreversible - Anadi and Jagya's divorce is irreversible. Just because Anandi forgives him, does not imply that they should remarry/
3. Jagya should accept the fact that Anandi has grown and moved on in his absence and she deserves to be with someone who has loved and cherished her when Jagya was away.
4. Jagya is finally the son of the Singh family and if the Singh Family accepts Jagya back after giving due justice to Anandi, one should have no quamms in Jagya being accepted back.
All the above should only happen if Jagya really redeems himself, but at the moment he is still the self absorbed idiot and requites no sympathy.
Its just a though that came to my mind and thought I would share it with you. And again most important, just because Ananadi forgives Jagya, that does not mean she should marry him again. Please share your comments

Created

Last reply

Replies

8

Views

1.4k

Users

5

Likes

22

Frequent Posters

5cents thumbnail
20th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 13 years ago
#2
Anna, I feel... Forgiveness is a journey and Jughead has not yet started that journey the day he starts I'll then talk about redemption & him being back in the haveli.

Forgiveness has little or nothing to do with another person because forgiveness is within us. Maafi is no khaani ki khichdi that one can take it forcefully. Jagia has to earn his forgiveness. If today he is accepted back it will send a wrong message.

Anandi had rightfully said...Kuch galtiyo ki maafi nahi hote. Here Jughead has done some serious crime not simple galti.

The road is uphill for Jughead but he''ll be fixed!!

A2ZVictory thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
#3
Yes Tina, Jughead is in for a long struggle.
However even if he is forgiven, now or whenever, Anandi will not and should not return to his life as his wife.
She has to move on with her life.
Forgiveness does not equate to re acceptance by Anandi. Jagya wants to get forgiven so that he can go back to Anandi.
melliflous thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail Visit Streak 30 Thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
#4
He should be definitely forgiven when 'he' becomes worthy of it. And right now there are no symptoms if it... Even earlier scene when 'he' hears 'sarpunch' word there was switch in expressions from being sorry abt what 'he' had done to the farmer to vengeful face. So, 'he' really needs to work far too hard on being a better person. Hopefully one day! Oh, and for sure forgiveness from anandi doesn't mean acceptance. The word acceptance is not applicable any more between them. Even if shiv wasn't there in anandi's life still there was no path of return for jagya.
vamita thumbnail
17th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
#5
You are right dear, forgiving a person who truly is repenting is something everyone should do, though it is very hard...But the person asking for forgivness should be worth it...The way Jagya demanded for forgiveness as if he had a right because he was Anandi's ex was totally wrong...He should have realized that he has no right on her...He should have moved on, and tried his level best to win that trust back, instead of saying what he did to dadisa when Anandi said that she can't forgive him...You are right...Forgiveness doesn't mean that Anandi will go back to Jagya...It is just a phase, where she can let go of her past and move on, without any guilt or regret...So, yes, if Jagya is truly sorry, she can just let go thinking about her future...! It will not haunt her once she is free of that guilt...!
A2ZVictory thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
#6

Originally posted by: melliflous

He should be definitely forgiven when 'he' becomes worthy of it. And right now there are no symptoms if it... Even earlier scene when 'he' hears 'sarpunch' word there was switch in expressions from being sorry abt what 'he' had done to the farmer to vengeful face. So, 'he' really needs to work far too hard on being a better person. Hopefully one day! Oh, and for sure forgiveness from anandi doesn't mean acceptance. The word acceptance is not applicable any more between them. Even if shiv wasn't there in anandi's life still there was no path of return for jagya.



Agree, right now he is beyond redemption. 😡. Some day probably he will realise his faults and work on being a better person.
A2ZVictory thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
#7

Originally posted by: vamita

You are right dear, forgiving a person who truly is repenting is something everyone should do, though it is very hard...But the person asking for forgivness should be worth it...The way Jagya demanded for forgiveness as if he had a right because he was Anandi's ex was totally wrong...He should have realized that he has no right on her...He should have moved on, and tried his level best to win that trust back, instead of saying what he did to dadisa when Anandi said that she can't forgive him...You are right...Forgiveness doesn't mean that Anandi will go back to Jagya...It is just a phase, where she can let go of her past and move on, without any guilt or regret...So, yes, if Jagya is truly sorry, she can just let go thinking about her future...! It will not haunt her once she is free of that guilt...!



Thank you for understanding my point. Jagya can be forgiven by Anandi, and that's it. He has no right over her anymore. The sooner he realises the better for him.
mythical thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 13 years ago
#8
your post reminds me of this quote -
"Forgiveness has nothing to do with absolving a criminal of his crime. It has everything to do with relieving oneself of the burden of being a victim--letting go of the pain and transforming oneself from victim to survivor."
? C.R. Strahan
i truely have begun to believe that Anandi should forgive Jagat and move on. once she forgives she can forget him and stop having flashbacks of him. Anandi is meant for Shiv😳, as he is the light at the end of the tunnel. jagat was the darkness she carried with herself for so long. unless she lets go, unless she forgives herself(for not forgiving jagat), unless she forgives the situation(jagat being without his family), unless she realizes that that situation is over(jagat is not jagia and never will be), she cannot move forward to shiv.
people in this forum may disagree with me but truthfully i no longer want to see jagat on my tv screen,i dont care if he is repenting or not. AnSh is truely poetry in motion and i have eyes only for them.
A2ZVictory thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
#9

Originally posted by: mythical

your post reminds me of this quote -

"Forgiveness has nothing to do with absolving a criminal of his crime. It has everything to do with relieving oneself of the burden of being a victim--letting go of the pain and transforming oneself from victim to survivor."
? C.R. Strahan
i truely have begun to believe that Anandi should forgive Jagat and move on. once she forgives she can forget him and stop having flashbacks of him. Anandi is meant for Shiv😳, as he is the light at the end of the tunnel. jagat was the darkness she carried with herself for so long. unless she lets go, unless she forgives herself(for not forgiving jagat), unless she forgives the situation(jagat being without his family), unless she realizes that that situation is over(jagat is not jagia and never will be), she cannot move forward to shiv.
people in this forum may disagree with me but truthfully i no longer want to see jagat on my tv screen,i dont care if he is repenting or not. AnSh is truely poetry in motion and i have eyes only for them.



Jagat's repentance could be a parallel track. Ansh and Jagat track can run separately.

Agree with you that if Anadni forgives him she may move forward in life and give her 100% to her relationship with SHiv

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".