Well, I would graciously deny that Maanvi needs to grow up...to substantiate that i would say she does not act childish when there is sorrow and others are crying.. had she done that .. then i would agree that she needs to grow up
snakes and ladders - huh is there any age limit to play that 😕.. I with my 2 kids and my parents ..with 2 grand kids play snakes and ladders .. there is nothing wrong in playing snakes and ladders and a person's character development
Maanvi;s character is one who lives life to the fullest...there is a child in every one of us.. everyone loves to get drenched in rain . and we scream for an ice cream and we don't want to go to number 5 from 98 in the snakes and ladders game.. the situation and the circumstances sometimes change our attitude but will not change our basic character ..
her illness when she was going through the toughest of the phase.. when she was almost near to death,, she was shown as one who took things seriously, she was worried.. she was going through pain.. .. she was not childish then.. even in such dire .. she still had her character, she had the lighter moments,. she made fun.. she gave the hope to others.. she tried to give emotional support to others that nothing happens to her and she will be fine.. this is MAANVI's character...
and IF falling in LOVE or getting ENGAGED should change a person's character.. then a person will have to be changing all his life.. what is a person's character which changes with the circumstances..😕 that is not what i call character.. it your attitude.. your outlook and your approach to life and to others... it should be the same for ever.. this same Maanvi has a trait of a strong mature girl when in dire..
Should Maanvi be more serious and more mature just because she is engaged...Virat fell in love with this bubbly chirpy, innocent and loving girl in Maanvi .. Maanvi does not act immature or selfish .. when there is problem around.. she is the most mature and strong girl when a trouble befalls anyone.. be it Jeevika's accident .. or be it her cancer or her di aborting baby . she knows how to behave in each situation..
VirMan: VirMan are FRIENDS before anything .. and that will be the strong basis for any further relation...Would Virat appreciate it if she changed and kept quite and be all shy, just because they are engaged - No he wouldn't .. before getting engaged and before falling in love.. they are the best of friends .. and do you think they should give up their comfort and friendly nature and act shy .. just because she is getting married...
remember Kajol... in K3G - even after having a son of 5-6 years. she is the same., full of life.,. in broader sense .. childish .. and has fun in every little thing screaming on top of her lungs if sachin hit a boundary..every little thing is full of life...,.as long as everything is fine but when situation is dire .. her maturity and her approach is way different .. same with Maanvi ..
Relief after illness : Now Maanvi's illness is cured,, can you guess how much of relief and how she would be feeling.. none of us here would understand how thankful Maanvi is to get her new life.. she almost saw death before her eyes.. now she is so happy that she is not able to hold it in her hands or in her heart.. the same is with Virat ,, the look on their faces in their outing showed how happy they are.., shouldn't they express their happiness after so much of pain ...they just break free and let go ..
I remember during the cancer track many of them were bored because they couldn't see the old Maanvi .. old Virat ,, Old Maanvi is back.. which I am glad for .. her mature traits are shown when there are sad times.. her bubbly and chirpy nature is shown when she is tension free,,, so all is fine.. we should be miffed if she is shown childish and dancing away when others are sad.. that is not Maanvi .. then I don;t think there is anything which needed to be changed with her,,
and somethings change in us.. which is natural ..without any effort ,, there will be changes in us when we get married and have kids.. but those are not forced..like "ohhh i am engaged .. i should be like this" that would be a forced change which will wage a war between heart and mind..
at the end.. change should be natural and not self-imposed
ahhh that's quite a long one... 😆 aadat se majoor hoon ...😉
Edited by munnihyderabad - 12 years ago