What I LOVED: 26th September 2012

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What I LOVED: 26th September 2012

Why did this episode have to end? I mean, is nothing fair in this world!!

Performance

Barun Sobti: How many times does this chap beat his own performance? He had zero dialogs today (barring once when he said Khushi). And he's ROCKED it! Absolute, flawless, perfect!

Without a single spoken word, Arnav makes the fandom cry and feel his pain.

Sanaya Irani: Outstanding! Took my heart away, girl! Totally. That was SO FAB! It was so gripping!

LOVED Pyumori Mehta: Mind-blowing performance.

Team: LOVED the episode through & through; Khushi's dialogs, Arnav's setting – sitting among the blue lights; LOVED LOVED LOVED!

Progress Points

1. Dadi ji announces Arnav won't come; Khushi stays put trusting Arnav to come

2. Khushi waits and hopes – then, hope dwindles

3. Arnav torn between past and Khushi

Favorite Scene

The whole thing!!

Arnav & Khushi

Dead. Captured. Torn.

Yet, surprise! Still together.

If we can't have joy together, we can have sorrow - but together!

Arnav

For the first time in his life, he found something brought him happiness; someone became all his happiness. He found love and trust. He found someone who didn't think twice before putting herself in extreme danger for him. He found his Khushi.

Before this time, his life had been all darkness.

Now, as he prepares to step out into the light, the darkness pulls him back. Arnav is helpless.

He remembers the moments when Khushi would talk about leaving. He cannot bear the thought. When she had said those things, Arnav remembers he'd asked her to stop her every time.

He remembers she said: I wouldn't fall in your trap again. I will slip from your fingers as the sand and the moment I get a chance, I'll run away, and you would not be able to find me.

He still cannot bear that and calls her name, as though to stop her.

It seems as though for a brief moment, he'd decided to return to Khushi; it seemed that there was almost a small smile on his face.

And then the darkness of his past calls him back.

Could he even think of spending his life with a woman who would forever remind him of his dead mother, and the reason she died?

The woman was the daughter of the one whom he hates, the one who wrecked his life, his family, his home, and his future – could he be married with her daughter?

His heart is crushed and wrenched inside him. He doesn't know which way to turn. Whatever, he chooses, he chooses pain. He cannot choose to be unfair to the injustice his mother suffered. He cannot choose to live without Khushi – else he cannot breathe.

Khushi

She fights.

She trusts.

She waits.

She hopes.

Slowly she breaks.

She loved the bangles he gave her.

Some of them broke.

She doesn't let others put out the fire.

The fire goes off on its own.

Does her trust break?

Does her hope die?

She loses consciousness, but comes to again.

The family around her looks hopeless and broken.

She is full of faith, she announces that he would come when everyone else thinks he would not.

She tells them this is a test of their love, and she trusts him to come. He promised her.

Her family tells her to let go.

She holds on to her hope.

She gives them hope.

And then her hope dwindles, she turns to her family for hope.

She gets none.

He said – if I let go of your hand once, I would never hold it again.

No, no! He was just kidding.

He would come.

But if he doesn't come, what will I do?

She is shaken to her very core – as though she's lost him, and if she has, she cannot breathe.

Recollections

For some reason, these memories swam to the fore…

~*~

Arnav had just discovered how much Khushi loved him when she turned up at the kidnappers' hideout, putting her life and honor in danger. He believed her and didn't hesitate to show her that he too loved her.

Khushi was afraid of the dark, and Arnav brought her a jar of fireflies – which gave them light for a few happy moments, before they flew out of the window. Arnav was worried that she'd be afraid again, but Khushi told him that she wasn't afraid anymore because he was with her.

They had barely had a few moments together, when kidnappers came calling.

Arnav tried that Khushi would leave him and go. Khushi refused to budge – and boldly stated that she'd stay with him. Arnav knew that she would not leave him. He hurt her and hid her under stacks of hay, and kissed his love goodbye.

Arnav gave himself to the captors, in the hope that Khushi would be free. He'd rather be hurt himself than let her be in any danger from his captors.

Khushi Dead. Arnav Captive.

Separated? No.

~*~

WIL: 18th September 2012

"5. Arnav said 'Bye' to Khushi

Khushi did not say 'Bye'.

Literally & symbolically, Khushi seems to be getting distanced from Arnav. Yet, she did not say 'bye'.

Literally & symbolically, Arnav never lets her go, goes after her and brings her back. Yet he said 'bye'."

~*~

Arnav is forcing his way through to Khushi. If there is no way, he invents one!

Returning

WIL: 13th September 2012

4. Anjali returns the ring to Arnav, and he thanks her.

~*~

Anjali was worried that Arnav was out of reach – there was no contact. She decided to call the police. Shyam panicked. He told his men to let Arnav call home.

Arnav spoke to his family. He told Khushi he loved her.

The distance remained, but he'd told her.

~*~

Arnav let himself be caught once more - a second time.

He'd had to hurt Khushi to set her free. Yet, it was his head that bled at Shyam's feet.

Khushi didn't give up after Arnav left her hidden in haystack, but her resources came to an end. She'd reached a dead end. She sought help.

Khushi found blood on Shyam's shoes and then began her quest to hunt Arnav down via Shyam.

Arnav never saw Shyam until Khushi showed him – right in RM.

Dadi Ji: Is that a win?

Whatever it is that she wanted to do – yes, she's done it. Though, what she achieved out of it is a pretty big vacuum. And if that makes her happy, then she's probably happy about it.

Though it beats me!

How bitter does one have to be to do exactly and more than what was done to her – allegedly, by Garima?

She holds her son innocent. And for him, she wrecks the life of his son.

How does that make her happy?

If destruction of Garima does make her happy, how does she expect to live in peace seeing Arnav shattered as a consequence of that destruction?

Dadi ji had a facade running that she called a household. She knew her son was doing something wrong because she says she attempted to correct him. As per her, her daughter-in-law wasn't good enough to hold her family in place. Yet, when an external factor becomes a cause for ruining her household – she blames it.

So, what she is avenging is – the destruction of a facade?

So can she now rest in peace? Is her peace worth this?

Others

1. Payal is holding up her sister and her mother. Bravo!!

2. Akash, one good yelling from his wife seems to have worked a bit.

First, he nearly went out to support Garima as she collapsed to the ground.

Next, he got water for Khushi.

Then, he comforted Nani Ji.

3. Nani ji is solely focused on how Arnav might be able to bear it. She knows how hard it may be for him.

4. NK!! You SURE ROCK!

Thanks for putting a stopper on Mami Jaan and pointing her to an area of need.

5. Garima: she's broken. Even though her family believes her and she's forgiven, yet – seeing Khushi in the state that she is – is killing Garima. She knew that Khushi would not be able to live without Arnav, and she is right.

Khushi was not able to live without Arnav even when they were at loggerheads. Now, it is not possible.

6. Shashi is such a man of honor. Respect!!

7. LOVED Bua ji's support and care for Garima.

8. Anjali: Why is this happening?

If you stop crying long enough and clean your eyes, you might see the reason sitting right beside you. Hint – he is wearing bright red.

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Yay.. first today too .. What the.. what the... somehow my post went to page 2!!! OK here it is again:
Shal.. sorry the like button seems to be missing from your post.. consider it liked in fact LOVED your post... please ignore Badboo.. the name says it all... 👎🏼

Today, the entire time they were showing the flashbacks.. I was thinking about your foreshadows... I don't remember the exact day, but you had all of the FBs in almost the same order... I was like wow!! This is uncanny..

Your Dadi segment captured what I was feeling yesterday watching.. from Dadi Point of View.. really what did it accomplish... is this what your son would have wanted? His death revenged at the cost of his son's happiness??

But yes.. I do agree with your yesterday's comment, that for Khushi & Arnav relationship, the truth being out is better.. somehow Dadi's direct hit to me was much preferable to Shyam's slimy blackmailing either Garima or Khushi or both (hey, he could have if Dadi hadn't acted)... wonder what was Shyam's plan B??? We know he was worried that Dadi might not do anything.. he was saying.. I have to take care of this.. Hmmm!!!!

As you have mentioned before, I somehow feel there is another piece of puzzle that is missing, that somehow connects the events and Garima's story... Who told Arnav's mother on her daughter's wedding day about the affair? This was done with malicious intent. Why that particular day? Who wanted Anjali's wedding to be stopped? I do see parallel with Dadi holding back on the revelation till the actual moment of Arnav's wedding so similar to Anjali's wedding. Was it Dadi who did this before too? She is the only person to have had a face to face meeting with Garima.. who knew of not only her name but of her existence.. Garima only stops by for funeral.. yes there is still pieces missing.. will CVs slowly bring it fore?? I hope so...

Today something confused me.. I was under the impression that Shashi knew about the connection between Dadi & Garima.. esp. before the Lucknow escape, she says Aap to Janthe hai na.. but today she was addressing Shashi when she said.. mera Barosa kijiye, mujhe nahi patta tha that he is married... 😕... and throughout the poignant moment where Shashi supports her.. I was like WHAT THE!!!

That apart.. my fav scene was actually Nani.. yes yes Arnav & Khushi were hurting.. but that is to be expected after yesterday... today Nani was the only one who seemed concerned about Chotte losing his happiness.. plunging back into abyss of darkness again.. she is torn between being a mother who lost her daughter.. feeling for Garima and yet again for Khushi & Arnav...

I actually felt disappointed in Khushi... yes it is your wedding.. and you are deadly afraid that Arnav will not come.. even though you are waiting.. trying to keep your trust, faith in your husband.. .

but I would have preferred if her first (or soon after) thought to be for Arnav.. what are you going through, my love.. how are you facing this bombshell alone... more important than the wedding is being with you.. even if you don't want me.. sharing your pain... let me take away your pain... you don't believe in these rituals... you already consider me your wife... let us face this together... Khushi is afraid today.. I would rather today she was as strong as yesterday... tell Dadi.. I don't care what you say.. until Arnav comes & looks me in the eye and tell to my face otherwise this marriage is on and I am his wife...

If you say hey what about Arnav.. he is non-stop thinking of her.. how his decision will effect her.. effect him.. effect them... btw.. loved Barun displaying all the anger, frustration, utter helplessness of the situation.. all culminating in the roar of Lion... hopefully that blew off the steam.. and he will calm down to switch back to ASR mode and start thinking logically...

Akaash.. please a little more perturbation on your face.. your wife just said she is not coming back.. in addition to Bhai's plight.. the realization that hey this drama is somehow dragging my marriage in between too!!! This has nothing to do with me, this Dadi is not even related to me.. why am I getting dragged into her revenge plot.. my setup is getting ruined!! 😆

I know the Fandom is going Woo Woo cheering for Payal.. but really your hubby means so little to you, that you will walk away from him.. what the heck is his fault??? He did try to stop his mother, only to be told don't bother by wife... .

Thankfully Garima (the actor) has stepped upto the plate.. I was doubting given her previous attempts.. I think she acts the best with dialogs to help her along.. only Barun can pull off showing the emotions without a word... for some reason I found Mami's getup very funny.. can't figure it out.. maybe without the color flowered bun.. not as much eye makeup..something is missing...

Also.. today I expected Buaaji to give some choice words.. just like the episode a while back protecting her girls... again with so much happening.. I guess they can spend only some time on each of them...

All in all a very mixed episode for me...

looks like today too my hubby might banish himself from room while I am watching the epi... Garima's scream.. Arnav's roar.. way too much emotions for him...😆... poor guy even after so many years, he can't handle my very rare tears.. my daughter's even rarer tears... and of course my sons more frequent tears... he literally goes to pieces...
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shal...was waiitng today too...i wantd to read u b4 sleepin, else with such a emotionally draining epi, kya karen!!
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WIL 👏⭐️

anjali, samajdaar ko ishaara kaafi hai?! 😕 No, ishaara se koi kaam nahin chale ga yahan pe!

Today it was, kya kahun. I couldnt watch episode a second time! To hurtful, sanaya was so convincing in her acting! 😭 👏

Today i havent many words yaar... Just an awesome episode!

Haan, akaash ki akkal lagta hai thikaane aa gai hai!

Everyones mood is again like in payash wedding days, when arnav khushi married...

Babuji was great! His trust in garima... 😳

And buaji: hum log to maante hain, par kya arnav babua maane ga?

I cant understand dadi. How can she live in peace after destrying her grandchildren's live a second time?!

Chalo yaar, aaj ke liye bas itna! 🥱
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Originally posted by: Shalini76

What I LOVED: 26th September 2012

Why did this episode have to end? I mean, is nothing fair in this world!!

Performance

Barun Sobti: How many times does this chap beat his own performance? He had zero dialogs today (barring once when he said Khushi). And he's ROCKED it! Absolute, flawless, perfect!

Without a single spoken word, Arnav makes the fandom cry and feel his pain.

Sanaya Irani: Outstanding! Took my heart away, girl! Totally. That was SO FAB! It was so gripping!

LOVED Pyumori Mehta: Mind-blowing performance.

Team: LOVED the episode through & through; Khushi's dialogs, Arnav's setting ' sitting among the blue lights; LOVED LOVED LOVED!

Progress Points

1. Dadi ji announces Arnav won't come; Khushi stays put trusting Arnav to come

2. Khushi waits and hopes ' then, hope dwindles

3. Arnav torn between past and Khushi

Favorite Scene

The whole thing!!

Arnav & Khushi

Dead. Captured. Torn.

Yet, surprise! Still together.

If we can't have joy together, we can have sorrow - but together!

Arnav

For the first time in his life, he found something brought him happiness; someone became all his happiness. He found love and trust. He found someone who didn't think twice before putting herself in extreme danger for him. He found his Khushi.

Before this time, his life had been all darkness.

Now, as he prepares to step out into the light, the darkness pulls him back. Arnav is helpless.

He remembers the moments when Khushi would talk about leaving. He cannot bear the thought. When she had said those things, Arnav remembers he'd asked her to stop her every time.

He remembers she said: I wouldn't fall in your trap again. I will slip from your fingers as the sand and the moment I get a chance, I'll run away, and you would not be able to find me.

He still cannot bear that and calls her name, as though to stop her.

It seems as though for a brief moment, he'd decided to return to Khushi; it seemed that there was almost a small smile on his face.

And then the darkness of his past calls him back.

Could he even think of spending his life with a woman who would forever remind him of his dead mother, and the reason she died?

The woman was the daughter of the one whom he hates, the one who wrecked his life, his family, his home, and his future ' could he be married with her daughter?

His heart is crushed and wrenched inside him. He doesn't know which way to turn. Whatever, he chooses, he chooses pain. He cannot choose to be unfair to the injustice his mother suffered. He cannot choose to live without Khushi ' else he cannot breathe.

Khushi

She fights.

She trusts.

She waits.

She hopes.

Slowly she breaks.

She loved the bangles he gave her.

Some of them broke.

She doesn't let others put out the fire.

The fire goes off on its own.

Does her trust break?

Does her hope die?

She loses consciousness, but comes to again.

The family around her looks hopeless and broken.

She is full of faith, she announces that he would come when everyone else thinks he would not.

She tells them this is a test of their love, and she trusts him to come. He promised her.

Her family tells her to let go.

She holds on to her hope.

She gives them hope.

And then her hope dwindles, she turns to her family for hope.

She gets none.

He said ' if I let go of your hand once, I would never hold it again.

No, no! He was just kidding.

He would come.

But if he doesn't come, what will I do?

She is shaken to her very core ' as though she's lost him, and if she has, she cannot breathe.

Recollections

For some reason, these memories swam to the fore'

~*~

Arnav had just discovered how much Khushi loved him when she turned up at the kidnappers' hideout, putting her life and honor in danger. He believed her and didn't hesitate to show her that he too loved her.

Khushi was afraid of the dark, and Arnav brought her a jar of fireflies ' which gave them light for a few happy moments, before they flew out of the window. Arnav was worried that she'd be afraid again, but Khushi told him that she wasn't afraid anymore because he was with her.

They had barely had a few moments together, when kidnappers came calling.

Arnav tried that Khushi would leave him and go. Khushi refused to budge ' and boldly stated that she'd stay with him. Arnav knew that she would not leave him. He hurt her and hid her under stacks of hay, and kissed his love goodbye.

Arnav gave himself to the captors, in the hope that Khushi would be free. He'd rather be hurt himself than let her be in any danger from his captors.

Khushi Dead. Arnav Captive.

Separated? No.

~*~

WIL: 18th September 2012

"5. Arnav said 'Bye' to Khushi

Khushi did not say 'Bye'.

'

Literally & symbolically, Khushi seems to be getting distanced from Arnav. Yet, she did not say 'bye'.

Literally & symbolically, Arnav never lets her go, goes after her and brings her back. Yet he said 'bye'."

~*~

Arnav is forcing his way through to Khushi. If there is no way, he invents one!

Returning

WIL: 13th September 2012

4. Anjali returns the ring to Arnav, and he thanks her.

~*~

Anjali was worried that Arnav was out of reach ' there was no contact. She decided to call the police. Shyam panicked. He told his men to let Arnav call home.

Arnav spoke to his family. He told Khushi he loved her.

The distance remained, but he'd told her.

~*~

Arnav let himself be caught once more - a second time.

He'd had to hurt Khushi to set her free. Yet, it was his head that bled at Shyam's feet.

Khushi didn't give up after Arnav left her hidden in haystack, but her resources came to an end. She'd reached a dead end. She sought help.

Khushi found blood on Shyam's shoes and then began her quest to hunt Arnav down via Shyam.

Arnav never saw Shyam until Khushi showed him ' right in RM.

Dadi Ji: Is that a win?

Whatever it is that she wanted to do ' yes, she's done it. Though, what she achieved out of it is a pretty big vacuum. And if that makes her happy, then she's probably happy about it.

Though it beats me!

How bitter does one have to be to do exactly and more than what was done to her ' allegedly, by Garima?

She holds her son innocent. And for him, she wrecks the life of his son.

How does that make her happy?

If destruction of Garima does make her happy, how does she expect to live in peace seeing Arnav shattered as a consequence of that destruction?

Dadi ji had a facade running that she called a household. She knew her son was doing something wrong because she says she attempted to correct him. As per her, her daughter-in-law wasn't good enough to hold her family in place. Yet, when an external factor becomes a cause for ruining her household ' she blames it.

So, what she is avenging is ' the destruction of a facade?

So can she now rest in peace? Is her peace worth this?

Others

1. Payal is holding up her sister and her mother. Bravo!!

2. Akash, one good yelling from his wife seems to have worked a bit.

First, he nearly went out to support Garima as she collapsed to the ground.

Next, he got water for Khushi.

Then, he comforted Nani Ji.

3. Nani ji is solely focused on how Arnav might be able to bear it. She knows how hard it may be for him.

4. NK!! You SURE ROCK!

Thanks for putting a stopper on Mami Jaan and pointing her to an area of need.

5. Garima: she's broken. Even though her family believes her and she's forgiven, yet ' seeing Khushi in the state that she is ' is killing Garima. She knew that Khushi would not be able to live without Arnav, and she is right.

Khushi was not able to live without Arnav even when they were at loggerheads. Now, it is not possible.

6. Shashi is such a man of honor. Respect!!

7. LOVED Bua ji's support and care for Garima.

8. Anjali: Why is this happening?

If you stop crying long enough and clean your eyes, you might see the reason sitting right beside you. Hint ' he is wearing bright red.


Hey Shalini! I always read ur posts each day ... tis actually the only one post that i read on the forum the other four are threads basically ... n i always appreciate ur pov ... tis always so optimistic that i luv reading it each time ... but the last line (hilighted) literally made me laugh like crazy ... im still laughing while typing ... u did save the best pc for the last ... lol 🤣 but gud job as always
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Thank you for the lovely analysis Shalini... It was the most emotional and the most painful episode for me.. you have no idea how much I cried for Kushi... Hopefully she will get some happiness tomorrow... Last few minutes of Arnav was amazing...However Kushi stole the show for me...!! I thought everyone did a good job except for Poojali..Had enough of her crying. !!
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Originally posted by: BadbooTongawali

No body loved anything


and u write lovely dear but if no one has the patience and time to read so lonnng write up then why so much of mehnattt.

no body is that intersted what u loved or not.

but u r a good writer


What the????? 😕

Well ignoring that, I've grown to love what you write and patiently wait after each episode...thank you again!!


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Reading...done!

Shalini, Loved your take today - especially how you put Arnav's wrenching choice about the dark past and the brightness that is Khushi. Agree wholeheartedly on Khushi holding on to her faith in her love but her insecurities bubbling slowly to the surface as time goes by as she realizes everyone else around her doesn't think Arnav is going to come and his words about letting go of her hand keep coming back to her. Nani was superb - grace in grief and Anjali was self absorbed in grief - nothing new there.
Dadi accomplished what she set out to do - will she realize how much collateral damage she caused in the process to Arnav, Anjali and Nani. Will she get any peace from whatever demons of the past she has been escaping from - only time will tell.

Shalini, on first watch I liked the episode - a sad heartbreaking one though. I felt for Khushi and loved the reactions from Garima, Shashi, Payal, NK, Akash and Nani. Mami was in character and loved how NK handled her. Shyam was also very much in character and I have completely gone off Anjali - she seems even more self centred than I remember - Shyam actually had to remind her to think about Chhotte - the irony of it!
I must admit I was underwhelmed by Arnav - he should have been railing against fate that finally when he is about to go for his first attempt at happiness and love, he is instead faced with such a tough choice - destiny is having the last laugh at his expense so to speak. My take on it is that the thought of standing Khushi up doens't even cross his mind (all his flashbacks are of her) but his heartbreak is that with Khushi will also come her amma - the woman he's considered equally responsible for his mother's death along with his dad since that night 14 years ago. How does he face up to that? It didn't quite come through in the scene with Arnav - there were flashes but something was missing. Hope I can feel it more when the scene resumes tomorrow.
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Hey shalini lovely post...
Page is playing ramanchi with me...cantlike ur post
so bad
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wow Shal, amazing read as usual. Loved ur last line the most about anjali and why is it happening- even with the obvious being spoken and seen she will not believe the reason. so giving hints wont matter to her at all😆

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