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@ Thush- thanks! and I am so glad to see ppl having the same point of view as mine! Otherwise, I had started feeling like an alien!
I mean I have no problem with people who say that Yash needs to repent big time, becoz I myself feel that. Of course he has to repent big big time! Because what he accused Aarti of was disgusting. And though I do unserstand where that accusation was coming from, he had no right to behave with her the way he did, and accuse her of taking advantage of him, without listening to her or allowing her one chance to explain!
That said, I get absolutely shocked when I read comments like -How can Yash talk about commitment towards a dead wife? How can he still mourn Arpita?How can he call this a sin? What did he expect to do in marriage? Why did he get married then? its ridiculus, etc etc!
Now, did Yash not say clearly why he was getting married and was Aarti not happy with that? Did she also not get married for the same reason? I want to ask one question to all those people who ask the above questions- If Aarti and Yash had gotten drunk and consummated their marriage before Aarti fell in love with Yash, wouldn't Aarti have reacted in the exact similar way? Oh Yes! She would. Have u guys forgotten what she did just becoz her pervert friend Maansi filled her head with crap? Wasn't she accusing Yash of almost the same things even without knowing him? We forgave her becoz she did not know Yash...and Yash is of course much more at fault because he knows her, and he himself was directly involved in what happened- I agree to that..but still.does Yash really know Aarti?I don't think so! And why not? First, because he is too self involved( thats his fault), and second because Aarti never gave him the opportunity to! Lets not forget the biggest lie is still safe with Aarti. Their relationship is still not based on truth!
In short, Yash needs time and space. Aarti should give him cold treatment, and not be clingy! Yesterday, after the hug ( which I can understand was becoz of the emotion), why did she try to stop Yash when he walked past her? I hope mnday onwards she retreats into a shell, and let Yash himself realize his mistakes, and then repent and fall in love by himself!
And in all this, I wonder if Shobha and Aarti have decided to not reveal the divorce truth ever! Its absolutely unforgivable, just as Yash's accusations to Aarti were. If Yash needs to repent big time, Aarti and esp Shobha need to do the same for cheating the entire family! I will call it cheating, because thats what it is! And I hope ppl don't give the excuse that Aarti wanted to say, but shobha didn't let her. Aarti is not a 5 yr old kid who will do what Shobha tells her to do! I don't blame her in hiding it during the wedding, becoz she was emotionally blackmailed by Dubey. But after Yash took the bullet, she wanted to say it, but got so easily convinced by Shobha! Again, before her pregnancy news, she was going to talk about it, I can understand the pregnancy news gave her a bigger jolt, and then Yash's repentance etc was taking up her time, but she is still not thinking about that lie, and I doubt if she is going to in future!
Just as I am mad at Yash for his accusations, I am mad at Aarti for her lie! Not only Yash, she is cheating SP, Gayatri and everyone! Worst is, she keeps on hearing about her ex husband ( bua accused her last day only before the boxing!)..yet, not once does she feel guilty! I was shocked when in Mumbai her friend talked about Prashant, and she literally fled from there, she did not feel the need to come clean with Yash! and then she blamed Shobha and Dubey! Really aarti? U had no role in all this? Was shobha there stopping U in Mumbai?
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