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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hello Peeps😃

Have Been reading some frustration posts about Yash's Behavior...

Just a Question keeps Popping o my head for a quite while now..

Can I really be able to Accept someone in my life after losing my meant to be soulmate whom i loved n dreamed my whole life for years n years ..

My answer is simply No !!!

Yes ,True love can Happen twice but it wont hit for all ...only Few people can make that claim.

When someone like Yash, who is still lost in memories of Arpita,remarries n still he cannot bring love to his wife and that's unfair to Aarti...But When I Put my Self in Yash's place ..Yes His all behaviors was right !

Sometimes people cannot get over their loved one's death throughout their life time and for few yes TRUE Love can happen twice but falling in love and giving a Second chance for love is not at all easy for a person like yash....


When the thought of Your wife first enters your mind, wont you feel guilty or like you are cheating on your spouse?Wont You Ever remember the Memories u spend with ur first suppose when ever u spends it with ur 2nd Suppose? &wont you think that u was Unfaithful to ur First relationship ?

The hardest part is beginning your journey into the love world ONCE Again,whether it has been a long time or a little, it is still an act that takes courage and bravery.

Yash is Not Made of Stone..Arpita was his first love and Mother of his Beautiful 2 kids ..You can not erase or replace your loved once memories just like that...and he is still in the state of guilt ..for few it takes month or years and for few it may even take rest of their life to heal that pain ...

Think CVs showing the right thing ...He married Aarti for the sake of his kids but now he is realizing the love for her but Putting the past behind you and taking hold of the future can be difficult and takes time.

I Know Sometimes its irritating to see Arpita story but i think it shows the true genuine love of Yash for his First wife where some men out there marry for their own happiness😳So I Think We should give some time Yash Ji😳😃

Hope i made some sense herešŸ¤”


P.s: sorry for the typos šŸ˜†

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gafulu14 thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i agree, with u
i like your post
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Nice post Thush...agree with you completely on this ..Yash's character consistency is being maintained..very well written ... its not easy to forget your loved ones...I did not like todays episode may be coz I don't like ArpitašŸ˜†...But he will have to repent big time for his behavior toward Aarti...Its was not her fault...I still have a problem with Aarti...She acts way too clingy at times...may be thats the reason why Prashant left heršŸ˜•...I hope she learns something from Yashs cold behavior atleast..coz after watching todays episode, I don't think she has learnt anything...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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very very nice and matured analysis of yash's situation..
even i had this thought...
yash is no where wrong in his feeling and guilt i feel but the wrong part is his behaviour with aarti due to this...
he can blame himself as sinner but he has no right to disgrace aarti... that part of him is wrong.. but yes he is human and human loose sense of wrong n right when in emotional turmiol...
he is 100 percent right with his loyalty towards arpita but he has no right to openly disgrace aarti between everyone.. he must repent for that
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Brilliant post yar šŸ‘šŸ¼
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Heya dubuku...šŸ˜† BINGO...Wonderfully writtenšŸ‘šŸ¼

Yap...Yash s committed towards His X- wife...Even Aarti too fall for this nature of him only ,where her X-husband fails in it...And I m sure , he ll b more passionate once he started realizes Aarti's selfless love😳😳 waiting for the day 😳😳
Loved the title...šŸ˜›


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Wonderful Post Thush! And I absolutely agree with U. In fact I can very much relate to Yash's guilt and why he considers whatever happened a sin. I would have been shocked if he did not feel guilty or repentant. I wonder why some people are expecting Yash not to feel repentant about it. Arpita was his love for God's sake! Just becoz she is no more, he can't be expected to fall in love with aarti.its ridiculus when ppl say how can he even think of being committed towards his dead wife! What is loyalty then? how do these ppl expect Yash to be loyal with aarti then? and why do these same ppl blame prashant for loving nida? just becoz aarti was alive and not dead?šŸ˜•
Yash is the only character in the show who has been consistent throughout. he always had made it clear that he would not hv any relation with his wife. someone mentioned why then did he not say so to aarti before wedding? well, aarti's behaviour towards him made him certain that she was not looking for a husband!
I don't agree with shobha and aarti when they say Yash should not feel guilty. For aarti, its love, but for Yash, it was mainly his physical attraction for aarti which he couldn't control becoz he was intoxicated.so its normal to feel guilt.
My problem with Yash is his blaming aarti for it.I realize he did that becoz smwhere he knew he himself was wrong, and he couldn't bear that he had cheated arpita, but, he had no right blaming her. only that is his fault, and he has to repent big time for it.
as far as aarti is concerned, aditi already wrote why i can't relate to her smtimes!
In fact her similar behaviour in Mumbai before the CON,telling Yash that he had sm place for her, staring at him non-stop, making plans with aman to get him jealous, etc actually led Yash to believe that she could hv deliberately made him drink bhaang as well.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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nice post.
Agree with u.
But he has is wrong to blame aarti for everything.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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wonderful post ... cant agree more...😳
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Posted: 13 years ago
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beautiful postšŸ‘... n i agree that it is difficult to forget ur first love and in case of Yash he had been truly in love with Arpita... but during that intoxication also physical attraction was not the only reason somewhere deep inside heart he has feelings for her and he was quite clear when he says he does not hate rains anymore...
having said this, his guilt feel is perfectly normal for a man like him as he loves his first wife immensely and the thought of having intimacy with someone else is pricking him...
but i hated it when he accused aarti as the sole reason for the whole CON thing...

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