The way both children Shiv n Jagya r now as on today depends totally on the upbringing methodology adopted upto becoming a major, after that, individual choices adopted for responding situations of life... Set of obligations,goals,n strategies to strike balance between giving n receiving...
For example , Daddu suggested Shiv how best a work can b executed n its necessity in offering the best service possible that keeps us distinguished above others...so inspiringly ... N naturally ...in the case of plucking/cutting the Roses...(the elders' role ended here...)
(now...the individual's role begins..)
he was failed ... But never stopped trying to achieve it... He demonstrated his success by properly finishing the task...in totality...from cutting the flowers n sending it to his fiance' (converted skillset to service ..the best n exemplary ofcourse)
Here elders n children r on perfect path to enjoy the life...come what may...
In case of jagya...
Becoming a doctor is to b a noticeable person to receive name fame n wealth... Not to offer better service ... As fed by DS, n haveli log nurturing his ego n pride...man is born to receive is their ideology ...
So was jagya...his received new name (not earned) jagat n new girl.friend, new status ... All for his sake...till today...
Its all just because there is always a limiting point to give out...& for receiving there is no such limit..!
Hence until an equilibrium is achieved between limited giving n unlimited receiving , there wd b imbalances that result in unhappiness...through loss of peace of mind...
Those who cd bend themselves 4 the best service with love.. Achieve anything..and everything...