@mocking bird... you explained your pov i understand but still i differ with you here 😆 ...yes when you marry a person love a person you accept him whole heartedly but here you tell me is this Gauri's first mistake...no ..since when she was living up to his expectations that we put this blame on him that one day he found out she is not worthy of me and left her ..countless times she insulted him in public and alone i am not saying he took everything happily he fought back but did he ever leave her no , that badi massi's incident did he left her no , after her miscarriage where i think he stopped her many times not to drive in pregnancy but did he leave her no , after ruining his career did he leave her no ...why ? because at that time he had trust on her he knew she loves me one day or the other everything will change and get back to normal...so he did accepted her at her worst ...or you call these she was at her best? ...if he lied to her he wanted to be with her not to use her for his purposes she lied to him to use him for her purposes ...
if he lied he asked forgiveness she lied she is showing off attitude proving to him neither she loves him neither she is sorry for her action..for her he is her puppet she can do whatever with him she has every right but he has no right to question her she did wrong with him this is what she proved to him by fighting back not even accepting she did wrong even in lying to her husband ..if she realizes his worth why not give a call and say sorry ...even fake but she is not doing so ..so what is left for him to stay with her when she is proving to him she doesn't love him proving to him she won't change ...like i said loving a person at his worst means you have faith one day that person will change which Jagaya had before for Gauri thats why he was glued with her when that trust broke what is left for him to stay with her you tell...if he once upon a time lied to her later he did his best to be sincere to her each and every time whatever happen how much they fought what what Gauri did he didn't leave her ..for what her love ..this time that trust broke when it is revealed to him when she proved to him she doesn't love him all her love shove was just to separate him from his family..he followed her thinking she is doing his best all are wrong she is right now when reality will open to him what he should do still encourage her stay with her o because once upon a time i lied to you that gave you right to do whatever with me 😕this is impossible my dear ...your argument will work then if Gauri says sorry to him accepts her mistake of lying and cheating to him then he refuses to accept her or say i hate you then you can say he is doing injustice because she too accepted him after he lied to her he asked forgiveness she forgave him so why he is doing so .now .but did she even try .?..yesterday you must have seen her true love ..this is her love when Jagaya was no longer useful to her he chose his family over her she lost her challenge ..for her he lives or dies doesn't matter .when this woman has no shame for relations then why he should be glued to her following relations ...relations are based on trusts ..love also has one most major element in it trust when trusts breaks relations or love don't stay ..and i think if a trust breaker realizes his mistake then he should try to build trust back not the person whose trust is broken he should ..here Gauri broke Jagaya's trust big time she should try to rebuild it and see but when she is not trying proving to him she doesn't care damn about him so why he should be running after her and what for he claim to love her that 's why only he should make sacrifices she should not do anything ...even after she breaks his trust on her still he should keep giving her chances she should not make any effort ?and certainly the case is not very small like he found she lied to him .major thing she used to him for her revenge against his family...
about Jagaya's lie to his family well i agree he shouldn't have lied but i guess as he told why he lied was not to give this impact to his family he knows about Anandi's engagement and only came after that. to interfere in it .if he will show he doesn't know about it then family will think he came on his own to ask forgiveness without any knowledge about Anandi's engagement ..but this lie back fired him as dadisaa had his shoes which he didn;t know ...if people say why he came to ask forgiveness well i believe this is normal human reaction when a person realizes his mistake he did wrong his first action is ask forgivness when now he didn't got that so surely in future he will find a way to rectify his mistakes
certainly no offence been taken from your comments you have your view points ..i have mine discussing them with agreeing or disagreeing is what we do on public forum ..isn't it ?
Edited by mahi12 - 12 years ago
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