Was anandi ever really in love with jagya

There have been numerous posts about anandi in love with jagya and I wonder was she ever really in love with jagya. I feel no and feel jagya was only her good childhood friend whom she accepted as everything and person to be loved based on societal traditions and the conditioning of her mind by parents and others. Even now she has closed her mind mentally as she may not be able to think or believe that she can love again. After all love has been always glorified like heer ranjha or Romeo juliet. But in real life does it really happen. A relationship that is lasting is based on mutual respect liking and friendship. Likewise I don't blame jagya as well if he felt gauri is more suitable, but only problem was he asserted for his love in a wrong way.
PS this is purely from healthy discussion or debate and please don't make it a warfare

One thing is for sure.She loved him more than her life.

lol 😆 good question !

Was this love also not conditioned where she was told by her parents and in laws that husband or Beendh is everything and that is why she feels that she loved him. If one recalls anandi clearly states after divorce that she never really knew the meaning of love, but by the time she was mature enough to understand the meaning jagya went away. So she never got a chance to understand what it is and as prats said in her interview she is understanding it from shiv. Just again a academic question

I think she was more in love with the idea/feeling of love then in love with Jagia but only Anandi can tell us the truth.

i think its an interesting question. but it also depends on your definition of love...

You are right I think love is not static and from these standards that glorifying love as ever eternal may be wrong. We should the accept realities that love is ever evolving and without our realization we may grow out of love or fall in love depending on circumstances

this thing was discussed way back...!!

Originally posted by: khusi_*

this thing was discussed way back...!!

and in my POV..yes anandi loved jagiya!!

and TM said that..she didnt explore the new world thats y she never come across someone else...may be she wud have got better partner n wud have realised she never loved jag!!

but my ans was...

anandi loved him with his all positive n negative points..she wanted his happiness all the time..she just gave..never demanded anything...thats what i call love...that is i am seeing in shiv too...he accepted anandi with all her flaws n positiveness..n more imp he wants her happiness..understands her...!!

She lacks that grip/possessive nature towards her lover... the reason cd be conservative upbringing n joint family elders cutting short their privacy in the early years of consummation.. had they sent Anandi to mumbai along with jagya...his satiated bio needs cd hv avoided damage of marital life...hence I feel Anandi so far had not faced a lover so far..
Just like asha (took proactive decision 4 marriage n had developed feelings for Abhishek) who had marriage after love ...

n

sugna(knew she bn loved by shyam but carried the memories of previous husband for long time like Anandi) who had developed love after marriage...
in Both the cases husbands love the wives much...Anandi knew she's bn loved deeply by shiv ,,n she wd b kept happy like shyam n Abhishek ...
Love is not an itch like infatuation...an acute condition...a two-minute affair...

But a chronic desire to like each other...by understanding each other that develops slowly...she has life time romance ahead...

Hence Anandi need not worry @ all...