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Posted: 13 years ago
#11
regarding his self talk ...I feel he is insecure ..and is scared of loosing the only reason for him to be alive ...
as far a his reaction on seeing Sidhi .. i still feel we have to give him the benefit of doubt here ...
and more than that give him sometime for the reality to sink in and then only we will get to see his true feelings and what he is thinking..
as of now too many questions ,too many doubts doing rounds in his mind..he is completely confused, totally shocked Plus the scenario of their first meet was not pleasant from his POV

honestly I really feel whatever the situation is, MUs , hatred etc, when you see your wife or your Ex, giving her hand to someone else .. the first reaction can never be so what if she is with some one else at least she is happy, the first reaction will always be how can she ..??

the emotions always have upper hand on logic and practicality .. logically he should be happy seeing her after 9 years , being out of jail etc but emotionally he will be hurt as he saw her with someone else..
surely with time once he starts accepting she has moved on , he will be happy for her.. but right now to expect him to be happy for her would be asking for too much ..
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Posted: 13 years ago
#12
hi

Originally posted by: jay_bpm

@Noreen - I would agree Kunal had his son with him but that's why he'll be possessive of him. His family, well we saw how they behave. If it was upto them , creature would be married.
About creature being around - I agree. But it's all complicated with her. KC doesn't like Herr presence in the house bier does he allow her to go near AC very much. So I doubt he trusts her as his approach would be different with her. He didn'taallow AC to be with her alone.
What he said about Siddhi trying to kill, well I still don't understand that. Because if he did believe that, why waste his life thinking he failed as a lawyer & pine for Siddhi feeling bad he lost her. So that one was just to mess with our head?

Now 9 years- I don't expect him to gk meet Siddhi as if he did; why separation?
Besides I understand him being very hurt by what Siddhi said. Right after Siddhi made deal with creature, she went to meet KC & behaved rudely. Later Veena & vira went to tell Kunal she's changed. Siddhi herself didn't speak to KC properly outside court. In court room she called Kunal a murderer & testified against him. After all this, KC still didn't believe it.when he went to meet Siddhi- she did he'll of a job in putting up the lie.
After the way Siddhi behaved, what family said matched with circumstances KC still went to meet the person he lloved more than his life. There Siddhi blasts him by blaming him for not doing anything for her. She breaks her relation & tells him never to show hos face as she hates him. So Siddhi was the first one to leave & abandon Kunal at the mercy of creature. So I wouldn't blame KC as he did what Siddhi asked him to do since she hated seeing his face so much.

I know it is lame but whole separation thing was presented badly. Even if KC mustered enough courage to meet Siddhi, she would honor her deal & hurt Kunal more. So I would be fine if KC didn't go to meet Siddhi as she too wanted that.




jay the separation was a forced one and a plain example of bad writing and they highly butchered kc, esp in the episodes pre leap. Still to get over that shock and disgust seeing vamp in his room. unacceptable. imagine if abhay or another man tries to kill kunal at some point and siddhi knowing that lets him in her bedroom??????? how would you look at that then ?

point is siddhi did alot for him and his family in the past, for humanity sake he could have shown trying to get her out of jail, re appealing etc. if surekha could why couldnt kunal? i know him meeting siddhi feared him that she may say something bad to him and he will be hurt and feel rejection again, however he could have done things for her without meeting her via someone else or atleast re open her case. as of now we know nothing. did he even attempt to get her out. he helped all the woman in the show, be it shilpa, seema, even the vamp( vineet casea), why nothing for siddhi????????

kc clearly knew siddhi never killed rohit, but just bec he felt rejected by her and she tried to tarp him the case and took money, he thought its better to let her rot in jail. in a way he has taken revenge over her already na.

i dont disagree with kunal being possessive about AC, he ought to to be, but honestly speaking i saw no signs of insecurity or fear on his face on fri, he rather looked hurt only. i rem during the guilt time he said he couldnt forget siddhi was his bro gf and he loved her etc. but the fact was he couldnt take the fact that siddhi still loved anand. here too though it may look like insecurity over AC in future, the fact would be his own anger and hurt for siddhi and what happened 9 yrs back will overpower all.

plus the vamp says kunal hates siddhi, bec she must be believing that he does believe he tried to kill the kid. by saying siddhi tried to kill the kid, kc is questioning siddhi humanity, even animals wont kill they own kids and he thinks siddhi is worse than that???? these thngs have hurted me alot being a sinal fan. its not that i dont want to sympaqthise with kunal etc, but what he has done cant be justified.

i have myself criticised siddhi's lame sacrifice many times, but the fact is if kunal is out of jail, with his kids, and family, its all bec of siddhi

siddhi became a victim of thakral's and vamp;s hatred only bec she got married to kc. i mean the issue was with kc, it was his dirsty past which siddhi paid for. not justifying her actions and sacrifices, infact i blame her for marrying kc in the first place, which woman in her right frame of mind will marry a looser.

sorry if i have offended you jay,


norzar
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Posted: 13 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: norzar

hi





jay the separation was a forced one and a plain example of bad writing and they highly butchered kc, esp in the episodes pre leap. Still to get over that shock and disgust seeing vamp in his room. unacceptable. imagine if abhay or another man tries to kill kunal at some point and siddhi knowing that lets him in her bedroom??????? how would you look at that then ?

point is siddhi did alot for him and his family in the past, for humanity sake he could have shown trying to get her out of jail, re appealing etc. if surekha could why couldnt kunal? i know him meeting siddhi feared him that she may say something bad to him and he will be hurt and feel rejection again, however he could have done things for her without meeting her via someone else or atleast re open her case. as of now we know nothing. did he even attempt to get her out. he helped all the woman in the show, be it shilpa, seema, even the vamp( vineet casea), why nothing for siddhi????????

kc clearly knew siddhi never killed rohit, but just bec he felt rejected by her and she tried to tarp him the case and took money, he thought its better to let her rot in jail. in a way he has taken revenge over her already na.

i dont disagree with kunal being possessive about AC, he ought to to be, but honestly speaking i saw no signs of insecurity or fear on his face on fri, he rather looked hurt only. i rem during the guilt time he said he couldnt forget siddhi was his bro gf and he loved her etc. but the fact was he couldnt take the fact that siddhi still loved anand. here too though it may look like insecurity over AC in future, the fact would be his own anger and hurt for siddhi and what happened 9 yrs back will overpower all.

plus the vamp says kunal hates siddhi, bec she must be believing that he does believe he tried to kill the kid. by saying siddhi tried to kill the kid, kc is questioning siddhi humanity, even animals wont kill they own kids and he thinks siddhi is worse than that???? these thngs have hurted me alot being a sinal fan. its not that i dont want to sympaqthise with kunal etc, but what he has done cant be justified.

i have myself criticised siddhi's lame sacrifice many times, but the fact is if kunal is out of jail, with his kids, and family, its all bec of siddhi

siddhi became a victim of thakral's and vamp;s hatred only bec she got married to kc. i mean the issue was with kc, it was his dirsty past which siddhi paid for. not justifying her actions and sacrifices, infact i blame her for marrying kc in the first place, which woman in her right frame of mind will marry a looser.

sorry if i have offended you jay,


norzar


@bold , agree on that with you Noreen, she was working peacefully in thakaral's office and living a happy life with her sibling .. all the problem in her life began when she got associated chopra's beginning with Anand and more so when her name changed from sidhi Malik to Sidhi Kunal Chopra ..since then her life has turned up side down due to Kunal's dirty past , his selfish sister and the clown family... Kunal might have given lot of love but gave her more pain and tears and finally left her alone to lick her wounds... when she needed him the most...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: d.padmini


@bold , agree on that with you Noreen, she was working peacefully in thakaral's office and living a happy life with her sibling .. all the problem in her life began when she got associated chopra's beginning with Anand and more so when her name changed from sidhi Malik to Sidhi Kunal Chopra ..since then her life has turned up side down due to Kunal's dirty past , his selfish sister and the clown family... Kunal might have given lot of love but gave her more pain and tears and finally left her alone to lick her wounds... when she needed him the most...


thats why my heart goes out to siddhi more, bec i feel she has suffered from day 1, if she had married anand things would have not been as bad as marrying kc . pity is the guy till date doesnt realise his dirty past destroyed siddhi. And yes like i said before its her OWN fault to marry a someone who wasnt worth it maybe.

kunal has loved her alot, i know his love for her in undying and i will never deny or doubt his love for siddhi, but the fact is he could never protect her, he never respected her, he never trusted her and even now he wont understand her. its still about his so called insecurity, fear, ego etc. Where does the lady fit in?

norzar
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: norzar

hi



Jay sinal's situations are different. Kunal had his son to live with all these yrs and his family too. While siddhi was all alone. So siddhi being insecure is natural. So far we have seen her say to herself reg Ad that whenever kunal will meet you i want him to feel proud of you????

Here kunal himself pointed out infront of the vamp siddhi tried to kill the kid, so all of sudden he thinking siddhi will take the same kid who she wanted dead away form him, that after 9 yrs. makes no sense also.

and kunal still has alot of ego, see the way he talked to abhay on the party, what was the need for that attitude and anger on abhay. Abhay so far hasnt done anything wrong against him na. He was just giving him attitude and ego for nothing

Reg siddhi like i have said bef, she knows what the vamp is and the fact what she did with kunal and chopras in past yet kunal ending up marrying her, gives her one more reason to be upset. Just bec she left kunal doesnt mean he marries the shameless vamp na

Reg the the vamp's presence bothering me, well it will always do, nothing can justify his behaviour of letting the vamp in and trusting her again. Makes no sense. Maybe thats why i dont have much sympathy for kunal bec 9 yrs he let AC be around Vamp. As of now we dont even know if he ever checked upon siddhi in these 9 yrs, if it alter turns out to be true and he never tried to help her in these 9 yrs, how do you expect me to sympathise and feel bad for him.

norzar

Really very well said. I agree with your nice views and thinking according to me.
Actually kunal has not much faith in siddhi. His most important thing is to show attitude and ego. He is a complex person.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: jay_bpm

@Noreen - I would agree Kunal had his son with him but that's why he'll be possessive of him. His family, well we saw how they behave. If it was upto them , creature would be married.
About creature being around - I agree. But it's all complicated with her. KC doesn't like Herr presence in the house bier does he allow her to go near AC very much. So I doubt he trusts her as his approach would be different with her. He didn'taallow AC to be with her alone.
What he said about Siddhi trying to kill, well I still don't understand that. Because if he did believe that, why waste his life thinking he failed as a lawyer & pine for Siddhi feeling bad he lost her. So that one was just to mess with our head?

Now 9 years- I don't expect him to gk meet Siddhi as if he did; why separation?
Besides I understand him being very hurt by what Siddhi said. Right after Siddhi made deal with creature, she went to meet KC & behaved rudely. Later Veena & vira went to tell Kunal she's changed. Siddhi herself didn't speak to KC properly outside court. In court room she called Kunal a murderer & testified against him. After all this, KC still didn't believe it.when he went to meet Siddhi- she did he'll of a job in putting up the lie.
After the way Siddhi behaved, what family said matched with circumstances KC still went to meet the person he lloved more than his life. There Siddhi blasts him by blaming him for not doing anything for her. She breaks her relation & tells him never to show hos face as she hates him. So Siddhi was the first one to leave & abandon Kunal at the mercy of creature. So I wouldn't blame KC as he did what Siddhi asked him to do since she hated seeing his face so much.

I know it is lame but whole separation thing was presented badly. Even if KC mustered enough courage to meet Siddhi, she would honor her deal & hurt Kunal more. So I would be fine if KC didn't go to meet Siddhi as she too wanted that.

Whatever you saying are your views, But I want to tell one thing that If someone love to other more than his life then one should not believe her action and speaking but should believe the situation and make sense. In the rape case track when rohit kidnapped siddhi and ritcha gave the permission to guards to kill siddhi - all those thing should be thinked by kunal. He knew that whenever siddhi in tensed she always blasts on him he should remind her nature. So the much more blame would be given to kunal.

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