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Posted: 13 years ago

I feel really badly for purvi. she always takes the brunt of their actions. before she was humilated because she had an "affair" with her sister's fiance even though arjun was the one who failed to inform her of the relationship. she had her friendship w/ tej ruined bc of her mothers inability to open her mouth about the divorce. and now bc her mother cannot tell the truth she is forced to sacrifice her marriage so that her mothers may survive. god she has become the sacrificial lamb. others make the stupid decisions and yet shes the one who faces the consequences

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KatRulz

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Posted: 13 years ago

Archana doesn't know any truth yet...except Sachin drama...

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xodramalover

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Posted: 13 years ago

I feel sad for Purvi. She is obviously going to pick her mother over her love.

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namitagloryz

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Posted: 13 years ago

All these just because she's an adopted child. Archana's life is so messed up that even if Purvi sacrifices nothing will improve. Savita and Sachin still want the divorce. Arjun will never want to marry Ovi. I think even if Purvi tells Arjun to accept Ovi, he'll just go away to some place where no one can find him.

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Jaishankar

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Posted: 13 years ago

IF Archu ever thought Purvi as her adopted child then she would not be doing what she is right now,willing to sacrifice everything for Purvi including her family..Its that undoubted love and that feeling of gratitude that Purvi has towards Archu that is making her do this..Well If Archu is hiding facts,Purvi is too doing the same..Hoe come Archu is responsible here.Purvi is not telling her mother Ovi had submitted the affidavit ,what is Archu's fault here.

Archu has sacrificed more than anyone will ever and has been punished more than anyone.

Archu time and again has supported Purvi against her own daughters and family..What else is needed..Should Archu now give her life to prove her love for Purvi.

Its not Purvi who is facing the brunt ,it is Archu who is facing it.She has lost everything and is loosing everything coz she is supporting the right cause i.e Arjun and Purvi.If ever she would have thought about herself her life would be in a different zone right now.

Archu's mistake is she is too selfless and too good to be true.And Purvi having brought by Archu and having seen the pain Archu has/is going through for the past 18 years feels the need of Archu re-uniting with her family and unfortunately she feels directly/indirectly responsible for this coz of the Arjun - Ovi engagement mess.

So its natural she is bound to react that way.But sacrificing her love for Arjun is not Archu's fault ,its Purvi's own decision.

Her mother has repeatedly advised her and said that they are going ahead with the divorce for a reason.Purvi's blind love for her Baba and he delusion that Manav will do her Kanyadhan is making her do these things which is beyond Archu's control.

But even if Purvi tries to Sacrifice Archu wont allow it and she is very adamant on that.As long as Archu is there she wont allow Purvi to sacrifice her love.IF Purvi goes beyond that and still tires to ,both Arman wont allow it as they both know that Arjun - Purvi love each other and Manav himself does not want Arjun for Ovi now.

If still Purvi makes up a plan and fools all to do this sacrifice then she is not bringing her Aai happiness but more pain for herself and her Aai.Archu would be the most devastated and Arjun lost.

so Archu is no where the reason for Purvi's pain but Archu is the reason for Purvi's existence for the undoubted love,caring and education she has given to her daughter.

Archu loves Purvi more than her life and Purvi is feeling indebted for the undoubted love and care her Aai has given her which is blinding her thought process.

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KatRulz

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Posted: 13 years ago

Oh yeah Archana is responsible for everything happy.
She forces Arjun to love Purvi and leave Ovi.
She forces Ovi to have a Arman/Arjun deal with Purvi.
She told Ovi to submit affidavit in court.

A blind person can even see Archana love toward Purvi and Vice Versa.
U r saying Archu forces Purvi to sacrifice marriage.
I mean seriously Archana made a big mistake by adopting Purvi.
Archana and Sachin story is diffrent.It has nothing to do with current .

Really OVI has no fault.

Edited by pvrr - 13 years ago

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ptecvish

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Posted: 13 years ago

Has archana forced purvi to sacrifice Arjun?
Did archana force purvi to go to sukriti or file the earlier affidavit that she cannot take care of archana and sulochana?
Did archana force purvi to expose punni and make her an enemy?
Did not archana tell purvi repeatedly to keep away from her divorce affairs and let it happen?
Did archana ask purvi to go to manav and beg him not to divorce her?
Was archana forced in anyway to adopt purvi and give get a home?
What archana did with her life 18 years ago is her own for which she is suffering. Purvi has a choice to keep away and not listen to ovi.
Whatever choice archana made was her responsibility. So whatever choice purvi makes is hers alone. No one forced her to make any choice , especially Archana. If she chooses to listen and trust ovi, she alone us responsible now.
It is true for each one of us that whatever we face in life is indeed due to circumstances / situations around us made or not made by others. But the decisions we take are our own responsibility! So others should not be blamed.

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KatRulz

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Posted: 13 years ago

Bas Zabardasti bematlab Archu ko hi bash krna hai baki sab toh jaise dhoodh ke dhoole h.

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xxxnm

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: pvrr
Oh yeah Archana is responsible for everything happy.
She forces Arjun to love Purvi and leave Ovi.
She forces Ovi to have a Arman/Arjun deal with Purvi.
She told Ovi to submit affidavit in court.

A blind person can even see Archana love toward Purvi and Vice Versa.
U r saying Archu forces Purvi to sacrifice marriage.
I mean seriously Archana made a big mistake by adopting Purvi.
Archana and Sachin story is diffrent.It has nothing to do with current .

Really OVI has no fault.

uh... did i ever say that anybody forced somebody to do anything. did i say archu forced arjun to leave ovi for purvi or any of the other stuff ? NO. I said that arjun by not telling about people about his relationship w/ ovi, purvi got the brunt of the backlash bc everybody including her own mother thought she was guilty. and she doesnt need to force ovi to make a deal. but archu always says that she will nvr ever see her kids and that it makes her sad. archu inabiity to tell the truth has made the divorce go thru. so now bc of archu decision, purvi is faced w/ the oppurtunity to make her mother happy by purvi proposal. as a adapted child, purvi is so grateful that she will take ths oppurtunity bc she knows how much her mother wants it. archu reasoning to not tell the truth was bakwass. and now bc of that bakwaas decision whether INTENTIONAL OR NOT it means that purvi will sacrifice her love for her mothers happiness. nobody may have forced her to do it. but there is something called being grateful. purvi will not choose her hapiness over her mothers if given the oppurtunity. this does not mean that archu knew what was going to happen but that her illogical reasoning for divorce affects other lives and decision making whether she means to or not

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xxxnm

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: ptecvish
Has archana forced purvi to sacrifice Arjun?
Did archana force purvi to go to sukriti or file the earlier affidavit that she cannot take care of archana and sulochana?
Did archana force purvi to expose punni and make her an enemy?
Did not archana tell purvi repeatedly to keep away from her divorce affairs and let it happen?
Did archana ask purvi to go to manav and beg him not to divorce her?
Was archana forced in anyway to adopt purvi and give get a home?
What archana did with her life 18 years ago is her own for which she is suffering. Purvi has a choice to keep away and not listen to ovi.
Whatever choice archana made was her responsibility. So whatever choice purvi makes is hers alone. No one forced her to make any choice , especially Archana. If she chooses to listen and trust ovi, she alone us responsible now.
It is true for each one of us that whatever we face in life is indeed due to circumstances / situations around us made or not made by others. But the decisions we take are our own responsibility! So others should not be blamed.

again when did i say that she forced her to do this. but archu divorce affects those around her, not just her. and arjun decision to not tell purvi about ovi has created a complex situation in which she bears the most blame from society and the deshmukhs. no one needs to force someone to make a choice. but there is a thing called gratefulness which purvi as an adapted child feels immensley towards archu. and archu bakwaas reasoning for divorce is now affecting purvi who has the oppurtinity to sacrifice her happiness for aii. its not to say that purvi isn't taking responsibility for her actions. but if archu had told the truth, and not taken the foolish decision she made, purvi would not be in such a horrible circumstance where she loses the most, once again. its not saying that she isn't making her own decisions but really what kind of choice is it when u choose b/t ur mom's happiness and ur own?

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