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BedOfRoses

@AwesomeSauce.

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Posted: 13 years ago

Hey guys, I've been a member of this Forum for sometime now and this is my first post over here. :D

My friend is undergoing a heartbreak and it was under those circumstances she asked me 'Kya hum apne pyaar ko itni jaldi bhool sakte hain?' [Translation: Can we forget our love so easily and fast?]

And though I knew the answer I was not able to answer her. So, I thought of raising this topic over here.

Can one forget his/her first love that easily? That you forget it at first place?

I think that you can never forget your first true love. Either the scars left behind stay there forever, or your heart never beats the same way again. I don't think you can ever forget anyone that you loved or were in a long or meaningful relationship with. Eventually you love again, but you love differently. You will love more carefully, more cautiously. Your first love will always have a special place in your hearts. And this is what makes your first love so special. You love so hard, so deeply, and so intensely because you don't know any different. You can never forget your first love because he is the person you shared your happiness and worries with. Because you really cared for him and he was your FIRST LOVE. While your first love maybe lost in time, somewhere within your heart, the memories of your first love still linger on. It will definitely remain as a sweet memory till the end of your life.

That is what I think. What do you guys think?

So, debate away! :D

Aditi

Edited by Aquilia_Aditi - 13 years ago

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Freethinker112

@Freethinker112

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Posted: 13 years ago

I don't think so. It was the first time you felt such feelings and I think they remain in some corner of the mind. Sure, you won't be bothered always by the memories, but they will be there nonetheless.

But you know what, scratch all that. I am too young to comment about it. Come back in 20-30 years and then I will tell ya. 😆

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Heart

@Heart

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Posted: 13 years ago

If you want to forget your first love, get a better second love.. 😃

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Believe

@-Believe-

Stunner

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Posted: 13 years ago

Hmmm as per my experiance,first love is the first step to nxt level... mature person does not fall in love ...its happen slowly...

Haule haule se dawa lagti hai
Haule haule se dua lagti hai
Haule Haule chanda badhta hai
Haule Haule Ghonghat uth ta hai
Haule haule se nasha chadhta hai
Haan
Tu sabar to kar mere yaar
Zara saans to le dildaar

Chal fikar nu goli maar
Yaar hai din jindai de chaar

Haule haule ho jayega pyaar chal yaar
Haule haule ho jayega pyaar
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Edited by Prometeus - 13 years ago

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Ankithate

@Ankithate

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Posted: 13 years ago

First Love Cant Be Forgetten !
Ya love may happen twice thrice or more as u can get attracted to othr persons too , u can fall for any1 else , one can move on life BUT
from my experience First Love Can Not Be Forgetten !

the first Person u Fall for , the first person u cared for cant be forgetten ,
though u may move on , get engage with many othrs thng but some time in a day u will miss that person presnce , u will loose a heart beat when her name being taken !
So first love is not somthng that can be forgetten !

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Forever-KA

@Forever-KA

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Posted: 13 years ago

Anything positive that you do first holds more importance anyway. So it is not just about love.

It is more about nostalgia than anything else. It is possible that one finds a better person in future in terms of nature, looks, personality etc but still keeps thinking about the first love. If another person were to analyze the two subjects (first and second love) independently then maybe person will come to conclusion ok what the heck did he or she see in first love. lol.

so yes these things are mostly emotional however true for most and not for some.

Edited by King-Anu - 13 years ago

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return_to_hades

@return_to_hades

Stunner

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Posted: 13 years ago

You never forget the people who matter in your lives.

Whenever you lose someone you care for, initially, it is painful and you wish you could forget. Memories hamper you from moving on and being happy. Eventually though you learn to live with it. It will always be a part of you. The pain goes away and turns into memories of good times and cherished memories. You move on and accept what is for what it is.

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Kya.Bolta.Tu

@Kya.Bolta.Tu

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Posted: 13 years ago

No,one cannot forget their forst love but afterwords its just the memories not the actual feeling one had then,as the time passes we adjust to our surrounding and the life moves with same pace.

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Angel-likeDevil

@Angel-likeDevil

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Posted: 13 years ago

Anything that happens for the 'first time' is very memorable 😆

No one forgets their first accident when learning to ride a bike 😆

It's more about the 'first' sentiment and it's because you never experienced anything like that before - the feeling and emotions were all NEW, therefore, it's very memorable.

My appendicitis surgery and pain is VERY memorable, I am very attached to my surgeon and that hospital that didnt let me die 😆

Any incident, for that matter - happens and places you in a position mentally/physically/emotionally where you have never been before is very memorable. It gets deeply etched on your mind. And, I have to say, people are melo-dramatic about things concerning love... hence the extra hype about 'first love'. And, this is to an extent because people place 'love/relationships/human connections' on a high pedastal.

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Neetz

@.Jane..

Stunner

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Posted: 13 years ago

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I think if your first love was really 'love' as the emotion is supposed to be, then no you cannot forget it. You will always have a soft-corner for that person and even if it ends badly, you can never wish anything but happiness for them. Both will be hurt but time heals that wound and the relationship becomes a fond memory, a beautiful chapter in your life which was never meant to last forever. If it's any other way, then it was never 'love' in the first place.